March 21, 2023

Episode 49: Chris Hutchinson - Secrets Of Being A Great Leader And Building Strong Organizations

Episode 49: Chris Hutchinson - Secrets Of Being A Great Leader And Building Strong Organizations
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Episode 49: Chris Hutchinson - Secrets Of Being A Great Leader And Building Strong Organizations

Meet Chris Hutchinson! Chris is the founder of Trebuchet Group, a Certified B Corporation that helps bring out the best in organizations and people. Chris helps coach and mentor people on building effective leadership skills and great teams. In this episode, we talk about how leadership impacts an organization, what makes a great leader, how curiosity builds real understanding, and founding an organization upon deeper meaning for the greater good. Enjoy the listen!


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    Hello, beautiful humans.
    Welcome to another episode of

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    Role Models gz conversations
    with beautiful humans.

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    I'm Jennifer Norman founder of
    the human Beauty movement and

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    your host, this podcast thrives
    on your support.

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    So if you like what you hear,
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    this episode with everyone, you
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    So, I have a question for
    everyone.

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    Who's listening Listening, do
    you consider yourself a great

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    leader, a great team, player,
    both or none of the above today,

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    we're going to talk about what
    it takes to rise to the

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    occasion, and make your presence
    bigger in your organization and

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    in your life.
    My guest is Chris, Hutchinson,

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    Chris is the founder of
    trebuchet group, a certified B

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    corporation.
    That helps bring out the best in

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    organizations and people.
    Now Chris calls himself and

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    abundance influencer, he helps
    coach and mentor People on

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    building effective leadership
    skills, and great teams.

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    Welcome Chris.
    Thank you, Jennifer.

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    It's wonderful to be with you.
    I am delighted to have this

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    conversation.
    It is so important because I

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    would say, it doesn't matter who
    you are or what you do.

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    You could be a young student,
    you could be the CEO of a

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    multi-billion dollar
    Corporation.

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    I think there's one thing that
    all of us humans have in common

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    and that is the frustration or
    the fear of not living up to our

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    potential.
    Would you say that you would

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    agree?
    I absolutely do.

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    I think that's something whether
    it's on the surface or deep

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    within that.
    A lot of people are trying to

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    figure out how to be enough and
    how to be with others and be

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    enough.
    Yeah, yeah.

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    Now I want to wind it back to
    2002 when you started the

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    trebuchet group, what was it
    that caused you to think?

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    You know, I think there's an
    opportunity to help people with

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    leadership and with
    organizations.

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    Well, that's such a good
    question and I'm going to have

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    to wind it back a little bit
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    So when I was graduating from
    college and I was a brand new

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    wet-behind-the-ears mechanical
    engineer and a Tenant in the US

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    Air Force, I went through ROTC
    to pay for my degree.

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    I was on a team where there was
    the leader.

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    Well, it was really challenging,
    I would just tell you that the

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    environment on the team was,
    keep your head down hide in the

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    grass, you know, don't put
    yourself out there because

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    you're going to get criticized.
    And if you bring any bad news,

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    having forbid things were going
    to be bad.

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    And I was thinking my four-year
    commitment was like a four-year

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    sentence.
    I'm in trouble.

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    Yeah, this is not what I thought
    it was going to be and luckily

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    things change in big
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    They have rotate people through
    and I get put on a different

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    team essentially.
    And this Steam was hey, I'm

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    really strong at this.
    You don't seem like you've got

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    that, let me help you and I
    noticed that you have a

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    superpower here.
    How can we harness that lots of

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    communication?
    Lots of open, is it was amazing?

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    I mean, I jumped out of bed,
    wanting to contribute feeling

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    great.
    And the reality was, I said, I

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    went to a different team, a
    different team was created

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    because one person changed on
    the team, the leader changed and

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    I realized it didn't matter how
    good of an engineer.

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    I wasn't any of my colleagues.
    If we had a leader who wasn't

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    helping bring out the best in us
    getting Clarity and helping us

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    communicate like on team to team
    one was really not.

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    I was depressed.
    I didn't really enjoy coming to

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    work at all.
    Team two, I loved contributing

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    and I would do whatever I needed
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    So that influence me through the
    Air Force and through Corporate

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    America and in 2002, our leader
    at the time, it division a

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    Motorola dropped us from 3,000
    people to 20 and 18 months, 20,

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    they were technological
    challenges in the Mark was hard,

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    but it was really a leadership
    failure.

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    And as I got out, I thought,
    okay, great, I have a severance,

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    this is a gift.
    And what do I want to do with

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    this?
    How do I want to take these

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    learnings?
    I've done and help other people,

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    learn them not as a guru sitting
    on the hill, but as a partner

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    beside people, helping them
    discover what they need and

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    perhaps, giving a tool here or
    some advice there or bolster

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    here, so that they can be their
    most excellent self as a leader

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    and enable that in others.
    It's so fascinating.

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    How the tone and the spirit of
    the leader makes such a

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    difference.
    Everywhere.

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    You go.
    It really is said, everybody is

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    looking up to that leader for
    cues on how they should be, what

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    the tone is of an organization.
    And You know how people are

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    going to operate.
    Can you tell us what in your

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    opinion are the traits of our
    great leader?

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    Well, I think great leaders
    really I think do an able in a

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    positive way.
    The best within others right now

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    our team is a set a goal for the
    next year we set one as an

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    intention and figure out what
    are we going to do besides the

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    work that we do how are we going
    to continue evolving or

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    accompanying each other?
    And our goal is thriving in our

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    sweet spots so it means as a
    company as individuals where the

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    place is not that we get to live
    out there all the time.

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    Do only the fun things but How
    can we tap our strengths?

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    And so I think really great
    leaders.

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    Are they understand their own
    strengths first of all.

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    So if I understand my strengths,
    I will see your differences as

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    your strengths, not as I'm
    normal.

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    And if you're like me, you're
    normal, and if you're not,

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    you're abnormal, you know, a lot
    of people don't really realize

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    their strengths.
    So knowing those strengths being

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    able to understand what my path
    might be, not as a rigid step,

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    but where am I going?
    And how might I invite you along

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    with it for as long as we get to
    go together?

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    And then I think it's a lot
    around being, how do I develop

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    trust and really give trust
    first as a leader.

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    It's not well, Wait, till
    somebody is trustworthy, how do

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    I become vulnerable?
    And open to what we need to do

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    together?
    I'm learning just as much, maybe

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    even more than the people that
    time, quote, have air quotes

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    here leading, when I have that
    deep connection with them, I

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    believe that I will equip you,
    and uniquely for the thing

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    rather than treating use a cog.
    Here's the roll, this is what

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    this person does.
    Like how can you make that role

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    seeing how do we equip that we
    get the best for everyone?

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    And then finally, the last part.
    So I know myself, I'm really

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    working well with others and
    enabling the best and then we

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    all turn towards the
    Organization.

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    And that's where we say, well,
    what's effective, what's the

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    right things to do?
    And then eventually we figure

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    out how can we do those really
    right?

