April 25, 2023
Episode 54: Dr. Allen Lycka - How to Live a Fantastic Life
At the top of his career, Dr. Allen Lycka was told he had six months to live. He was a world-leading cosmetic dermatologist in 2003 when he was crushed by a misdiagnosis. He trusted his intuition to continue searching for answers. Ultimately, he defied the odds, fully recovered, and learned to thrive. Because of Dr. Lycka's struggle, he set out on a new path to share inspiration through his book, The Secrets To Living A Fantastic Life. The book is co-written with Harriet Tinka, a Woman of Distinction Winner who survived after being kidnapped, stabbed, and left for dead. Dr. Lycka has dedicated his life to being in service to others. He helps people overcome adversity and live a Fantastic Life personally and professionally. In this episode, Dr. Lycka graciously shares his personal story and reveals the "13 Golden Pearls" for Living a Fantastic Life.
TRIGGER WARNING: This episode contains a reference to suicide. Listener discretion is advised.
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Thank you for being a Beautiful Human.
Transcript
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Hello, beautiful humans.
Welcome to the human Beauty
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movement podcast.
I'm your host Jennifer Norman.
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Throughout my life, I've been a
lover and a seeker of all things
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beauty from art and dance to
cosmetics, and fashion to music
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and nature.
But through my own personal
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Journey.
I've come to discover what I
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believe is the most beautiful
thing.
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In the universe, the beauty of
the human soul.
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On this podcast, I sit down with
beautiful humans.
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From all corners of the globe
and all walks of life to learn
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how they are living their own
unique.
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Soul Beauty out loud.
You'll hear from game changers.
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Rebels with gray causes stages
odds, M and Valiant Warriors who
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fall down seven times and get up
eight.
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This is the podcast where
abundant energy flows and
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supreme wisdom is bestowed, get
ready to enjoy the inspiration.
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Hello, beautiful humans.
Today we're going to talk about
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life.
Beyond Beauty.
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My guest today is dr.
Alan Leica dr.
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Leica has been acknowledged as
one of the leading cosmetic
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dermatologist in the world.
For three decades, a Pioneer in
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his field, he is an inventor
author of 17 books and over 30
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academic papers for many years.
He hosted inside cosmetic
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surgery today at top internet
radio show, but that all changed
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and that's why I have him here
to talk with you.
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Welcome dr.
Lika, well, welcome Jeez, I'm so
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glad to be here.
Jennifer, it's so much fun.
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Yes, I'm delighted to have you
here so you can share your
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story.
So, let's dial it back.
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You spent a lot of years as a
cosmetic dermatologist, can you
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share a little bit of what that
was like?
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No cosmetic.
Dermatology was probably one of
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the best things that I could
ever do.
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You know, I have the chance of
making beautiful people.
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Even more beautiful helping to
bring out the insides of them
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and make them shine to the
world.
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So it was Leah calling that I
had.
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And the Beautiful Thing I was
there at the start of the, many
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of the things they were doing,
you know, I was there when Botox
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was invented.
I was there, when fillers were
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invented.
I was there when lasers were
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just starting to be used in
cosmetic surgery.
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So, it was a beautiful wonderful
time that I was able to help
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influence many of those things
and how bring him to another
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level.
Well, that is really
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fascinating, because after
having been in the beauty
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industry for so many, Years
myself, there has been
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definitely a lot of discussion
about cosmetic surgery,
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cosmetic, Dermatology, and the
like, and the impact that it has
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on society in a positive way and
in a, perhaps not so positive
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way.
So I was curious about your take
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you say, you love to make people
that were beautiful even more
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beautiful.
And so certainly you saw what
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seems to be an after effect of
high self-esteem of people
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feeling really happy about their
results.
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Is that right?
Well, That's exactly what it was
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about, you know, but you can't
make a person, see something
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that they cannot, but the answer
is, if you can take them and
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just Elevate him that little bit
more, it helps a lot.
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And that's what I was able to
do.
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I was able to make people's
dreams and wishes come true.
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So it was just a beautiful thing
and I'm so glad I was part of
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that.
Hmm, yes.
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And I have to say a lot of
people look to me and they say
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that.
And they know that I'm very
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much, a proponent of natural
beauty, But I myself am very
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much.
Also are proponents of people
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manifesting the outsides that
match their insides.
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And if somebody feels a certain
way about themselves and the
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mirror does not reflect that and
that creates dissonance, then I
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believe there's nothing wrong
with making any changes.
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Just like we dye our hair just
like we, you know, put makeup
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on.
There's really two me.
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I actually find that if there's
nothing wrong with in and I
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think that it helps to
emboldened somebody and help
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them to maybe four more fully.
Express who they are when they
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can see themselves in the
mirror, reflecting back at them
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in a way that they like, I think
that's true, okay?
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As I said, you can't just change
a person 180 degrees, but you
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can Elevate them, you can bring
out their natural beauty, that
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much more.
So that's what I think.
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Cosmetic surgery is really
designed for and really helps
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people along the way.
So, let's talk about what
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happened in 2003 because you had
this very successful career and
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then your life, Changed.
Tell us about 2003 as walking
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with my wife and my youngest
daughter in Disneyland.
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And my wife turned to me, and
she said, what's wrong with you,
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huh?
You know, for once in my life I
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hadn't said anything wrong.
I haven't done anything wrong.
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I hadn't even Funk anything
Rock.
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But she persisted, she said,
what's wrong with you?
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So I said here, I don't know
what you're talking about.
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She said, listen to your foot.
I said, what do you mean listen
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to your foot?
That's the funniest thing you've
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ever said, she said, well
listen.
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Well, my right foot had decided
to not function properly, it was
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flapping on the pavement with
each step, I was taking now
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Jennifer your brain is designed
to lift up your foot with each
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step that you're taking.
Unfortunately, that wasn't
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happening for me.
It just wasn't happening.
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My foot was flapping on the
pavement.
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My wife said, did you have a
stroke?
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And I said, dear, you're a
doctor, I'm a doctor.
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If I had a stroke, I'd probably
be some muttering, something
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unintelligible.
And I wouldn't be doing like I
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am now while she said when you
get back you better get that
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checked out Jennifer when your
significant other tells you to
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get it checked out.
What do you do?
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Sometimes people, listen,
sometimes not so much.
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The answer is when you've been
married for as long as I have,
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you know, you better listen.
So, the answer is, I listened
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and I started that journey.
