March 21, 2023
Episode 49: Chris Hutchinson - Secrets Of Being A Great Leader And Building Strong Organizations
Meet Chris Hutchinson! Chris is the founder of Trebuchet Group, a Certified B Corporation that helps bring out the best in organizations and people. Chris helps coach and mentor people on building effective leadership skills and great teams. In this episode, we talk about how leadership impacts an organization, what makes a great leader, how curiosity builds real understanding, and founding an organization upon deeper meaning for the greater good. Enjoy the listen!
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Hello, beautiful humans.
Welcome to another episode of
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with beautiful humans.
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So, I have a question for
everyone.
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Who's listening Listening, do
you consider yourself a great
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leader, a great team, player,
both or none of the above today,
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we're going to talk about what
it takes to rise to the
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occasion, and make your presence
bigger in your organization and
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in your life.
My guest is Chris, Hutchinson,
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Chris is the founder of
trebuchet group, a certified B
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corporation.
That helps bring out the best in
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organizations and people.
Now Chris calls himself and
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abundance influencer, he helps
coach and mentor People on
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building effective leadership
skills, and great teams.
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Welcome Chris.
Thank you, Jennifer.
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It's wonderful to be with you.
I am delighted to have this
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conversation.
It is so important because I
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would say, it doesn't matter who
you are or what you do.
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You could be a young student,
you could be the CEO of a
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multi-billion dollar
Corporation.
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I think there's one thing that
all of us humans have in common
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and that is the frustration or
the fear of not living up to our
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potential.
Would you say that you would
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agree?
I absolutely do.
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I think that's something whether
it's on the surface or deep
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within that.
A lot of people are trying to
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figure out how to be enough and
how to be with others and be
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enough.
Yeah, yeah.
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Now I want to wind it back to
2002 when you started the
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trebuchet group, what was it
that caused you to think?
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You know, I think there's an
opportunity to help people with
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leadership and with
organizations.
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Well, that's such a good
question and I'm going to have
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to wind it back a little bit
further.
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So when I was graduating from
college and I was a brand new
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wet-behind-the-ears mechanical
engineer and a Tenant in the US
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Air Force, I went through ROTC
to pay for my degree.
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I was on a team where there was
the leader.
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Well, it was really challenging,
I would just tell you that the
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environment on the team was,
keep your head down hide in the
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grass, you know, don't put
yourself out there because
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you're going to get criticized.
And if you bring any bad news,
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having forbid things were going
to be bad.
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And I was thinking my four-year
commitment was like a four-year
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sentence.
I'm in trouble.
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Yeah, this is not what I thought
it was going to be and luckily
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things change in big
organizations.
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They have rotate people through
and I get put on a different
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team essentially.
And this Steam was hey, I'm
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really strong at this.
You don't seem like you've got
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that, let me help you and I
noticed that you have a
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superpower here.
How can we harness that lots of
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communication?
Lots of open, is it was amazing?
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I mean, I jumped out of bed,
wanting to contribute feeling
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great.
And the reality was, I said, I
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went to a different team, a
different team was created
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because one person changed on
the team, the leader changed and
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I realized it didn't matter how
good of an engineer.
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I wasn't any of my colleagues.
If we had a leader who wasn't
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helping bring out the best in us
getting Clarity and helping us
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communicate like on team to team
one was really not.
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I was depressed.
I didn't really enjoy coming to
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work at all.
Team two, I loved contributing
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and I would do whatever I needed
to do.
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So that influence me through the
Air Force and through Corporate
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America and in 2002, our leader
at the time, it division a
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Motorola dropped us from 3,000
people to 20 and 18 months, 20,
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they were technological
challenges in the Mark was hard,
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but it was really a leadership
failure.
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And as I got out, I thought,
okay, great, I have a severance,
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this is a gift.
And what do I want to do with
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this?
How do I want to take these
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learnings?
I've done and help other people,
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learn them not as a guru sitting
on the hill, but as a partner
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beside people, helping them
discover what they need and
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perhaps, giving a tool here or
some advice there or bolster
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here, so that they can be their
most excellent self as a leader
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and enable that in others.
It's so fascinating.
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How the tone and the spirit of
the leader makes such a
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difference.
Everywhere.
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You go.
It really is said, everybody is
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looking up to that leader for
cues on how they should be, what
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the tone is of an organization.
And You know how people are
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going to operate.
Can you tell us what in your
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opinion are the traits of our
great leader?
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Well, I think great leaders
really I think do an able in a
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positive way.
The best within others right now
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our team is a set a goal for the
next year we set one as an
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intention and figure out what
are we going to do besides the
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work that we do how are we going
to continue evolving or
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accompanying each other?