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    So efficiency.
    So I think the pieces that make

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    a good leader, a lot of
    companies come to come the other

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    way.
    They start with, let's be

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    efficient.
    Well, that didn't work.

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    Let's reorganize, we need to be
    different and effective.

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    Oh, that didn't work.
    I didn't give you the tools that

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    you needed.
    Well, that didn't work, as I

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    didn't treat you as anything
    more than just a blob, you know,

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    human resource.
    And if those things aren't

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    happening, then it comes into
    me.

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    Am I in the right actions
    around, the things that are

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    challenging, difficult and
    important?

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    And then if I'm not there, do I
    know myself?

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    So, I think I've told you the
    path one way through and the

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    path lot of organizations sort
    of show up with.

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    Yeah, fascinating back.
    When I was an MBA students, one

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    of my favorite classes of all
    time was organizational

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    behavior.
    It's so weird.

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    It was brilliant because it was
    a social experiment, the class

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    divided into two different teams
    and there were two different

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    classes and so there were four
    teams total and we had to create

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    an organization come up with a
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    Or service and sell it.
    And at the end, it was, you

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    know, whoever made the most
    sales with whoever was the most

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    functional organization.
    And a lot of the top items that

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    we had learned in the class, we
    had to put into actual real term

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    practice.
    And so it was fascinating

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    because you definitely saw the
    dysfunction in certain groups

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    and at certain times of stress
    and moments, you saw the rise of

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    what we would consider either
    natural-born leaders or the ones

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    that Rose to the challenge of
    wanting to actually take that

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    front and then other separately.
    Great followers.

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    And it was just interesting to
    see how quickly all of that had

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    two bills because by the end of
    the semester, you're going to

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    get graded on it.
    And so I often think you know

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    this predated a lot of virtual
    TV like Survivor and whatnot and

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    you were living it, you are just
    watching it.

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    We were living it.
    We were absolutely living at but

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    I was just curious from your
    standpoint because I used the

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    term natural-born leaders and I
    think about some people would

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    say yeah, that there is this
    inherent gift that some people

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    Have maybe it's the first born
    child or do.

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    You think that there are any
    specific traits in humans that

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    make them better leaders just
    inherently?

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    Or is it a skill that can be
    learned?

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    Yes.
    So that's the short answer is,

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    both is our true.
    The, in fact, the most inherent

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    trait for a really great
    leaders, something that I don't

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    think many people in they think
    of great leadership would put

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    together, but I was challenged
    one time.

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    Because in my book, I wrote
    down, you know, everybody's a

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    leader.
    You know, I think of my

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    five-year-old, son, bouncing
    across the couch.

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    Cushions my to Daughter was
    following him doing exactly what

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    he was doing.
    We imitate.

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    We look at things, you know,
    that's the way that we as humans

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    kind of learn and work together
    and the person's like, I don't

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    think that and instead, could
    anyone be a great leader?

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    Really?
    Good question.

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    I think that the most important
    thing for a good leader, anybody

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    can be a good leader.
    Anybody can walk through them

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    techniques and, you know, follow
    the self discovery and learn all

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    this stuff.
    But really if you don't like

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    people, and you're not willing
    to sort of do hard things in the

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    service of something bigger,
    you're probably not going to be

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    a great leader, you'll be okay,
    leader, you'll do.

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    All right, I think that's That's
    what the core of leadership is.

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    I'm willing to I'm not doing
    this for me to set on a big

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    Golden Throne and take, you
    know, hors d'oeuvres.

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    It's more of.
    I am in service to something

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    bigger and I'm inviting you to
    do the same and I'm with that

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    there's all sorts of things.
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    patterns that we fall into when
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    certain things that emerge and
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    or somebody's like I'm going to
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    superiority or whatever.
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    apparent, people are mmm.
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    that says I need help or is it
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    working past and we are
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    frequently the leaders have a
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    have the authority to say hey
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    we walk in and say hey we have
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    talk Talk about what's wrong.
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    doing great?
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    we want, and it's so exciting.
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    that discovered, what change in
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    same in the room and we now can
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    that's really fun.
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    you got to go fix somebody, we
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    mechanical engineer, I can fix
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    I don't think people should be
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    behavior and that supports where
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    going to address and be able to
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    whatever it is that they wish to
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    company and has two different
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    team that's you know, heating up
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    we would ask questions of the
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    weatherization that didn't start
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    heck do I lead in this.
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    people to people and with people
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    The I do things for I serve
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    frankly I really don't like that
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    what's going on that we need to
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    Focus team building where we
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    trust Falls and squishy toys are
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    to know each other in a short
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    the business.
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    with a lot of me.
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    know, my strengths, we probably
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    conflict.
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    the goals that we've decided on.
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    boss so that the results we get
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    So I just threw a whole bunch of
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    belt at you Jennifer.
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    people where they are and walk
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    where we could be and what could
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    fascinating.
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    every organization gets the
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    of success, you know, how much
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    organization and at what cost I
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    might be like, oh, things are

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    today's been kind of hard and
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    measured hundreds of teams and
    found out.

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    What was the thing that made the
    biggest difference in the team's

    400
    00:17:23,599 --> 00:17:25,400
    performance and head and
    shoulders above.

    401
    00:17:25,400 --> 00:17:27,599
    All of them was emotional
    safety.

    402
    00:17:27,599 --> 00:17:29,500
    So, psychological safety, I
    could be me.

    403
    00:17:29,500 --> 00:17:32,500
    I I could say this is a hard day
    or I'm struggling because my dog

    404
    00:17:32,500 --> 00:17:35,400
    is dying or, you know, anything
    could be happening, so you can

    405
    00:17:35,400 --> 00:17:37,200
    hear that.
    Connecting with what you just

    406
    00:17:37,200 --> 00:17:38,800
    asked is like, well, how do you
    have these people that are

    407
    00:17:38,800 --> 00:17:42,400
    showing up, like, work needs to
    be my community, work needs to

    408
    00:17:42,400 --> 00:17:44,900
    be, especially in the pandemic.
    I think a lot of people were

    409
    00:17:44,900 --> 00:17:47,400
    collapsed down to who were they
    interacting with most?

    410
    00:17:47,400 --> 00:17:49,600
    Even it was online.
    I need a counselor.

    411
    00:17:49,600 --> 00:17:52,200
    I want somebody who can coach
    me, not only in what I'm doing

    412
    00:17:52,200 --> 00:17:54,300
    here at work, but how that fits
    into the rest of my life?

    413
    00:17:54,300 --> 00:17:57,000
    And I think there's a lot of
    people who never signed up for

    414
    00:17:57,000 --> 00:17:58,700
    that, right?
    They barely know what they're

    415
    00:17:58,700 --> 00:18:01,400
    doing.
    In terms of I just go to work.