I went to see doctors and
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doctors and doctors it led Is to
dozens of doctors which led to
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more doctors and more doctors.
They did cat-scans.
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They did brain scans, they even
did scan skins.
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But you know what, they showed
at the end of the day.
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What did they show?
Absolutely nothing.
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The doctors were befuddled.
They thought, you know, you must
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have a tumor or a a slipped
discs or something, but they
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found nothing.
So you know, what doctors do
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when they find nothing, I'm not
a doctor, but what do they do?
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More tests and more More tests
and more tests because they want
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to find an answer and, you know,
so back then they did every test
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known to man and still at the
end of the day, they couldn't
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find anything so they sent me to
a world-leading neurologist.
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Now, a neurologist is a brain
doctor.
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He's the guy that has the answer
to all these complex
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neurological problems.
And I went in to see him and he
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said, hi and I said hi.
He said you better be sitting
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down when I tell you this.
I said why?
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I've got a dropped right foot.
He said no you don't you have
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ALS Lou Gehrig's Disease, you
better get your Affairs in
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order.
Because in six months, you're
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going to be dead.
I said is there a way to prove
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this diagnosis?
He said yes on autopsy, it's a
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geez.
You don't have much of a bedside
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manner, you know?
The thing is when something like
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this hits, you Jennifer, you go
through the phases of death and
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dying, you go through Hangar
because you're mad.
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Mad, you're mad at everything.
You're mad at the people around,
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you, you're mad at you and your
staff, you're mad at your
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family.
And, you know, you're just mad.
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That is not a healthy thing, but
at least it motivates you, you
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go through bargaining?
Oh, God, please don't let this
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happen.
I'll do anything.
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If you don't let this happen,
you go through denial and you
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deny that anything's wrong.
But through all those my foot
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was still not working properly.
So I couldn't deny things much
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more and then you go through
deep.
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Russian.
Jennifer, have you ever been
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depressed?
Yes, I have.
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Yeah, it's a terrible State.
You know, you can't eat.
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You can't sleep.
You stay in bed all day staring
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at the ceiling.
And you don't want to do
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anything, you know, but I wasn't
going to die by this terrible
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disease called ALS.
And so I had decided that if I
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was getting worse I was going to
kill myself.
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But before I did that, I went to
my wife and I said to my wife
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and said yeah the idea what I
have.
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She said no No, I have no idea
whatsoever.
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She said, she said, you're
smart, you'll figure that out, I
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laughed and I said, well, how
can I figure it out?
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I've already seen hundreds of
doctors.
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She said, perhaps, you haven't
seen the right doctor again.
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Yeah.
So back in the early 2000s,
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something brand-new wasn't that
it's called the internet.
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He ever hear of that little bit,
you know, but back then it was
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very primitive.
You had to put your phone on a
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dial on connection.
It would go really an area area
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for something like 15 minutes
and it would connect to the
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other side, you would get some
answers.
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But the internet was just like,
now is like the best resources
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in the world but of is full of
garbage cans and it was
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impossible to find the garbage
cans from the good resources.
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The fortunately, I had people
around me that could guide me.
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So we search the web, we surf
the web.
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We found a doctor in Colorado
Springs Colorado by the name of
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David Marks and David was
fascinating because he had a
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disease very much like mine, but
he got worse, much more rapidly
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and he was on his deathbed
within weeks of having this
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diagnosis.
What happened next is doctors
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from around the world were
coming to say goodbye to David
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and a doctor came up from Texas
to say goodbye to David.
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His name was dr.
Harvey and he looked at David
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and said, I don't think you have
ALS.
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I don't think you have Lou
Gehrig's Disease.
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David said, what do I have says,
I think Being bitten by a tick
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and you have a disease called
chronic lines disease and this
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disease, mimics ALS said, he
said, if I'm right, I can start
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you on treatment and you will
rapidly get better.
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Well, David said, what do I have
to lose?
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I'm dying.
So, we started him on treatment
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and within weeks, he was back to
his usual self.
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Wow, why I knew I had to get in
touch with David's white and
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phone every hospital in
Colorado, Springs, Colorado, and
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I got in touch with the
Methodist hospital.
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And we talked for hours, And he
invited me to come down to
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Colorado Springs which I did and
he started me on treatment and
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he said the magic words, I think
history is repeating itself.
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I think I can make you better
just like I did and because of
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him I was able to stay at my
status as a top cosmetic surgeon
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until 2019.
When I walked way to help people
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in more ways to help people in
their heads face to help people
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do the things they want to do.
And I did that in.
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In the 19th at published a
best-selling book in 2020 called
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the secrets to living a
fantastic life and it became a
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podcast which began a syndicated
radio show which now has three
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million listeners a month.
So it's been an amazing journey
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I've been up but all of this
started with getting treated and
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then it started with giving back
and deciding to give back to
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people because I think that is
one of the greatest things that
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you can do.
If you go Through a storm like I
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did and come through on the
other side.
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I think it's very important to
realize that every day you're
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given is just a gift and that
gift is one of the most
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important things.
So you should try and make that
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gift.
So important for people that
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they will do well and prosper.
Just like I've done.
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That's beautiful.
Thank you so much for sharing
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all of that doctor.
Like it reminds me of the time
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when I was still working as a VP
at a beauty.
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Company.
I had a young son at home, he
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was two years old at the time,
and he started to show signs of
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spasticity, which pretty much
caused him over a very rapid
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time to degrade.
And he was at Children's
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Hospital, Los Angeles for four
months, fell into a coma, didn't
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know what was wrong with him.
And then ultimately he got a
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diagnosis back of mitochondrial
disease which is a global energy
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deficiency at the cellular
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And we were also given the same
same sort of talk from the
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doctors there that said, you
know, you have a decision to
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make, you know, and he was
intubated at the time.
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So we were keeping him on life
support and we decided to hold
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on for Hope.
There wasn't very much known
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about very rare genetic
diseases.
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Back then it was before Gene
sequencing and 23 and me were
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very popularized and we decided
to hold on for Hope.
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And this year, he celebrated his
16th birthday, he's an absolute
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fighter, he's severely disabled.
However, we believe that with
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the love that he's Given over
the course of years.
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His quality of life is probably
a lot better than a lot of other
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children because he knows that
he's loves challenge.
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The fact of the matter is that,
we do we treat every day.
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Like a gift, he's living on life
support.
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He's on a ventilator, 24/7.
He's non-mobile and nonverbal
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yet, he is such a strong
spiritual teacher to not only
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me, but to so many people around
us.