And our goal is thriving in our
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sweet spots so it means as a
company as individuals where the
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place is not that we get to live
out there all the time.
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Do only the fun things but How
can we tap our strengths?
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And so I think really great
leaders.
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Are they understand their own
strengths first of all.
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So if I understand my strengths,
I will see your differences as
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your strengths, not as I'm
normal.
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And if you're like me, you're
normal, and if you're not,
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you're abnormal, you know, a lot
of people don't really realize
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their strengths.
So knowing those strengths being
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able to understand what my path
might be, not as a rigid step,
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but where am I going?
And how might I invite you along
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with it for as long as we get to
go together?
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And then I think it's a lot
around being, how do I develop
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trust and really give trust
first as a leader.
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It's not well, Wait, till
somebody is trustworthy, how do
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I become vulnerable?
And open to what we need to do
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together?
I'm learning just as much, maybe
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even more than the people that
time, quote, have air quotes
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here leading, when I have that
deep connection with them, I
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believe that I will equip you,
and uniquely for the thing
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rather than treating use a cog.
Here's the roll, this is what
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this person does.
Like how can you make that role
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seeing how do we equip that we
get the best for everyone?
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And then finally, the last part.
So I know myself, I'm really
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working well with others and
enabling the best and then we
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all turn towards the
Organization.
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And that's where we say, well,
what's effective, what's the
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right things to do?
And then eventually we figure
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out how can we do those really
right?
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So efficiency.
So I think the pieces that make
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a good leader, a lot of
companies come to come the other
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way.
They start with, let's be
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efficient.
Well, that didn't work.
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Let's reorganize, we need to be
different and effective.
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Oh, that didn't work.
I didn't give you the tools that
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you needed.
Well, that didn't work, as I
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didn't treat you as anything
more than just a blob, you know,
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human resource.
And if those things aren't
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happening, then it comes into
me.
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Am I in the right actions
around, the things that are
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challenging, difficult and
important?
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And then if I'm not there, do I
know myself?
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So, I think I've told you the
path one way through and the
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path lot of organizations sort
of show up with.
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Yeah, fascinating back.
When I was an MBA students, one
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of my favorite classes of all
time was organizational
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behavior.
It's so weird.
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It was brilliant because it was
a social experiment, the class
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divided into two different teams
and there were two different
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classes and so there were four
teams total and we had to create
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an organization come up with a
product.
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Or service and sell it.
And at the end, it was, you
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know, whoever made the most
sales with whoever was the most
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functional organization.
And a lot of the top items that
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we had learned in the class, we
had to put into actual real term
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practice.
And so it was fascinating
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because you definitely saw the
dysfunction in certain groups
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and at certain times of stress
and moments, you saw the rise of
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what we would consider either
natural-born leaders or the ones
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that Rose to the challenge of
wanting to actually take that
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front and then other separately.
Great followers.
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And it was just interesting to
see how quickly all of that had
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two bills because by the end of
the semester, you're going to
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get graded on it.
And so I often think you know
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this predated a lot of virtual
TV like Survivor and whatnot and
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you were living it, you are just
watching it.
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We were living it.
We were absolutely living at but
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I was just curious from your
standpoint because I used the
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term natural-born leaders and I
think about some people would
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say yeah, that there is this
inherent gift that some people
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Have maybe it's the first born
child or do.
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You think that there are any
specific traits in humans that
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make them better leaders just
inherently?
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Or is it a skill that can be
learned?
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Yes.
So that's the short answer is,
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both is our true.
The, in fact, the most inherent
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trait for a really great
leaders, something that I don't
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think many people in they think
of great leadership would put
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together, but I was challenged
one time.
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Because in my book, I wrote
down, you know, everybody's a
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leader.
You know, I think of my
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five-year-old, son, bouncing
across the couch.
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Cushions my to Daughter was
following him doing exactly what
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he was doing.
We imitate.
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We look at things, you know,
that's the way that we as humans
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kind of learn and work together
and the person's like, I don't
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think that and instead, could
anyone be a great leader?
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Really?
Good question.
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I think that the most important
thing for a good leader, anybody
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can be a good leader.
Anybody can walk through them
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techniques and, you know, follow
the self discovery and learn all
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this stuff.
But really if you don't like
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people, and you're not willing
to sort of do hard things in the
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service of something bigger,
you're probably not going to be
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a great leader, you'll be okay,
leader, you'll do.
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All right, I think that's That's
what the core of leadership is.
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I'm willing to I'm not doing
this for me to set on a big
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Golden Throne and take, you
know, hors d'oeuvres.
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It's more of.