    416
    00:18:01,400 --> 00:18:04,800
    I do my work right those people
    are I think moving on out of the

    417
    00:18:04,800 --> 00:18:07,100
    you know because that was sort
    of generational and I think

    418
    00:18:07,100 --> 00:18:11,000
    there's an opportunity for
    leaders to say can I be in touch

    419
    00:18:11,000 --> 00:18:14,100
    with what's important to me
    safely not spreading it on

    420
    00:18:14,100 --> 00:18:17,000
    people spring it on people but
    safely in a way that allows that

    421
    00:18:17,000 --> 00:18:19,700
    for other people and what's
    really cool Jennifer is that the

    422
    00:18:19,700 --> 00:18:22,300
    people, the leaders, who do that
    the men and women who do that,

    423
    00:18:22,300 --> 00:18:24,600
    they get to a place where
    they're enjoying their

    424
    00:18:24,600 --> 00:18:26,600
    experience significantly better.
    They'll like, you know, I'm

    425
    00:18:26,600 --> 00:18:28,100
    sleeping better.
    And I'm having this good stuff.

    426
    00:18:28,100 --> 00:18:29,500
    I don't usually go directly to
    lie.

    427
    00:18:29,600 --> 00:18:31,200
    Let's do counseling.
    First of all, I'm not a

    428
    00:18:31,200 --> 00:18:32,800
    counselor.
    I mean, we do a lot of work

    429
    00:18:32,900 --> 00:18:35,700
    recovering engineer done this
    for 20 years but we talk about

    430
    00:18:35,700 --> 00:18:38,000
    what's great in the business and
    what excites you about that?

    431
    00:18:38,000 --> 00:18:39,800
    So there's a connection there
    but it's kind of like the

    432
    00:18:39,800 --> 00:18:42,900
    business reason for doing it.
    And once we do that, then people

    433
    00:18:42,900 --> 00:18:45,500
    start seeing oh you know what
    the business got better, when I

    434
    00:18:45,500 --> 00:18:46,900
    was more in touch with what I
    could do.

    435
    00:18:46,900 --> 00:18:49,300
    And I can honestly say, hey, I
    tender for, that's a better idea

    436
    00:18:49,300 --> 00:18:52,500
    than my or I screwed up or
    Jennifer, I need your help.

    437
    00:18:52,500 --> 00:18:55,000
    I can't do this, you know, then
    we're a team then we're able to

    438
    00:18:55,000 --> 00:18:56,800
    be more than the just strong
    pillars.

    439
    00:18:56,800 --> 00:18:59,500
    That normally teams are so I
    think it's an opportunity.

    440
    00:18:59,600 --> 00:19:02,500
    For people who have had
    different leadership styles to

    441
    00:19:02,500 --> 00:19:04,900
    sort of step back and decide,
    what do they want to happening

    442
    00:19:04,900 --> 00:19:06,300
    in the world?
    And how do they want to step

    443
    00:19:06,300 --> 00:19:07,900
    into that?
    And having support to do, that

    444
    00:19:07,900 --> 00:19:09,800
    is really important.
    Because like, if it's just me,

    445
    00:19:09,800 --> 00:19:11,900
    I'll do what I do.
    And if it's different, it's hard

    446
    00:19:11,900 --> 00:19:14,500
    and I probably will slide back
    to, where they, the way I do it.

    447
    00:19:14,800 --> 00:19:16,000
    Hmm.
    I don't know how much it

    448
    00:19:16,000 --> 00:19:17,300
    answered that really tough
    question there.

    449
    00:19:17,300 --> 00:19:19,400
    Ya know you did a great job with
    that.

    450
    00:19:19,500 --> 00:19:22,800
    Thank you.
    Now, for all of those leaders of

    451
    00:19:22,800 --> 00:19:26,500
    organizations, or leaders of
    households, that might be

    452
    00:19:26,500 --> 00:19:29,600
    listening.
    We talked about being able to

    453
    00:19:29,600 --> 00:19:34,400
    All to be vulnerable.
    We talked about working with not

    454
    00:19:34,400 --> 00:19:38,400
    to and in some cases for but in
    a balanced way, what are some of

    455
    00:19:38,400 --> 00:19:41,800
    the other things that people can
    say, you know let me stop and

    456
    00:19:41,800 --> 00:19:44,600
    think about, you know, what, my
    behavior is or what I'm

    457
    00:19:44,600 --> 00:19:47,900
    projecting, what are some of the
    things that you've noticed

    458
    00:19:47,900 --> 00:19:50,800
    really help in perhaps the
    shortest or the least amount of

    459
    00:19:50,800 --> 00:19:53,600
    time.
    Another killer question sum up

    460
    00:19:53,600 --> 00:19:55,500
    all this experience.
    That's what I'm doing.

    461
    00:19:59,600 --> 00:20:01,200
    Just be like, okay, what's the
    next question?

    462
    00:20:01,200 --> 00:20:04,400
    She's gonna give me great.
    So, how do I get in touch?

    463
    00:20:04,400 --> 00:20:08,700
    I think I would say the most
    important thing is to be curious

    464
    00:20:08,900 --> 00:20:12,500
    and listen, mmm, I think those
    are the two if I bought it all

    465
    00:20:12,500 --> 00:20:16,000
    down to curiosity, and not in
    the luxurious, why the hell

    466
    00:20:16,000 --> 00:20:18,300
    you're not doing this?
    That's not curiosity.

    467
    00:20:18,300 --> 00:20:22,500
    We will say that the curiosity
    like, real genuine honest,

    468
    00:20:22,500 --> 00:20:26,000
    curiosity and listening and I
    think when that connection you

    469
    00:20:26,000 --> 00:20:28,800
    can find, people people want to
    be heard and people want to be

    470
    00:20:28,800 --> 00:20:30,800
    able to be understood.
    Stood and have their ideas

    471
    00:20:30,800 --> 00:20:32,500
    considered.
    They don't have to have the way

    472
    00:20:32,500 --> 00:20:35,000
    that things go doesn't have to
    be their way but if they're not

    473
    00:20:35,000 --> 00:20:36,500
    any of those above like I'm not
    listen to.

    474
    00:20:36,500 --> 00:20:39,800
    I'm not appreciated in any way.
    Yeah, I'm going to either show

    475
    00:20:39,800 --> 00:20:43,100
    up and just kind of idle like
    quite quitting or I'm going to

    476
    00:20:43,100 --> 00:20:45,600
    maybe fight back which those
    people are actually easier to

    477
    00:20:45,600 --> 00:20:48,500
    redirect than somebody who just
    disengages because they care.

    478
    00:20:48,500 --> 00:20:49,700
    That's why they're fighting
    back, right?

    479
    00:20:49,700 --> 00:20:51,800
    So let's what are we cool?
    You fight for together?

    480
    00:20:51,900 --> 00:20:55,300
    And one example I can give and I
    haven't had the privilege and to

    481
    00:20:55,300 --> 00:20:57,100
    listen to a lot of your other
    episodes.

    482
    00:20:57,100 --> 00:20:58,800
    I'm sure you have some really
    cool Role Models.