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He is the reason why I believe
that I live a fantastic life and
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why I want to share my gifts.
To and have people on my podcast
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just like you.
Your well I think that's
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important and, you know, we do
not know all the answers to all
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the things and we're at any
given time.
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And any doctor that says he does
is wrong, you know, when I was
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told, I had ALS it's because the
doctor that's all he knew, he
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didn't know.
All the other thing, the problem
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is there's a lot more that we
don't know than what we know.
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And your son is living proof of
that, that there.
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So much that we will learn and
there's so much more that's
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going to come out in the next
couple of years as we found some
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of these cures for covid.
And so on the very technology
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that has helped to cure that can
be used in many other diseases
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as well.
So the answer is we're just at
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the start of a new frontier and
a whole new way of doing things.
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And we haven't even scratched
the surface yet.
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It's so true.
And boy, has he had a bevy of
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neurologists and And it always
had surprised me and I was
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grateful to meet the ones that
were humble enough to say,
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there's still so much that we
don't know the ones that said,
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well, this is the way that it is
and that's the way that it's
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going to be a, you know, that
you're going to move on and
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probably find a different
neurologist.
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It's true.
And I'm always humbled by what
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we don't know.
I'm always humbled by the fact
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that it is just a small amount
that we know.
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And when I was taking my
Dermatology training at the
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University of Minnesota and a
great teacher by Name of dr.
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Peter Lynch Peter.
The first day I was in my
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program, he drew a box on the
board and he said, this is what
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you're going to learn in your
residency and he drew a bigger
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box and he said this is the
knowledge that's available in
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the medical journals that we
have.
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Then he drew a bigger box and he
said, this is the amount.
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That's an all the medical
schools in the world and then he
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said, the real box you got to be
in and the one that's bigger
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than this room, that's bigger
than this universe.
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Because that's the knowledge.
We actually need to help people
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and this is true about everyone
in this world.
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We only know what we know.
We cannot know what we do, not
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know.
Mmm.
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Yeah.
And if we keep our minds open,
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then perhaps we get those
downloads of the things that are
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out there and that are yet to be
manifested.
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So amazing, I would love to have
you take us through your book
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which is the secrets to living a
fantastic life and by the way,
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you Arthur this with a very
special woman.
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Can you tell us about Harriet,
Tinka?
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Yes, I'd love to.
As I said, the first thing I did
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was start giving back when I got
through my diagnosis and the guy
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started giving back to was a
charity called the YWCA and I
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sponsored an amazing event
called women of Distinction and
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we honored women in society for
the wonderful things.
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They did, you know, women still
do not get the Kudos that they
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need for all the wonderful
things they do.
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So So I thought it's a good
thing to give back.
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So I sponsored this big event
and here he had applied for an
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award called the turning point
toward.
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Now, that Turning Point award
was given for people that had
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made a significant change in
their life and he it is a
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beautiful black lady who used to
walk the runways of New York and
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Milan Paris as a leading model.
But she grew tired of that
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industry because YouTube
probably know of the beauty
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industry models.
Don't have a very good life.
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It's a dog-eat-dog breakfast and
she decided that wasn't what you
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wanted to do with her life.
So she decided to do her second
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life which is accounting and she
went to the University of
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Calgary and Calgary Alberta.
And unfortunately, she was
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befriended by a person that was
a psychopath who ended up
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kidnapping, her stabbing her and
leaving her for dead down here.
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He had ended up in the hospital
and she was going through rehab
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and she was very, very depressed
but she met a young girl by the
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name of a man.
Anda who was Wheeling down the
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hallway in a wheelchair.
Now, Amanda story was equally
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tragic and that she was in a car
accident in which he lost both
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of her parents and the use of
her legs.
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What happened next is?
She said, she looked at Aryans
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at area, you should be ashamed
of yourself.
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You should use your story, to
empower others.
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So Harriet that applied for this
award, not to win the award, but
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to meet me and take me for
lunch.
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Shouldn't convince me to write a
book and so that's why we wrote
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this book together called the
secrets to living a fantastic
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life.
It's the story of our journey.
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Then each chapter is rather
unique.
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Each chapter has a quote and
then it has a story that cares
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you into the meaning of the
story.
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And then the book has the
dialogue that Harriet and I had
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as we were writing the book
together, so it's a very
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interesting book.
It's based on 13, gold and
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Pearls.
Now golden pearls actually exist
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in nature there in the South
Pacific and they're produced by
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particular oysters.
Now these oysters get a little
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grain of sand inside their
shell, and instead of be harmed
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by it, they wallet off this
beautiful material called luster
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and the single solitary Golden
Pearl cost more than ten
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thousand dollars.
That's how valuable is.
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But the golden pearls Harriet,
and I write about Or more
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valuable than that, they're
found inside of you and they can
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come out and they can even be
more beautiful than that.
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Mmm, that is wonderful.
What an amazing woman and
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somebody that is an incredible
partner to write something.
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So poignant about, why do you
think that their secrets will,
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you know, I think secrets are
little things that people need
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to find out and I wanted and
Harry good wanted to encourage
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people to read this book.
So we called them Secrets
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because not Everybody knows them
and we wanted people to explore
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them and bring them out to their
lives.
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Well, some of the pearls I think
people would be like, okay, I
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get that when you talk about
love and inspiration and purpose
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there are a few on here which I
was like, I could see it a
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little bit more explanation and
so I was hoping that you might
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be able to elucidate a little
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Just give it a teaser.
So that people are intrigued and
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want to buy your book.
What about Victory?
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What about Victory is a golden
Pearl.
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I will tell you something about
Harriet that you probably don't
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realize.
In addition to be ignored cold
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class model, she runs
ultramarathons handsome, Harriet
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is like the Amazon princes.
Death will run an ultra marathon
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for people who don't know about
it is like running for 24 to 48
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hours without a rest.
So she just ran one last weekend
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and she finished it in 28 hours.
And up here in the Northern
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woods, it's been raining a lot.
So it was a bun fast where she
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had to fall down more Hills than
she was actually able to run
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through.
So, the concept of Victory is
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something that carry it really
wanted in there.
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Has a very important part of
people's lives and I concur,
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Victory is what everybody should
strive towards now.
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The story of Victory is
different for each and every
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person, but to be victorious is
the opposite.
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Of being a victim.
And that's why it's in there.
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We don't want people to be
victim.
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We want them to adopt a victory
philosophy.