I am in service to something
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bigger and I'm inviting you to
do the same and I'm with that
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there's all sorts of things.
I'm going to do it because and I
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have to, like people in some way
and care about them.
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People are people.
They are tough.
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I had a client was like you
know, if my people were just so
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people, everything would be
easy.
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I'm like, yeah, you're right.
And that's the way that we're
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getting, it's done, right
people.
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The thing that fascinates me in
the organization Behavior, Your
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stuff that I've done some things
here and there in terms of
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taking some classes is that
everybody is completely unique.
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I mean I get to see so many
people and everybody's unique
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and at the same time, there
seemed to be a limited number of
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patterns that we fall into when
were in groups, you know, I
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could probably I think there's a
book on my shelf and says the
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nine, major plots and
everything's just a subplot of
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that for screenwriters or
somebody's, right?
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It's kind of that way with roots
of people as you said, there's
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certain things that emerge and
people to step up or step down
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or somebody's like I'm going to
bleed through an intellectual
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superiority or whatever.
No, those things just sort of
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happen and people interact
around them and those patterns
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aren't infinite.
There are a small number.
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I never judge people on the
never go.
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Oh, that's the pattern.
I say hmm, looks like it's might
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be coming up.
What sort of things might be
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helpful here?
How do we help everybody be
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their best selves.
When it might be clearly
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apparent, people are mmm.
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come to trebuchet, is it usually
the leader of the organization
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that says I need help or is it
human resources or is it you
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know somebody else within the
organization that says we need
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help?
You've been through this
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Jennifer I can tell.
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most effective places when the
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leaders come together and said
you know what?
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We think this team has more
capacity and our organization
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working past and we are
exercising and we want to be
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part of whatever we're going to
do the ones where HR comes and
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says oh my God we're struggling
you know everything's trying to
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do it.
We're having a hard time in the
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frequently the leaders have a
shadow a blind spot that's
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hunting affecting the
organization and people don't
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have the authority to say hey
you have a blind spot not that
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we walk in and say hey we have
once we actually rather than
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talk Talk about what's wrong.
We like to say, what are we
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doing great?
What could be better?
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What's getting in the way?
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Egos and to people's Egos and
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We're doing the best we can.
Even if it doesn't get us what
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we want, and it's so exciting.
When we have a team of people
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that discovered, what change in
Behavior, how they're going to
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work together, the clarity that
they needed, everybody's the
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same in the room and we now can
get to where we need to go and
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that's really fun.
So it does require.
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We've had some people that come
up and say you weak you know,
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you got to go fix somebody, we
got to fix this boss.
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We have this fixes Then I say,
you know, as a recovering
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mechanical engineer, I can fix
things.
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I don't think people should be
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they want to shift their
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behavior and that supports where
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that we could have a better
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Mmm.
Now when you start working with
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an organization, a client, is
there a specific Playbook that
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you use to get to know what the
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going to address and be able to
work with them on going on
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whatever it is that they wish to
achieve.
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Of different doors that people
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come to us in different
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Yeah, I said Limited in some
ways in the patterns, but the
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situations are always
completely, you know, the same
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company and has two different
things going on or two different
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companies, that same thing going
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We go through, one of them is
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the results we quite want.
Maybe there's friction on the
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team that's you know, heating up
or are causing problems.
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Maybe they've lost some good
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we would ask questions of the
person approaching us.
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Let's say it's HR.
You say, hey, we don't know.
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We're trying to figure out if we
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All right, let's talk.
About what good would look like
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and where your, let's then go
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what they think is possible.
And then, that would be the Q.
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Usually involves the senior
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Because if the senior leader and
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shift the organization, can't
move, it can't change, you know,
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you could train everybody on
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way it was because that's the
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reinforcing Behavior.
So it's really good.
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sometimes they'll look at
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themselves and say I can tell
that I'm not, you know, I'm in a
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I've never been before like oh I
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don't know a pandemic hybrid
work, why don't?
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To see people or people that
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even physically met.
That's really challenging for
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weatherization that didn't start
in remote and you know how the
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heck do I lead in this.
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things.
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What is the organization need
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want to connect with that and
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grow themselves.
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the organization can move
towards that space versus you
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know, we don't do the go fix
them or go do that to them.
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Recent post by Seth Godin said
there's people who do things for
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people to people and with people
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The I do things for I serve
overdone that becomes like
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you're dependent on me if I do
two things to you.
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I think that's a position of
like I'm better and I really I
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frankly I really don't like that
at all and so we are never in
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that space.
We follow a lot of clients that
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deal with Consultants who have
done the things to them.