    483
    00:20:58,900 --> 00:21:00,400
    Have you heard?
    Could be Thea.

    484
    00:21:00,500 --> 00:21:02,900
    Yeah.
    So I could be Thea is an amazing

    485
    00:21:03,000 --> 00:21:05,600
    coach and I think diversity
    consultant.

    486
    00:21:05,600 --> 00:21:09,000
    I'm not sure she was on a brene
    brown podcast and she talked

    487
    00:21:09,000 --> 00:21:11,600
    about this.
    So at the core of this way to

    488
    00:21:11,600 --> 00:21:14,600
    deal with the really tough
    issues of like, I feel

    489
    00:21:14,600 --> 00:21:18,000
    oppressed, or I'm doing things
    that people are feeling a

    490
    00:21:18,000 --> 00:21:20,900
    pressing or we're not honoring
    each other microaggressions, all

    491
    00:21:20,900 --> 00:21:23,500
    the things that can happen, most
    of which are unintentional, at

    492
    00:21:23,500 --> 00:21:25,400
    least on the conscious level.
    I'm not intending to hurt

    493
    00:21:25,400 --> 00:21:27,200
    anybody rather than calling
    people out.

    494
    00:21:27,200 --> 00:21:29,400
    She went through this practice
    of calling people in and there's

    495
    00:21:29,500 --> 00:21:32,200
    Curiosity and listening in it.
    So the way it starts is if let's

    496
    00:21:32,200 --> 00:21:34,500
    say you said something and it
    kind of hit me and I was like,

    497
    00:21:34,500 --> 00:21:37,300
    Wow gosh, you know, but you're
    the boss Jennifer and I just I

    498
    00:21:37,308 --> 00:21:39,900
    just have to suck it up.
    Or unlike do I fight back and my

    499
    00:21:39,900 --> 00:21:42,500
    Frozen, like, what the hell?
    And if I can stay in curiosity,

    500
    00:21:42,500 --> 00:21:44,800
    that keeps me out of judgment
    because you can't be curious and

    501
    00:21:44,800 --> 00:21:46,800
    judgmental.
    The same time, it's really

    502
    00:21:46,800 --> 00:21:47,800
    important.
    Good thing.

    503
    00:21:47,800 --> 00:21:49,900
    And so, if I'm curious, when I
    say Jennifer, what were you?

    504
    00:21:49,900 --> 00:21:53,100
    Hoping would be a result of you
    sharing that information, or

    505
    00:21:53,100 --> 00:21:55,600
    asking me, how can we get a real
    facilitator here?

    506
    00:21:55,600 --> 00:21:57,500
    You know, whatever the comment
    would be if you were the leader

    507
    00:21:57,500 --> 00:21:59,800
    and I've done this like
    literally with people's Sitting

    508
    00:21:59,800 --> 00:22:02,400
    around me in the room and just
    done that and said, I'm really

    509
    00:22:02,400 --> 00:22:05,400
    truly curious is not a technique
    and then I listened and you say,

    510
    00:22:05,400 --> 00:22:07,500
    well, I'm trying to make sure,
    you know, I think we're doing

    511
    00:22:07,500 --> 00:22:10,300
    good things and whatever, you
    know, and I'll probably feel the

    512
    00:22:10,300 --> 00:22:12,400
    sting lesson if I understand
    your intent.

    513
    00:22:12,500 --> 00:22:15,400
    And then I can say, okay, thank
    you, Jim for that helps me.

    514
    00:22:15,400 --> 00:22:18,300
    How open, would you be to
    hearing how it impacted me

    515
    00:22:18,300 --> 00:22:20,800
    initially?
    And then I would say, yeah, I

    516
    00:22:20,800 --> 00:22:23,500
    felt like, what am I doing here?
    And I must not be a real

    517
    00:22:23,500 --> 00:22:25,900
    facilitator.
    And then I thought I'm in one

    518
    00:22:25,900 --> 00:22:28,800
    place and if that wasn't your
    intention, you'd say holy cow.

    519
    00:22:28,800 --> 00:22:30,600
    Wow, I Know that that would
    happen.

    520
    00:22:30,600 --> 00:22:32,500
    And then we can both say, well,
    what do we want to do going

    521
    00:22:32,500 --> 00:22:35,100
    forward and that Curiosity and
    listening and the connection?

    522
    00:22:35,200 --> 00:22:38,200
    I can't tell you how powerful
    that is for anybody in any

    523
    00:22:38,200 --> 00:22:40,000
    circumstance.
    I think is one the most powerful

    524
    00:22:40,000 --> 00:22:42,800
    tools I've ever had in helping a
    line people together.

    525
    00:22:42,800 --> 00:22:45,300
    And what are we trying to do?
    And if you indeed were like,

    526
    00:22:45,300 --> 00:22:47,100
    well, I think you're a shitty
    facilitator.

    527
    00:22:47,100 --> 00:22:49,700
    You're not very good and you
    need to go and we need somebody

    528
    00:22:49,700 --> 00:22:51,500
    who can really do this.
    Thank you for letting me know

    529
    00:22:51,500 --> 00:22:53,000
    that.
    How can we set up the?

    530
    00:22:53,000 --> 00:22:55,300
    I'd like the team to be okay.
    I would literally do this in the

    531
    00:22:55,300 --> 00:22:58,800
    middle of a room because I think
    to me as a leader being

    532
    00:22:58,800 --> 00:23:01,600
    vulnerable is Very important.
    And there is times we've seen

    533
    00:23:01,600 --> 00:23:03,700
    this.
    When as a facilitator, I'm not

    534
    00:23:03,700 --> 00:23:05,800
    the leader.
    And yet, I can set the example.

    535
    00:23:06,300 --> 00:23:09,100
    If I am vulnerable in front of
    other people in a way that

    536
    00:23:09,100 --> 00:23:11,900
    supports what we need to do,
    they essentially just got a

    537
    00:23:11,900 --> 00:23:14,200
    little way to say, oh, I'm gonna
    be able to do that too.

    538
    00:23:14,300 --> 00:23:16,600
    I'm very often, it's the CEO
    really needs.

    539
    00:23:16,600 --> 00:23:19,400
    That example, our could benefit
    from that because, oh, you don't

    540
    00:23:19,400 --> 00:23:21,200
    have to be perfect.
    Oh, you don't have to have every

    541
    00:23:21,200 --> 00:23:22,600
    answer.
    Oh, you could look to the group

    542
    00:23:22,600 --> 00:23:25,300
    for help because that's what I'm
    doing, facilitative Lee, and

    543
    00:23:25,300 --> 00:23:29,400
    those are very effective ways to
    connect and lead people that is

    544
    00:23:29,500 --> 00:23:32,800
    Is so fascinating.
    Yes, the listening and making

    545
    00:23:32,800 --> 00:23:36,600
    sure that you understand what
    was just said and understand

    546
    00:23:36,600 --> 00:23:38,700
    what was just heard at the
    understanding.