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Hmm.
That's actually very well.
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Put and boy, I don't know if I
will ever run an ultramarathon,
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but I cheer the people on, who
do, what about non-negotiables?
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I saw that on the list, you
know, Norm negotiables are very,
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very important things because
they're the guideposts that you
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steer your both through all the
time, you know, you have to have
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non-negotiables in your life
because exactly by their nature.
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They're non-negotiable, you use
those in situations where you
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have questioned, whether you do
a, or b and the non-negotiable
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really makes it so that you
choose the right path and keeps
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you on the right path, what
would be an example of a
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non-negotiable in your life?
Well, for me, it's always being
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that I work.
Hard, and no matter what, I find
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that getting up every day, doing
the things that I do, are
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something that I find very
important, but another not
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negotiable.
It's my family and my wife mics
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for wonderful, daughters and my
seven wonderful grandchildren.
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So as I say those are
non-negotiable for me because
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their number one on my plate.
Absolutely.
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Some of the others here on this
list or forgiveness.
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Your attitude, your laughter
enthusiasm and empowerment.
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And I'm sure that there are
quite a lot of gems when you
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explain each and every one of
these, let me try and give you
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one.
That's so important.
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And that's enthusiasm.
And I'm going to tell you a
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little story to bring that home
for you.
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There was a carpenter by the
name of Fred and he worked for
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the same company for 45 years.
And at the end of that he was
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tired, he didn't want to go to
work anymore.
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So he went to his boss and A
tine done.
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This is episode is my last day.
The boss was taken aback.
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He Said, Fred, you've helped me
build every house we built in
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this company.
Could you do just one more thing
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for me before you go Frets at?
Of course, I've loved it here.
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This is the only job that I've
had.
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So the boss said, okay, build me
just one more house.
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Only you can do it, you're my
master Carpenter.
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So Fred said, okay.
And he did it, but he did it
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begrudgingly for the The first
time in his life he produced
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shoddy workmanship.
He barely got the job done but a
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miracle happened when it was
done and it passed inspection.
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So he went back to the boss and
said, okay, here's the keys to
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the last house, I'm done the
boss.
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It's cold at fret.
We're going to have a big party.
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So he called everybody into the
office, they pop the champagne,
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they had the caviar, they had a
big party and then he said, he's
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gathered everybody around me
said.
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Everybody.
This is Fred's last day.
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I am so sad, but he's going to
be so happy and he said Fred,
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I've got a gift for you.
It's a Parting Gift.
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Here's the keys to the last
house you ever built.
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May, you live in it with, with
all the enthusiasm you showed me
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old?
Now, can you picture the
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difference of he had been in his
usual workmanship.
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Now, that's just to show you
Jennifer that enthusiasm is not
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a Monday thing.
It's not a Tuesday that it's not
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a Wednesday thing.
It It's something you bring to
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the table each and every day and
that's the game changer.
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That makes everything so
special.
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That's a great story.
I actually was listening to an
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interview with Deepak Chopra and
I didn't realize that enthusiasm
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the word itself means and
theater switches in God.
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And so if you have the purpose
or the intention of God flowing
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through you, then you're eager
for life.
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You're eager for what's next.
And so I thought that was a
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really Fascinating twists on
what I had always known
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enthusiasm.
So otherwise be and another one
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of her golden curls, ask
inspiration and the inspiration
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is simpler, it means from the
spirit.
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So again, very important concept
that people should realize that
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these are deeper principles than
what is just in the book.
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Mmm, exactly.
Well, those are amazing.
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So now, as far as some of your
more recent work, you just did a
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piece of writing as its called
Blue talks presents business
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life and the universe.
Can you tell us a little bit
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about that?
Yeah, this isn't a series of
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books that my friend Cory,
Poirier is put together and I
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wrote a chapter in the very
first of that.
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They're now, we're six of those
books out and it's something
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that people can really learn
about business life and the
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universe does each one of these
books concentrates on those
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things.
And so, I was very happy to be
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part of that, again.
It's just showing that I keep on
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going.
I keep on Galloping new things
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and helping people with their
lives.
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Absolutely.
And you also had another piece
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of writing with Jack Canfield, I
understand colors of success.
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Yeah, Jack Canfield for people
who don't recognize nice.
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His name, is he co-author of
Chicken Soup for the Soul.
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And so Jack approached me and
said, could you please write
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something with me in my book
pillars of success.
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So when that opportunity
presented itself, I was so happy
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and as a result, it became a
best-selling book and Iran.
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When me Major award for that
cultic quilly award which is
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equivalent to an Academy Award
for best selling authors.
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Well, congratulations to you for
that.
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Well, he was a yag again of
thrilling.
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Time to walk the red carpet in
Los Angeles, and be able to
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share that with my co-authors to
another wonderful thing in my
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life.
So, again, it was a very fun
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time but you know, it doesn't
stop there.
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I have my syndicated radio show
and I've been asked to do a
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television show Well and so it's
going to be very exciting in the
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next couple of years as my
television show comes on.
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And they've even asked me to do
my own station so that we can
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even bring more of these
wonderful things to people over
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the next couple of years.
It's really wonderful to be able
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to see positive content out
there because there's so much of
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the contrary.
That is filling the minds of
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people all over the world.
And so that was one of the
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reasons why I wanted the human
Beauty movement to really be all
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about.
About inspiring people to that
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radical self-love and radical
self-acceptance.
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Because I think that when you
don't talk about it enough, or
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when you don't see it enough,
then people don't recognize that
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it really exists, and it's
important for people to be able
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to see that there is so much
good in the world.
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There are so many wonderful
people that are cheering for you
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and that want you to succeed and
want to drive.
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Well, you know, I learned a very
interesting statistic the other
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day but 40% of Americans, do not
watch the news anymore.
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Because of the negative news
that's out there all the time
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I'm running and so that number
is growing and in some
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countries, it's even more than
that.
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So, it's just showing that
everybody's sick and tired of
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the negative news that goes on
day in, and day out the other
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day, my wife and I were watching
and there were 14 - stories all
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in a row.
Yeah, it's almost like these
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little micro tears on our soul.
Exactly.
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So how do you Gary's about that?
By Contra manding, it with more
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positive experiences with more
positive messages, so that
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people have this opportunity to
learn about wonderful things and
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do things in a more positive
way.
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Absolutely.
Well, doctor, like I am so
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pleased to have you on so that
we together can spread
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positivity and spread different
secrets on how to live a
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fantastic life.