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I believe it's doing things with
people and so if it was the team
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we might talk with the team and
say, hey, what's going on?
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Well what's not going well yet?
What's missing are unclear and
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then we bring those results back
anonymously.
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And say Here's Where the team
kind of is, what would that
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mean?
Would it benefit to?
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To have Clarity around what's
our deep purpose and what are
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the ways we live it out
otherwise known as values and
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what's going on that we need to
do better and then what does
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that mean right now?
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Cascade of from the high level
of connection all the way down
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to how am I doing?
Or it might be.
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One of the things we do is
called goal.
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Focus team building where we
help people experience, without
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trust Falls and squishy toys are
helping people experience.
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What it's like to be vulnerable
with each other, to really get
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to know each other in a short
amount of time to in service of
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the business.
Not again, touchy-feely, I work
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with a lot of me.
Engineers and they were just run
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from the room, right?
You know, touchy-feely.
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But if you're like, well, if I
know your strengths and, you
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know, my strengths, we probably
could get better together like,
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hmm.
Okay, we have more healthy
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conflict.
Our commitment is deeper than to
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the goals that we've decided on.
And we can hold each other
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accountable.
We don't have to wait for the
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boss so that the results we get
our Collective first.
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So I just threw a whole bunch of
stuff off our individual tool
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belt at you Jennifer.
But and we really try to meet
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people where they are and walk
through shared discovery of
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where we could be and what could
be getting in the way
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fascinating.
You know, I worked for a A
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number of larger companies
earlier in my day.
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And I remember one specifically
and these were, you know, large
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Fortune, 500 companies, very
successful, one of the
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companies, the human resource
manager, would typically say
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every organization gets the
results that they are set up to
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get.
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fascinating Insight.
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It was also intriguing that in a
number of these large
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organizations that were just
killing it in terms of
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financials, you know, Profitable
year over year growth, all of
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that, the people whenever we
would do these reviews and, you
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know, the self-assessments, not
terrible, terrible morale.
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Terrible work-life balance
itself that they needed to
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practically murder themselves in
order to get everything done on
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time and to the rigor that they
want to.
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Because they felt that that was
their measurements, their ruler
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of success, you know, how much
am I bringing in for the
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organization and at what cost I
think that?
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the past few years that we have
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there's been a shift and a lot
of that.
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And we're now talking more about
work-life balance.
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We're talking about mental
Wellness, we're talking about
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well-being from a holistic
perspective.
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We're getting more into the
things that I think that the men
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that you're used to working with
we're typically run from the
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hills you know we're starting to
get more into the touchy-feely.
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I wanted to just ask you like
what are some of the changes
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that you've seen happen and that
leaders, that of maybe it has?
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Kind of leadership style or
mindset that worked very well
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for an extended period of time
might be like, oh, things are
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changing, I don't know if I'm
comfortable with this.
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How do you walk somebody through
a whole shift?
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That happens with Millennials
and gen Z years coming into the
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workforce.
No, that's just, it's such a
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simple question.
Jennifer, this is so easy.
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I'm do we have.
Yeah, how much time do we have?
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Yeah, I'm trying to think the
places to go.
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So you asked about how to help
somebody threw this in sort of
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the shifts that are happening.
And then, in a way you hinted at
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The let's see what if I could
heard it called domestication, I
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think is Don Miguel Ruiz tells
we get domesticated, we get
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trained to be a certain way and
so a lot of times I will tell
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you as a sideline when we have
people that come to work with us
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like directly like is part of
our team.
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Usually, it takes about the
first year almost a year and a
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half till we can help them
unlearn those self protective
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behaviors and holding the shiny.
Cut out in front of us and just
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saying I'm fine.
I'm fine.
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Everything's okay.
So it really I think I feel
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honored to and privilege to be
able to lead that by saying,
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today's been kind of hard and
I'm struggling with this and I'm
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tearing up about something that
matters a lot, there's
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touchy-feely that's artificial
and there's real genuine
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presence in connection.
Where we human with each other?
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Which can look emotional?
You can be that way.
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So Google did the Aristotle
project.
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I don't know if you've heard
about that, that was where they
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measured hundreds of teams and
found out.
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What was the thing that made the
biggest difference in the team's
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performance and head and
shoulders above.
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All of them was emotional
safety.
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So, psychological safety, I
could be me.
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I I could say this is a hard day
or I'm struggling because my dog
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is dying or, you know, anything
could be happening, so you can
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hear that.
Connecting with what you just
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asked is like, well, how do you
have these people that are
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showing up, like, work needs to
be my community, work needs to
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be, especially in the pandemic.
I think a lot of people were
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collapsed down to who were they
interacting with most?
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Even it was online.