    547
    00:23:38,700 --> 00:23:42,600
    Underneath the listening is so
    key because then you can really

    548
    00:23:42,600 --> 00:23:46,500
    get to the humanness of what's
    going on in an ordinary

    549
    00:23:46,500 --> 00:23:48,900
    situation which would otherwise
    be, okay.

    550
    00:23:48,900 --> 00:23:51,300
    I'm going to put the vinegar on
    and be like, oh, thank you, I

    551
    00:23:51,300 --> 00:23:53,700
    respect that.
    And if you don't build those

    552
    00:23:53,700 --> 00:23:56,600
    connections, you don't get
    curious enough to really dig

    553
    00:23:56,600 --> 00:23:59,400
    into the meat and the Heart of
    what those Jews.

    554
    00:23:59,600 --> 00:24:01,900
    Our.
    And if we're asking people to

    555
    00:24:02,000 --> 00:24:04,300
    commit a piece of their lives
    for this and hopefully in a

    556
    00:24:04,308 --> 00:24:06,800
    purpose, based organizations are
    there to commit a piece of their

    557
    00:24:06,800 --> 00:24:09,400
    life to this.
    If I'm as a leader helping

    558
    00:24:09,400 --> 00:24:11,500
    enable that, why would I go
    anywhere else?

    559
    00:24:11,500 --> 00:24:14,800
    It's not a golden handcuffs.
    It's an environment where we are

    560
    00:24:14,800 --> 00:24:16,300
    being the best with each other.
    Yeah.

    561
    00:24:16,300 --> 00:24:18,800
    And guess what, when things
    matter a lot, I'm going to be

    562
    00:24:18,800 --> 00:24:20,400
    emotional, it's going to be
    harder, I'm going to be more

    563
    00:24:20,400 --> 00:24:22,100
    stressed, you're doing more
    stress.

    564
    00:24:22,100 --> 00:24:25,100
    So having ways that we can work
    through that and use that stress

    565
    00:24:25,100 --> 00:24:28,800
    to push us forward, rather than
    beating up on each other or one

    566
    00:24:28,800 --> 00:24:31,800
    person pull Lean back, always
    and the other person like you

    567
    00:24:31,800 --> 00:24:33,400
    always works for me.
    I wonder what's happening for

    568
    00:24:33,400 --> 00:24:35,500
    you and until that person says
    no, I refuse.

    569
    00:24:35,500 --> 00:24:37,200
    I'm not going to accommodate any
    more.

    570
    00:24:37,200 --> 00:24:39,700
    I'm now participating in my own
    diminishment I'm not going to do

    571
    00:24:39,700 --> 00:24:41,400
    that anymore and that's usually
    not fun.

    572
    00:24:41,400 --> 00:24:43,100
    When that happens, I mean, it's
    important.

    573
    00:24:43,100 --> 00:24:45,300
    But rather, how do we do that
    almost all the time?

    574
    00:24:45,300 --> 00:24:46,600
    Like hey what are we doing
    together?

    575
    00:24:46,600 --> 00:24:49,800
    Hey, what are we doing together?
    Hmm, I'm going to switch gears

    576
    00:24:49,800 --> 00:24:53,400
    because I've heard that we were
    talking to you mentioned just

    577
    00:24:53,400 --> 00:24:57,300
    earlier about Purpose, Driven
    organizations, and I would say

    578
    00:24:57,300 --> 00:25:02,400
    that Purpose Driven organization
    From the soul of the person who

    579
    00:25:02,400 --> 00:25:05,900
    founded the company, as well as
    the leader, the CEO, they know

    580
    00:25:05,900 --> 00:25:09,000
    that they have a higher calling,
    they know that they are out

    581
    00:25:09,000 --> 00:25:12,900
    there for, not just profits, but
    also for people and the planet

    582
    00:25:12,900 --> 00:25:16,400
    in most cases.
    And so from the perspective of

    583
    00:25:16,500 --> 00:25:19,600
    having an ear to the ground or
    understanding the heartbeat of

    584
    00:25:19,608 --> 00:25:22,800
    their organization, I would
    imagine that that comes a little

    585
    00:25:22,800 --> 00:25:27,400
    bit more natural and you
    yourself are the founder of in

    586
    00:25:27,400 --> 00:25:29,400
    purpose-driven organization in
    that.

    587
    00:25:29,500 --> 00:25:32,200
    You are a certified V Corp.
    Can you tell us?

    588
    00:25:32,200 --> 00:25:36,200
    What do you think, sets people
    apart or sets organizations

    589
    00:25:36,200 --> 00:25:40,900
    apart that are Purpose, Driven
    versus others that might not be

    590
    00:25:40,900 --> 00:25:44,900
    and why you yourself decided
    that you wanted to be a

    591
    00:25:44,908 --> 00:25:47,800
    purpose-driven organization.
    Hmm, you know, it's really fun.

    592
    00:25:47,800 --> 00:25:50,200
    I'm going to play with just for
    a moment here because I had

    593
    00:25:50,200 --> 00:25:52,700
    somebody talking about conscious
    leadership and purpose-driven

    594
    00:25:52,700 --> 00:25:54,700
    businesses.
    And I said, you know, if you're

    595
    00:25:54,700 --> 00:25:57,000
    trying to invite people in sort
    of hinting that they're

    596
    00:25:57,000 --> 00:26:00,100
    unconscious and not Purpose,
    Driven is probably Out a way to

    597
    00:26:00,100 --> 00:26:02,600
    help them feel like I think I'm
    a conscious leader because I'm

    598
    00:26:02,600 --> 00:26:05,900
    awake and even Enron was a
    Purpose Driven organization not

    599
    00:26:05,900 --> 00:26:07,900
    in the way that we're talking
    about and they had a very clear

    600
    00:26:07,900 --> 00:26:10,100
    purpose of what they wanted to
    do together and it was

    601
    00:26:10,100 --> 00:26:11,800
    incredibly destructive.
    That's it.

    602
    00:26:11,800 --> 00:26:13,400
    I know we're talking about
    Positive Purpose, we're talking

    603
    00:26:13,400 --> 00:26:17,800
    about things that enhance people
    and planet and really thriving

    604
    00:26:17,900 --> 00:26:20,700
    in an economic way.
    I think you hinted at the

    605
    00:26:20,700 --> 00:26:22,500
    answer.
    When you said this company was

    606
    00:26:22,500 --> 00:26:24,200
    started from the soul of
    someone.

    607
    00:26:24,200 --> 00:26:27,400
    I think it's a deep connection
    to meaning and I think we're all

    608
    00:26:27,400 --> 00:26:29,300
    wired for purpose.
    I think a lot of times.