Yes.
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And I'm so glad you had me here
and I'm so glad to spread my
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message with you wonderful
everybody.
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Please take Look at the show
notes so that you can see how
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you can get in touch with dr.
Lega, and find, his writings in
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the meantime, stay beautiful.
Thank you for listening to the
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human Beauty movement podcast.
Be sure to follow rate and
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review us wherever you stream
podcasts.
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The human Beauty movement is a
community based platform.
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That cultivates, the beauty of
humankind, check out our
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workshops, find us on social
media and share our inspiration
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with all the beautiful humans in
your life.
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Learn more at the Human Beauty.
Movement.com.
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Thank you so much for being a
beautiful human.
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Hello, beautiful humans.
Welcome to the human Beauty
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movement podcast.
I'm your host Jennifer Norman.
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Throughout my life, I've been a
lover and a seeker of all things
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beauty from art and dance to
cosmetics, and fashion to music
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and nature.
But through my own personal
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Journey.
I've come to discover what I
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believe is the most beautiful
thing.
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In the universe, the beauty of
the human soul.
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On this podcast, I sit down with
beautiful humans.
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From all corners of the globe
and all walks of life to learn
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how they are living their own
unique.
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Soul Beauty out loud.
You'll hear from game changers.
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Rebels with gray causes stages
odds, M and Valiant Warriors who
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fall down seven times and get up
eight.
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This is the podcast where
abundant energy flows and
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supreme wisdom is bestowed, get
ready to enjoy the inspiration.
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Hello, beautiful humans.
Today we're going to talk about
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life.
Beyond Beauty.
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My guest today is dr.
Alan Leica dr.
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Leica has been acknowledged as
one of the leading cosmetic
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dermatologist in the world.
For three decades, a Pioneer in
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his field, he is an inventor
author of 17 books and over 30
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academic papers for many years.
He hosted inside cosmetic
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surgery today at top internet
radio show, but that all changed
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and that's why I have him here
to talk with you.
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Welcome dr.
Lika, well, welcome Jeez, I'm so
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glad to be here.
Jennifer, it's so much fun.
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Yes, I'm delighted to have you
here so you can share your
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story.
So, let's dial it back.
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You spent a lot of years as a
cosmetic dermatologist, can you
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share a little bit of what that
was like?
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No cosmetic.
Dermatology was probably one of
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the best things that I could
ever do.
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You know, I have the chance of
making beautiful people.
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Even more beautiful helping to
bring out the insides of them
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and make them shine to the
world.
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So it was Leah calling that I
had.
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And the Beautiful Thing I was
there at the start of the, many
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of the things they were doing,
you know, I was there when Botox
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was invented.
I was there, when fillers were
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invented.
I was there when lasers were
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just starting to be used in
cosmetic surgery.
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So, it was a beautiful wonderful
time that I was able to help
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influence many of those things
and how bring him to another
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level.
Well, that is really
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fascinating, because after
having been in the beauty
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industry for so many, Years
myself, there has been
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definitely a lot of discussion
about cosmetic surgery,
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cosmetic, Dermatology, and the
like, and the impact that it has
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on society in a positive way and
in a, perhaps not so positive
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way.
So I was curious about your take
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you say, you love to make people
that were beautiful even more
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beautiful.
And so certainly you saw what
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seems to be an after effect of
high self-esteem of people
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feeling really happy about their
results.
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Is that right?
Well, That's exactly what it was
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about, you know, but you can't
make a person, see something
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that they cannot, but the answer
is, if you can take them and
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just Elevate him that little bit
more, it helps a lot.
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And that's what I was able to
do.
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I was able to make people's
dreams and wishes come true.
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So it was just a beautiful thing
and I'm so glad I was part of
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that.
Hmm, yes.
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And I have to say a lot of
people look to me and they say
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that.
And they know that I'm very
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much, a proponent of natural
beauty, But I myself am very
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much.
Also are proponents of people
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manifesting the outsides that
match their insides.
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And if somebody feels a certain
way about themselves and the
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mirror does not reflect that and
that creates dissonance, then I
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believe there's nothing wrong
with making any changes.
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Just like we dye our hair just
like we, you know, put makeup
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on.
There's really two me.
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I actually find that if there's
nothing wrong with in and I
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think that it helps to
emboldened somebody and help
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them to maybe four more fully.
Express who they are when they
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can see themselves in the
mirror, reflecting back at them
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in a way that they like, I think
that's true, okay?
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As I said, you can't just change
a person 180 degrees, but you
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can Elevate them, you can bring
out their natural beauty, that
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much more.
So that's what I think.
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Cosmetic surgery is really
designed for and really helps
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people along the way.
So, let's talk about what
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happened in 2003 because you had
this very successful career and
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then your life, Changed.
Tell us about 2003 as walking
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with my wife and my youngest
daughter in Disneyland.
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And my wife turned to me, and
she said, what's wrong with you,
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huh?
You know, for once in my life I
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hadn't said anything wrong.
I haven't done anything wrong.
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I hadn't even Funk anything
Rock.
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But she persisted, she said,
what's wrong with you?
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So I said here, I don't know
what you're talking about.
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She said, listen to your foot.
I said, what do you mean listen
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to your foot?
That's the funniest thing you've
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ever said, she said, well
listen.
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Well, my right foot had decided
to not function properly, it was
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flapping on the pavement with
each step, I was taking now
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Jennifer your brain is designed
to lift up your foot with each
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step that you're taking.
Unfortunately, that wasn't
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happening for me.
It just wasn't happening.
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My foot was flapping on the
pavement.
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My wife said, did you have a
stroke?
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And I said, dear, you're a
doctor, I'm a doctor.
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If I had a stroke, I'd probably
be some muttering, something
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unintelligible.
And I wouldn't be doing like I
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am now while she said when you
get back you better get that
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checked out Jennifer when your
significant other tells you to
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get it checked out.
What do you do?
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Sometimes people, listen,
sometimes not so much.
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The answer is when you've been
married for as long as I have,
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you know, you better listen.
So, the answer is, I listened
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and I started that journey.
I went to see doctors and
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doctors and doctors it led Is to
dozens of doctors which led to
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more doctors and more doctors.
They did cat-scans.
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They did brain scans, they even
did scan skins.
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But you know what, they showed
at the end of the day.
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What did they show?
Absolutely nothing.
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The doctors were befuddled.
They thought, you know, you must
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have a tumor or a a slipped
discs or something, but they
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found nothing.