    609
    00:26:29,400 --> 00:26:31,300
    We get that.
    Domestication that says, no,

    610
    00:26:31,300 --> 00:26:33,600
    you're actually here to consume,
    that's your purpose or your

    611
    00:26:33,600 --> 00:26:36,700
    here, to do some grow grow.
    Grow like a cancer, that's your

    612
    00:26:36,700 --> 00:26:38,800
    purpose.
    But ultimately, I think when we

    613
    00:26:38,900 --> 00:26:41,500
    can strip away some that
    conditioning, I think everybody

    614
    00:26:41,500 --> 00:26:43,400
    really wants that.
    I so the people that are more in

    615
    00:26:43,400 --> 00:26:45,400
    touch with that of like why am I
    here?

    616
    00:26:45,400 --> 00:26:47,700
    And what's this sort of change
    that I would like to make in the

    617
    00:26:47,700 --> 00:26:49,200
    world versus?
    I just need to get through the

    618
    00:26:49,200 --> 00:26:52,100
    days and make it by Weekend.
    Those are the folks that I think

    619
    00:26:52,100 --> 00:26:54,600
    have the opportunity to say.
    Here's a purpose.

    620
    00:26:54,600 --> 00:26:57,000
    I'm about bigger than me.
    Would you like to join?

    621
    00:26:57,000 --> 00:26:59,200
    How would you like to help?
    And so, that's a different kind

    622
    00:26:59,200 --> 00:27:02,800
    of Coming together then I need a
    job because we do and people

    623
    00:27:02,800 --> 00:27:05,500
    need housing and you know the
    economy works you have to have

    624
    00:27:05,500 --> 00:27:08,300
    money so people are going to do
    that and yet how can we invite

    625
    00:27:08,300 --> 00:27:10,100
    people into something bigger?
    I think those people that would

    626
    00:27:10,100 --> 00:27:13,200
    like to see that for themselves
    and for others are the ones that

    627
    00:27:13,200 --> 00:27:15,200
    usually do.
    That meant certainly me you know

    628
    00:27:15,200 --> 00:27:17,700
    I definitely it can be more of a
    good thing too much of a good

    629
    00:27:17,700 --> 00:27:20,300
    thing so caring for people and
    trying to help them if it goes

    630
    00:27:20,300 --> 00:27:22,500
    too far, that's rescuing, I mean
    a rescue you I'm going to do

    631
    00:27:22,500 --> 00:27:24,700
    things for you even if you could
    do them yourselves, I've had

    632
    00:27:24,700 --> 00:27:27,300
    experience with that, I'm
    recovering Rescuers, well family

    633
    00:27:27,300 --> 00:27:30,300
    systems and things and I was
    looking For the best Within

    634
    00:27:30,300 --> 00:27:32,400
    Myself and others.
    And when I started finding that

    635
    00:27:32,400 --> 00:27:35,900
    giving myself permission to be,
    who I was, it was very I was

    636
    00:27:35,900 --> 00:27:38,100
    like, in fact when I got out of
    that thing, I said, you know,

    637
    00:27:38,100 --> 00:27:40,100
    I've been doing the same work
    inside these very large

    638
    00:27:40,100 --> 00:27:42,900
    organizations like you described
    and it did do some really great

    639
    00:27:42,900 --> 00:27:45,100
    things and I think I helped a
    lot of people and I was always

    640
    00:27:45,100 --> 00:27:47,900
    limited by the power structure
    or if I, you know, it's like

    641
    00:27:47,900 --> 00:27:50,000
    well yeah, he works for us.
    He would say that or cheap.

    642
    00:27:50,000 --> 00:27:51,700
    Maybe we don't want to have him
    working here anymore.

    643
    00:27:51,700 --> 00:27:54,100
    And that fear what I could feel
    that kind of creeping in imeet.

    644
    00:27:54,100 --> 00:27:56,100
    Do I say that?
    Did I ask the challenging

    645
    00:27:56,100 --> 00:27:57,700
    question?
    Because I think it could be

    646
    00:27:57,700 --> 00:27:59,300
    better for everybody or do.
    I stay quiet?

    647
    00:27:59,500 --> 00:28:02,500
    And I decided in my own company
    that I could do that, and if it

    648
    00:28:02,500 --> 00:28:04,700
    turned out, we're working
    together, and the questions I

    649
    00:28:04,700 --> 00:28:07,700
    was asking where you wanted to
    go, then we were just part and

    650
    00:28:07,700 --> 00:28:10,500
    it's okay, I'm not here to
    impose anything on you.

    651
    00:28:10,600 --> 00:28:13,000
    We're working together as
    partners, we kind of bolt on for

    652
    00:28:13,000 --> 00:28:15,100
    however, long we'd like, and
    then we separate, and maybe we

    653
    00:28:15,108 --> 00:28:16,600
    come back together for another
    engagement.

    654
    00:28:16,700 --> 00:28:20,100
    So that really informed, that
    sort of partnership and bringing

    655
    00:28:20,100 --> 00:28:22,600
    out the best in you.
    And me was why I built a company

    656
    00:28:22,600 --> 00:28:25,500
    because I frankly, I didn't see
    a lot of companies that did that

    657
    00:28:25,600 --> 00:28:27,600
    because like yeah, that's not
    the normal way.

    658
    00:28:27,600 --> 00:28:30,800
    And yet I see it as so.
    Powerful and I wouldn't want to

    659
    00:28:30,800 --> 00:28:33,800
    live any other way and so why
    would you want to live up to the

    660
    00:28:33,800 --> 00:28:36,500
    rigor of being B?
    Corp certified.

    661
    00:28:36,500 --> 00:28:38,600
    I'm curious, that's awesome and
    I love it, you know?

    662
    00:28:38,600 --> 00:28:41,700
    And I see these announcements
    and they like pray, we got B

    663
    00:28:41,700 --> 00:28:43,700
    Corp certification.
    So I'm going to sound like I'm

    664
    00:28:43,700 --> 00:28:44,800
    patting ourselves on the back as
    well.

    665
    00:28:44,800 --> 00:28:46,400
    See it's B Corp thing.
    That sounds really cool.

    666
    00:28:46,400 --> 00:28:48,200
    I looked in it's like yeah we
    should apply.

    667
    00:28:48,300 --> 00:28:51,100
    I think it took us six months
    because we were doing all this

    668
    00:28:51,100 --> 00:28:52,600
    stuff already.
    It actually pushed me over the

    669
    00:28:52,600 --> 00:28:54,400
    edge to.
    This is one thing that did make

    670
    00:28:54,400 --> 00:28:56,100
    a difference, they were like,
    yeah, you need to really be

    671
    00:28:56,100 --> 00:28:57,900
    thinking about how you're
    helping people medically, and I

    672
    00:28:57,908 --> 00:28:59,000
    was like, we are not giving out
    there.