So you know, what doctors do
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when they find nothing, I'm not
a doctor, but what do they do?
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More tests and more More tests
and more tests because they want
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to find an answer and, you know,
so back then they did every test
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known to man and still at the
end of the day, they couldn't
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find anything so they sent me to
a world-leading neurologist.
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Now, a neurologist is a brain
doctor.
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He's the guy that has the answer
to all these complex
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neurological problems.
And I went in to see him and he
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said, hi and I said hi.
He said you better be sitting
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down when I tell you this.
I said why?
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I've got a dropped right foot.
He said no you don't you have
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ALS Lou Gehrig's Disease, you
better get your Affairs in
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order.
Because in six months, you're
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going to be dead.
I said is there a way to prove
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this diagnosis?
He said yes on autopsy, it's a
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geez.
You don't have much of a bedside
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manner, you know?
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this hits, you Jennifer, you go
through the phases of death and
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dying, you go through Hangar
because you're mad.
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Mad, you're mad at everything.
You're mad at the people around,
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you, you're mad at you and your
staff, you're mad at your
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family.
And, you know, you're just mad.
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That is not a healthy thing, but
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go through bargaining?
Oh, God, please don't let this
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happen.
I'll do anything.
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If you don't let this happen,
you go through denial and you
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deny that anything's wrong.
But through all those my foot
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was still not working properly.
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more and then you go through
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Russian.
Jennifer, have you ever been
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depressed?
Yes, I have.
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Yeah, it's a terrible State.
You know, you can't eat.
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You stay in bed all day staring
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at the ceiling.
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anything, you know, but I wasn't
going to die by this terrible
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disease called ALS.
And so I had decided that if I
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was getting worse I was going to
kill myself.
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But before I did that, I went to
my wife and I said to my wife
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and said yeah the idea what I
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She said no No, I have no idea
whatsoever.
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She said, she said, you're
smart, you'll figure that out, I
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laughed and I said, well, how
can I figure it out?
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I've already seen hundreds of
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She said, perhaps, you haven't
seen the right doctor again.
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Yeah.
So back in the early 2000s,
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something brand-new wasn't that
it's called the internet.
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He ever hear of that little bit,
you know, but back then it was
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very primitive.
You had to put your phone on a
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dial on connection.
It would go really an area area
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for something like 15 minutes
and it would connect to the
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other side, you would get some
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But the internet was just like,
now is like the best resources
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in the world but of is full of
garbage cans and it was
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impossible to find the garbage
cans from the good resources.
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The fortunately, I had people
around me that could guide me.
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So we search the web, we surf
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We found a doctor in Colorado
Springs Colorado by the name of
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David Marks and David was
fascinating because he had a
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disease very much like mine, but
he got worse, much more rapidly
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and he was on his deathbed
within weeks of having this
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diagnosis.
What happened next is doctors
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from around the world were
coming to say goodbye to David
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and a doctor came up from Texas
to say goodbye to David.
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His name was dr.
Harvey and he looked at David
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and said, I don't think you have
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I don't think you have Lou
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David said, what do I have says,
I think Being bitten by a tick
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and you have a disease called
chronic lines disease and this
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disease, mimics ALS said, he
said, if I'm right, I can start
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you on treatment and you will
rapidly get better.
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Well, David said, what do I have
to lose?
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I'm dying.
So, we started him on treatment
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and within weeks, he was back to
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Wow, why I knew I had to get in
touch with David's white and
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phone every hospital in
Colorado, Springs, Colorado, and
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I got in touch with the
Methodist hospital.
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And we talked for hours, And he
invited me to come down to
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Colorado Springs which I did and
he started me on treatment and
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he said the magic words, I think
history is repeating itself.
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I think I can make you better
just like I did and because of
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him I was able to stay at my
status as a top cosmetic surgeon
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until 2019.
When I walked way to help people
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in more ways to help people in
their heads face to help people
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do the things they want to do.
And I did that in.
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In the 19th at published a
best-selling book in 2020 called
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the secrets to living a
fantastic life and it became a
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podcast which began a syndicated
radio show which now has three
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million listeners a month.
So it's been an amazing journey
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I've been up but all of this
started with getting treated and
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then it started with giving back
and deciding to give back to
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people because I think that is
one of the greatest things that
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you can do.
If you go Through a storm like I
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did and come through on the
other side.
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I think it's very important to
realize that every day you're
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given is just a gift and that
gift is one of the most
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important things.
So you should try and make that
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gift.
So important for people that
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they will do well and prosper.
Just like I've done.
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That's beautiful.
Thank you so much for sharing
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all of that doctor.
Like it reminds me of the time
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when I was still working as a VP
at a beauty.
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Company.
I had a young son at home, he
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was two years old at the time,
and he started to show signs of
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spasticity, which pretty much
caused him over a very rapid
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time to degrade.
And he was at Children's
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Hospital, Los Angeles for four
months, fell into a coma, didn't
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know what was wrong with him.
And then ultimately he got a
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diagnosis back of mitochondrial
disease which is a global energy
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deficiency at the cellular
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And we were also given the same
same sort of talk from the
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doctors there that said, you
know, you have a decision to
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make, you know, and he was
intubated at the time.
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So we were keeping him on life
support and we decided to hold
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on for Hope.
There wasn't very much known
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about very rare genetic
diseases.
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Back then it was before Gene
sequencing and 23 and me were
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very popularized and we decided
to hold on for Hope.
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And this year, he celebrated his
16th birthday, he's an absolute
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fighter, he's severely disabled.
However, we believe that with
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the love that he's Given over
the course of years.
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His quality of life is probably
a lot better than a lot of other
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children because he knows that
he's loves challenge.
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The fact of the matter is that,
we do we treat every day.
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Like a gift, he's living on life
support.
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He's on a ventilator, 24/7.
He's non-mobile and nonverbal
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yet, he is such a strong
spiritual teacher to not only
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me, but to so many people around
us.
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He is the reason why I believe
that I live a fantastic life and
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why I want to share my gifts.
To and have people on my podcast
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just like you.
Your well I think that's
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important and, you know, we do
not know all the answers to all
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the things and we're at any
given time.
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And any doctor that says he does
is wrong, you know, when I was
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told, I had ALS it's because the
doctor that's all he knew, he
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didn't know.
All the other thing, the problem
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is there's a lot more that we
don't know than what we know.
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And your son is living proof of
that, that there.