    673
    00:28:59,500 --> 00:29:02,200
    Not providing benefits so people
    can be focused on the work and

    674
    00:29:02,200 --> 00:29:04,300
    not on their health, not that
    they wouldn't, you know, if it

    675
    00:29:04,308 --> 00:29:06,100
    was ill health, right?
    Like they were really worried

    676
    00:29:06,100 --> 00:29:07,900
    about that and I was hurting
    them rather than how do we help

    677
    00:29:07,900 --> 00:29:09,700
    them keep healthy.
    What benefits do we need to

    678
    00:29:09,708 --> 00:29:11,100
    provide?
    Because that's just what we

    679
    00:29:11,100 --> 00:29:13,300
    should be doing.
    And so I think we change to a

    680
    00:29:13,300 --> 00:29:16,700
    credit union versus a bank.
    We upped the way we did our

    681
    00:29:16,700 --> 00:29:19,300
    medical work, we had to put the
    statements about, we're

    682
    00:29:19,300 --> 00:29:20,400
    anti-slavery and things like
    that.

    683
    00:29:20,400 --> 00:29:23,300
    And so the rigor I'm hearing
    rigor, it wasn't much rigor

    684
    00:29:23,300 --> 00:29:25,600
    because we were doing virtually
    all those things anyway because

    685
    00:29:25,600 --> 00:29:28,000
    I believed it was the right
    thing to do and so it was

    686
    00:29:28,000 --> 00:29:31,300
    wonderful to have That helped us
    take it up a notch and then also

    687
    00:29:31,300 --> 00:29:33,500
    sort of put us in touch with a
    community people that were.

    688
    00:29:33,600 --> 00:29:35,900
    We were doing that even if it
    was maybe a farther leap.

    689
    00:29:35,900 --> 00:29:38,100
    Then we had to initially
    amazing.

    690
    00:29:38,200 --> 00:29:41,300
    Now, you also wrote a book
    called Ripple, a field manual

    691
    00:29:41,300 --> 00:29:43,800
    for leadership that works.
    Can you tell us what that's

    692
    00:29:43,800 --> 00:29:44,900
    about?
    Sure.

    693
    00:29:44,900 --> 00:29:47,000
    It's pretty exciting, although
    it's kind of amazing, I thought

    694
    00:29:47,000 --> 00:29:49,200
    it would take six months because
    I had all these articles and

    695
    00:29:49,200 --> 00:29:51,300
    things, I'd written in blog
    posts, only causes bring this

    696
    00:29:51,300 --> 00:29:54,000
    together and it'll just be great
    and it took six years.

    697
    00:29:54,800 --> 00:29:59,600
    So I got the six, right?
    I started writing it because I

    698
    00:29:59,600 --> 00:30:02,300
    saw people applying really cool.
    I mean, I've got so many

    699
    00:30:02,300 --> 00:30:03,600
    leadership books.
    You wouldn't.

    700
    00:30:03,600 --> 00:30:05,800
    It's just crazy.
    You know, like 20 linear feet of

    701
    00:30:05,800 --> 00:30:08,600
    them, probably, maybe more and
    they'd apply technique from this

    702
    00:30:08,600 --> 00:30:10,900
    book or this strategy or things
    like that.

    703
    00:30:10,900 --> 00:30:13,500
    They weren't in synchronicity,
    they were fighting each other

    704
    00:30:13,500 --> 00:30:15,500
    because they have different
    philosophies management.

    705
    00:30:15,900 --> 00:30:18,200
    And so I said, I think I'd like
    to put something in.

    706
    00:30:18,200 --> 00:30:21,000
    It doesn't have to be the book
    but a book where people can see

    707
    00:30:21,000 --> 00:30:22,800
    how, and I described it
    actually.

    708
    00:30:22,900 --> 00:30:25,700
    The first part is about the
    leader knowing themselves and

    709
    00:30:25,800 --> 00:30:29,200
    how they show up another path.
    That's Ripple one Ripple to is.

    710
    00:30:29,400 --> 00:30:31,800
    Is, how am I trusting in
    enabling and equipping other

    711
    00:30:31,800 --> 00:30:33,200
    people?
    That's Ripple to.

    712
    00:30:33,200 --> 00:30:35,500
    So that's interaction and
    ripple, three is the

    713
    00:30:35,500 --> 00:30:37,700
    organization itself.
    How do we, you know, get clearer

    714
    00:30:37,700 --> 00:30:39,600
    and where we're going?
    And make sure the things work,

    715
    00:30:39,600 --> 00:30:41,300
    right?
    And produce things efficiently.

    716
    00:30:41,300 --> 00:30:43,200
    So, that's the book.
    And I had all these little

    717
    00:30:43,200 --> 00:30:45,500
    pieces that I had learned from
    other people, if you have

    718
    00:30:45,500 --> 00:30:48,300
    developed myself and put them in
    the book, and I just wanted to

    719
    00:30:48,300 --> 00:30:51,000
    give people something, that was
    had a guy one time.

    720
    00:30:51,000 --> 00:30:53,700
    You told me, he said, you know,
    I was reading the book and it

    721
    00:30:53,700 --> 00:30:55,700
    felt like we were sitting across
    the kitchen table.

    722
    00:30:55,700 --> 00:30:58,600
    Having a conversation, and
    you're asking some questions and

    723
    00:30:58,600 --> 00:31:01,200
    then you offer to The things I
    could try out to see what I

    724
    00:31:01,200 --> 00:31:04,300
    could do better and I was like,
    that's exactly what I wanted.

    725
    00:31:04,300 --> 00:31:07,700
    I wanted to be a with book
    before that I read this post and

    726
    00:31:07,700 --> 00:31:09,700
    I wanted to be something that
    people could feel like.

    727
    00:31:09,700 --> 00:31:11,900
    Yeah, I can do that, I can do
    that.

    728
    00:31:12,000 --> 00:31:15,200
    And by working those areas where
    they might have some opportunity

    729
    00:31:15,200 --> 00:31:17,900
    to be stronger as a leader, they
    could actually make the whole

    730
    00:31:17,900 --> 00:31:19,600
    organization better.
    So actually in the back of the

    731
    00:31:19,600 --> 00:31:21,700
    book is really fun.
    It says yeah, this is nice, but

    732
    00:31:21,700 --> 00:31:24,300
    I need help now and so because
    it's organized and all these

    733
    00:31:24,300 --> 00:31:26,700
    pieces and there's little like
    there's a principle like look

    734
    00:31:26,700 --> 00:31:28,600
    for diamonds in the dirt, you
    know, that's a lead.

    735
    00:31:28,600 --> 00:31:30,400
    I can see.
    See, I can see excellence in

    736
    00:31:30,400 --> 00:31:32,200
    somebody, they can't see
    themselves because that's normal

    737
    00:31:32,200 --> 00:31:33,600
    to that.
    If I don't call it out, they

    738
    00:31:33,600 --> 00:31:35,100
    don't know it and we can't use
    it.

    739
    00:31:35,100 --> 00:31:37,400
    So, you know, and here's ways to
    think about the people and, you

    740
    00:31:37,400 --> 00:31:38,900
    know, whatever it was.
    So it's a little tiny

    741
    00:31:38,900 --> 00:31:41,600
    five-minute exercised around
    this one principal and those are

    742
    00:31:41,608 --> 00:31:43,400
    the kind of things I have in
    there, but at the end of the

    743
    00:31:43,400 --> 00:31:46,200
    book it says, hey my people are
    not really making the impact.