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So much that we will learn and
there's so much more that's
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going to come out in the next
couple of years as we found some
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of these cures for covid.
And so on the very technology
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that has helped to cure that can
be used in many other diseases
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as well.
So the answer is we're just at
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the start of a new frontier and
a whole new way of doing things.
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And we haven't even scratched
the surface yet.
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It's so true.
And boy, has he had a bevy of
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neurologists and And it always
had surprised me and I was
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grateful to meet the ones that
were humble enough to say,
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there's still so much that we
don't know the ones that said,
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well, this is the way that it is
and that's the way that it's
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going to be a, you know, that
you're going to move on and
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probably find a different
neurologist.
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It's true.
And I'm always humbled by what
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we don't know.
I'm always humbled by the fact
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that it is just a small amount
that we know.
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And when I was taking my
Dermatology training at the
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University of Minnesota and a
great teacher by Name of dr.
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Peter Lynch Peter.
The first day I was in my
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program, he drew a box on the
board and he said, this is what
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you're going to learn in your
residency and he drew a bigger
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box and he said this is the
knowledge that's available in
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the medical journals that we
have.
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Then he drew a bigger box and he
said, this is the amount.
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That's an all the medical
schools in the world and then he
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said, the real box you got to be
in and the one that's bigger
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than this room, that's bigger
than this universe.
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Because that's the knowledge.
We actually need to help people
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and this is true about everyone
in this world.
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We only know what we know.
We cannot know what we do, not
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know.
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Yeah.
And if we keep our minds open,
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then perhaps we get those
downloads of the things that are
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out there and that are yet to be
manifested.
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So amazing, I would love to have
you take us through your book
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which is the secrets to living a
fantastic life and by the way,
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you Arthur this with a very
special woman.
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Can you tell us about Harriet,
Tinka?
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Yes, I'd love to.
As I said, the first thing I did
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was start giving back when I got
through my diagnosis and the guy
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started giving back to was a
charity called the YWCA and I
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sponsored an amazing event
called women of Distinction and
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we honored women in society for
the wonderful things.
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They did, you know, women still
do not get the Kudos that they
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need for all the wonderful
things they do.
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So So I thought it's a good
thing to give back.
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So I sponsored this big event
and here he had applied for an
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award called the turning point
toward.
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Now, that Turning Point award
was given for people that had
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made a significant change in
their life and he it is a
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beautiful black lady who used to
walk the runways of New York and
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Milan Paris as a leading model.
But she grew tired of that
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industry because YouTube
probably know of the beauty
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industry models.
Don't have a very good life.
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It's a dog-eat-dog breakfast and
she decided that wasn't what you
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wanted to do with her life.
So she decided to do her second
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life which is accounting and she
went to the University of
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Calgary and Calgary Alberta.
And unfortunately, she was
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befriended by a person that was
a psychopath who ended up
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kidnapping, her stabbing her and
leaving her for dead down here.
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He had ended up in the hospital
and she was going through rehab
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and she was very, very depressed
but she met a young girl by the
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name of a man.
Anda who was Wheeling down the
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hallway in a wheelchair.
Now, Amanda story was equally
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tragic and that she was in a car
accident in which he lost both
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of her parents and the use of
her legs.
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What happened next is?
She said, she looked at Aryans
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at area, you should be ashamed
of yourself.
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You should use your story, to
empower others.
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So Harriet that applied for this
award, not to win the award, but
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to meet me and take me for
lunch.
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Shouldn't convince me to write a
book and so that's why we wrote
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this book together called the
secrets to living a fantastic
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life.
It's the story of our journey.
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Then each chapter is rather
unique.
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Each chapter has a quote and
then it has a story that cares
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you into the meaning of the
story.
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And then the book has the
dialogue that Harriet and I had
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as we were writing the book
together, so it's a very
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interesting book.
It's based on 13, gold and
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Pearls.
Now golden pearls actually exist
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in nature there in the South
Pacific and they're produced by
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particular oysters.
Now these oysters get a little
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grain of sand inside their
shell, and instead of be harmed
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by it, they wallet off this
beautiful material called luster
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and the single solitary Golden
Pearl cost more than ten
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thousand dollars.
That's how valuable is.
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But the golden pearls Harriet,
and I write about Or more
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valuable than that, they're
found inside of you and they can
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come out and they can even be
more beautiful than that.
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Mmm, that is wonderful.
What an amazing woman and
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somebody that is an incredible
partner to write something.
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So poignant about, why do you
think that their secrets will,
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you know, I think secrets are
little things that people need
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to find out and I wanted and
Harry good wanted to encourage
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people to read this book.
So we called them Secrets
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because not Everybody knows them
and we wanted people to explore
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them and bring them out to their
lives.
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Well, some of the pearls I think
people would be like, okay, I
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get that when you talk about
love and inspiration and purpose
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there are a few on here which I
was like, I could see it a
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little bit more explanation and
so I was hoping that you might
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be able to elucidate a little
bit.
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Just give it a teaser.
So that people are intrigued and
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want to buy your book.
What about Victory?
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What about Victory is a golden
Pearl.
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I will tell you something about
Harriet that you probably don't
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realize.
In addition to be ignored cold
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class model, she runs
ultramarathons handsome, Harriet
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is like the Amazon princes.
Death will run an ultra marathon
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for people who don't know about
it is like running for 24 to 48
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hours without a rest.
So she just ran one last weekend
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and she finished it in 28 hours.
And up here in the Northern
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woods, it's been raining a lot.
So it was a bun fast where she
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had to fall down more Hills than
she was actually able to run
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through.
So, the concept of Victory is
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something that carry it really
wanted in there.
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Has a very important part of
people's lives and I concur,
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Victory is what everybody should
strive towards now.
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The story of Victory is
different for each and every
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person, but to be victorious is
the opposite.
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Of being a victim.
And that's why it's in there.
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We don't want people to be
victim.
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We want them to adopt a victory
philosophy.
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Hmm.
That's actually very well.
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Put and boy, I don't know if I
will ever run an ultramarathon,
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but I cheer the people on, who
do, what about non-negotiables?
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I saw that on the list, you
know, Norm negotiables are very,
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very important things because
they're the guideposts that you
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steer your both through all the
time, you know, you have to have
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non-negotiables in your life
because exactly by their nature.
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They're non-negotiable, you use
those in situations where you
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have questioned, whether you do
a, or b and the non-negotiable
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really makes it so that you
choose the right path and keeps
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you on the right path, what
would be an example of a
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non-negotiable in your life?