    744
    00:31:46,200 --> 00:31:49,400
    They want, we're not making the
    results and I find a lot of

    745
    00:31:49,408 --> 00:31:51,200
    backtracking.
    You might want to look at

    746
    00:31:51,200 --> 00:31:53,300
    diamonds in the dirt for
    yourself and your team and then

    747
    00:31:53,400 --> 00:31:54,700
    it refers you back to that
    section.

    748
    00:31:54,700 --> 00:31:58,100
    So you sort of like a self-help
    diagnostic to figure out where

    749
    00:31:58,100 --> 00:32:00,100
    could I be better?
    And so Yeah, I think we're

    750
    00:32:00,100 --> 00:32:02,600
    almost out of the initial
    Printing and we do like online

    751
    00:32:02,600 --> 00:32:05,800
    stuff, but it's pretty cool to
    have people come and say we're

    752
    00:32:05,800 --> 00:32:08,800
    using this for our masters
    degree program effective,

    753
    00:32:08,800 --> 00:32:11,000
    Business Leaders.
    And that's our curriculum.

    754
    00:32:11,000 --> 00:32:12,500
    And we're just going through
    that and working all these

    755
    00:32:12,500 --> 00:32:14,800
    exercises ourselves last super
    excited.

    756
    00:32:14,800 --> 00:32:18,600
    Yeah, that's always wonderful to
    know that it's easy to catch on

    757
    00:32:18,600 --> 00:32:20,300
    its mission accomplished for
    you.

    758
    00:32:20,300 --> 00:32:23,200
    As far as conversation across
    the kitchen table and it's

    759
    00:32:23,200 --> 00:32:26,500
    something that people can
    actually put into practical use.

    760
    00:32:26,500 --> 00:32:28,000
    Well done.
    Yeah, thanks.

    761
    00:32:28,000 --> 00:32:29,700
    I did have three of our clients.
    Together.

    762
    00:32:29,700 --> 00:32:32,100
    They conspired.
    And they called me and said,

    763
    00:32:32,100 --> 00:32:33,400
    okay, this is nice and
    everything.

    764
    00:32:33,400 --> 00:32:35,800
    We need a cohort based
    leadership program that runs for

    765
    00:32:35,800 --> 00:32:38,300
    like six to nine months and we
    want to send all our people and

    766
    00:32:38,300 --> 00:32:40,100
    I'm like well it's a
    do-it-yourself book.

    767
    00:32:40,100 --> 00:32:42,400
    You don't you know of course we
    do coaching and they said well

    768
    00:32:42,400 --> 00:32:44,800
    how about if we pre-fund it?
    How many slots can we buy ahead

    769
    00:32:44,800 --> 00:32:46,300
    of time?
    And then you can take that money

    770
    00:32:46,300 --> 00:32:48,100
    work with a curriculum designer.
    Make it happen.

    771
    00:32:48,600 --> 00:32:50,400
    That was three years ago right
    before endemic.

    772
    00:32:50,500 --> 00:32:53,200
    So we're in our third cohort,
    the Ripple leadership program

    773
    00:32:53,300 --> 00:32:56,000
    where we do this with some
    coaching and things and mostly

    774
    00:32:56,000 --> 00:32:59,000
    purpose-driven businesses
    virtually, all you know, there

    775
    00:32:59,000 --> 00:33:02,800
    be Orbs and small Giants also,
    great game of business players,

    776
    00:33:02,800 --> 00:33:05,100
    you know, these folks that are
    really trying to build leaders

    777
    00:33:05,100 --> 00:33:08,200
    from the ground up and it's a
    blast, that's wonderful.

    778
    00:33:08,200 --> 00:33:11,000
    Oh my gosh.
    So then aside from your cohort,

    779
    00:33:11,000 --> 00:33:12,700
    how can people get in touch with
    you?

    780
    00:33:12,700 --> 00:33:16,100
    How can people learn more about
    trebuchet and working with your

    781
    00:33:16,100 --> 00:33:17,500
    organization?
    Yes.

    782
    00:33:17,500 --> 00:33:20,400
    Well, trebuchet.
    Group.com is probably the best

    783
    00:33:20,400 --> 00:33:22,200
    place.
    We've got some really fun videos

    784
    00:33:22,200 --> 00:33:24,300
    of clients and things on that
    site.

    785
    00:33:24,400 --> 00:33:26,100
    It has a link to the rip
    leadership program.

    786
    00:33:26,100 --> 00:33:28,100
    It has a link to some of our
    other things and basically it

    787
    00:33:28,108 --> 00:33:29,200
    says, hey let's have a
    conversation.

    788
    00:33:29,300 --> 00:33:31,800
    Action because there's no
    one-size-fits-all it's about the

    789
    00:33:31,800 --> 00:33:33,900
    conversation of Discovery we can
    see, I don't know.

    790
    00:33:34,000 --> 00:33:35,900
    What could we do?
    What's great look like and how

    791
    00:33:35,900 --> 00:33:38,000
    might we partner, so that would
    be really wonderful and there's

    792
    00:33:38,000 --> 00:33:40,300
    lots of tools and things on
    their people can just take in

    793
    00:33:40,300 --> 00:33:42,900
    use and try to be better.
    I really encourage the B Corp

    794
    00:33:42,900 --> 00:33:45,700
    Community to check it out and
    whatever things they'd like or

    795
    00:33:45,700 --> 00:33:48,400
    questions they want to ask me
    even have a 20-minute no

    796
    00:33:48,400 --> 00:33:51,000
    obligation whatsoever.
    Just ask a question and we'll

    797
    00:33:51,000 --> 00:33:53,200
    just work through whatever we
    can do to discover things

    798
    00:33:53,200 --> 00:33:54,800
    together and hopefully that
    helps people.

    799
    00:33:54,900 --> 00:33:57,500
    That sounds amazing.
    Chris Hutchinson, thank you so

    800
    00:33:57,500 --> 00:33:59,200
    much for joining me today on
    Road.

    801
    00:33:59,300 --> 00:34:01,100
    Role Models I really appreciate
    it.

    802
    00:34:01,100 --> 00:34:03,800
    I'm sort of embarrassed to think
    of myself as a role model and I

    803
    00:34:03,800 --> 00:34:05,800
    love that you're highlighting,
    people that can help other

    804
    00:34:05,800 --> 00:34:07,200
    people make a difference in
    their lives.

    805
    00:34:07,200 --> 00:34:09,400
    It's all about being an
    inspiration and spreading

    806
    00:34:09,400 --> 00:34:12,699
    inspiration, so that people can
    be better at everything that

    807
    00:34:12,699 --> 00:34:14,900
    they do.
    Thank you again, thank you so

    808
    00:34:14,900 --> 00:34:15,400
    much.