Well, for me, it's always being
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that I work.
Hard, and no matter what, I find
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that getting up every day, doing
the things that I do, are
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something that I find very
important, but another not
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negotiable.
It's my family and my wife mics
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for wonderful, daughters and my
seven wonderful grandchildren.
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So as I say those are
non-negotiable for me because
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their number one on my plate.
Absolutely.
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Some of the others here on this
list or forgiveness.
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Your attitude, your laughter
enthusiasm and empowerment.
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And I'm sure that there are
quite a lot of gems when you
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explain each and every one of
these, let me try and give you
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one.
That's so important.
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And that's enthusiasm.
And I'm going to tell you a
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little story to bring that home
for you.
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There was a carpenter by the
name of Fred and he worked for
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the same company for 45 years.
And at the end of that he was
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tired, he didn't want to go to
work anymore.
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So he went to his boss and A
tine done.
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This is episode is my last day.
The boss was taken aback.
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He Said, Fred, you've helped me
build every house we built in
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this company.
Could you do just one more thing
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for me before you go Frets at?
Of course, I've loved it here.
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This is the only job that I've
had.
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So the boss said, okay, build me
just one more house.
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Only you can do it, you're my
master Carpenter.
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So Fred said, okay.
And he did it, but he did it
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begrudgingly for the The first
time in his life he produced
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shoddy workmanship.
He barely got the job done but a
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miracle happened when it was
done and it passed inspection.
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So he went back to the boss and
said, okay, here's the keys to
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the last house, I'm done the
boss.
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It's cold at fret.
We're going to have a big party.
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So he called everybody into the
office, they pop the champagne,
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they had the caviar, they had a
big party and then he said, he's
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gathered everybody around me
said.
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Everybody.
This is Fred's last day.
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I am so sad, but he's going to
be so happy and he said Fred,
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I've got a gift for you.
It's a Parting Gift.
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Here's the keys to the last
house you ever built.
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May, you live in it with, with
all the enthusiasm you showed me
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old?
Now, can you picture the
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difference of he had been in his
usual workmanship.
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Now, that's just to show you
Jennifer that enthusiasm is not
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a Monday thing.
It's not a Tuesday that it's not
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a Wednesday thing.
It It's something you bring to
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the table each and every day and
that's the game changer.
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That makes everything so
special.
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That's a great story.
I actually was listening to an
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interview with Deepak Chopra and
I didn't realize that enthusiasm
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the word itself means and
theater switches in God.
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And so if you have the purpose
or the intention of God flowing
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through you, then you're eager
for life.
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You're eager for what's next.
And so I thought that was a
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really Fascinating twists on
what I had always known
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enthusiasm.
So otherwise be and another one
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of her golden curls, ask
inspiration and the inspiration
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is simpler, it means from the
spirit.
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So again, very important concept
that people should realize that
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these are deeper principles than
what is just in the book.
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Mmm, exactly.
Well, those are amazing.
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So now, as far as some of your
more recent work, you just did a
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piece of writing as its called
Blue talks presents business
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life and the universe.
Can you tell us a little bit
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about that?
Yeah, this isn't a series of
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books that my friend Cory,
Poirier is put together and I
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wrote a chapter in the very
first of that.
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They're now, we're six of those
books out and it's something
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that people can really learn
about business life and the
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universe does each one of these
books concentrates on those
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things.
And so, I was very happy to be
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part of that, again.
It's just showing that I keep on
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going.
I keep on Galloping new things
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and helping people with their
lives.
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Absolutely.
And you also had another piece
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of writing with Jack Canfield, I
understand colors of success.
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Yeah, Jack Canfield for people
who don't recognize nice.
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His name, is he co-author of
Chicken Soup for the Soul.
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And so Jack approached me and
said, could you please write
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something with me in my book
pillars of success.
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So when that opportunity
presented itself, I was so happy
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and as a result, it became a
best-selling book and Iran.
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When me Major award for that
cultic quilly award which is
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equivalent to an Academy Award
for best selling authors.
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Well, congratulations to you for
that.
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Well, he was a yag again of
thrilling.
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Time to walk the red carpet in
Los Angeles, and be able to
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share that with my co-authors to
another wonderful thing in my
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life.
So, again, it was a very fun
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time but you know, it doesn't
stop there.
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I have my syndicated radio show
and I've been asked to do a
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television show Well and so it's
going to be very exciting in the
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next couple of years as my
television show comes on.
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And they've even asked me to do
my own station so that we can
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even bring more of these
wonderful things to people over
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the next couple of years.
It's really wonderful to be able
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to see positive content out
there because there's so much of
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the contrary.
That is filling the minds of
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people all over the world.
And so that was one of the
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reasons why I wanted the human
Beauty movement to really be all
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about.
About inspiring people to that
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radical self-love and radical
self-acceptance.
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Because I think that when you
don't talk about it enough, or
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when you don't see it enough,
then people don't recognize that
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it really exists, and it's
important for people to be able
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to see that there is so much
good in the world.
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There are so many wonderful
people that are cheering for you
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and that want you to succeed and
want to drive.
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Well, you know, I learned a very
interesting statistic the other
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day but 40% of Americans, do not
watch the news anymore.
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Because of the negative news
that's out there all the time
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I'm running and so that number
is growing and in some
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countries, it's even more than
that.
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So, it's just showing that
everybody's sick and tired of
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the negative news that goes on
day in, and day out the other
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day, my wife and I were watching
and there were 14 - stories all
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in a row.
Yeah, it's almost like these
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little micro tears on our soul.
Exactly.
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So how do you Gary's about that?
By Contra manding, it with more
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positive experiences with more
positive messages, so that
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people have this opportunity to
learn about wonderful things and
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do things in a more positive
way.
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Absolutely.
Well, doctor, like I am so
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pleased to have you on so that
we together can spread
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positivity and spread different
secrets on how to live a
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fantastic life.
Yes.
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And I'm so glad you had me here
and I'm so glad to spread my
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message with you wonderful
everybody.
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Please take Look at the show
notes so that you can see how
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you can get in touch with dr.
Lega, and find, his writings in
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the meantime, stay beautiful.
Thank you for listening to the
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human Beauty movement podcast.
Be sure to follow rate and
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That cultivates, the beauty of
humankind, check out our
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media and share our inspiration
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with all the beautiful humans in
your life.
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Learn more at the Human Beauty.
Movement.com.
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