I need a counselor.
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I want somebody who can coach
me, not only in what I'm doing
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here at work, but how that fits
into the rest of my life?
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And I think there's a lot of
people who never signed up for
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that, right?
They barely know what they're
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doing.
In terms of I just go to work.
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I do my work right those people
are I think moving on out of the
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you know because that was sort
of generational and I think
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there's an opportunity for
leaders to say can I be in touch
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with what's important to me
safely not spreading it on
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people spring it on people but
safely in a way that allows that
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for other people and what's
really cool Jennifer is that the
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people, the leaders, who do that
the men and women who do that,
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they get to a place where
they're enjoying their
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experience significantly better.
They'll like, you know, I'm
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sleeping better.
And I'm having this good stuff.
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I don't usually go directly to
lie.
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Let's do counseling.
First of all, I'm not a
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counselor.
I mean, we do a lot of work
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recovering engineer done this
for 20 years but we talk about
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what's great in the business and
what excites you about that?
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So there's a connection there
but it's kind of like the
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business reason for doing it.
And once we do that, then people
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start seeing oh you know what
the business got better, when I
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was more in touch with what I
could do.
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And I can honestly say, hey, I
tender for, that's a better idea
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than my or I screwed up or
Jennifer, I need your help.
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I can't do this, you know, then
we're a team then we're able to
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be more than the just strong
pillars.
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That normally teams are so I
think it's an opportunity.
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For people who have had
different leadership styles to
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sort of step back and decide,
what do they want to happening
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in the world?
And how do they want to step
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into that?
And having support to do, that
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is really important.
Because like, if it's just me,
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I'll do what I do.
And if it's different, it's hard
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00:19:11,900 --> 00:19:14,500
and I probably will slide back
to, where they, the way I do it.
447
00:19:14,800 --> 00:19:16,000
Hmm.
I don't know how much it
448
00:19:16,000 --> 00:19:17,300
answered that really tough
question there.
449
00:19:17,300 --> 00:19:19,400
Ya know you did a great job with
that.
450
00:19:19,500 --> 00:19:22,800
Thank you.
Now, for all of those leaders of
451
00:19:22,800 --> 00:19:26,500
organizations, or leaders of
households, that might be
452
00:19:26,500 --> 00:19:29,600
listening.
We talked about being able to
453
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All to be vulnerable.
We talked about working with not
454
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to and in some cases for but in
a balanced way, what are some of
455
00:19:38,400 --> 00:19:41,800
the other things that people can
say, you know let me stop and
456
00:19:41,800 --> 00:19:44,600
think about, you know, what, my
behavior is or what I'm
457
00:19:44,600 --> 00:19:47,900
projecting, what are some of the
things that you've noticed
458
00:19:47,900 --> 00:19:50,800
really help in perhaps the
shortest or the least amount of
459
00:19:50,800 --> 00:19:53,600
time.
Another killer question sum up
460
00:19:53,600 --> 00:19:55,500
all this experience.
That's what I'm doing.
461
00:19:59,600 --> 00:20:01,200
Just be like, okay, what's the
next question?
462
00:20:01,200 --> 00:20:04,400
She's gonna give me great.
So, how do I get in touch?
463
00:20:04,400 --> 00:20:08,700
I think I would say the most
important thing is to be curious
464
00:20:08,900 --> 00:20:12,500
and listen, mmm, I think those
are the two if I bought it all
465
00:20:12,500 --> 00:20:16,000
down to curiosity, and not in
the luxurious, why the hell
466
00:20:16,000 --> 00:20:18,300
you're not doing this?
That's not curiosity.
467
00:20:18,300 --> 00:20:22,500
We will say that the curiosity
like, real genuine honest,
468
00:20:22,500 --> 00:20:26,000
curiosity and listening and I
think when that connection you
469
00:20:26,000 --> 00:20:28,800
can find, people people want to
be heard and people want to be
470
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able to be understood.
Stood and have their ideas
471
00:20:30,800 --> 00:20:32,500
considered.
They don't have to have the way
472
00:20:32,500 --> 00:20:35,000
that things go doesn't have to
be their way but if they're not
473
00:20:35,000 --> 00:20:36,500
any of those above like I'm not
listen to.
474
00:20:36,500 --> 00:20:39,800
I'm not appreciated in any way.
Yeah, I'm going to either show
475
00:20:39,800 --> 00:20:43,100
up and just kind of idle like
quite quitting or I'm going to
476
00:20:43,100 --> 00:20:45,600
maybe fight back which those
people are actually easier to
477
00:20:45,600 --> 00:20:48,500
redirect than somebody who just
disengages because they care.
478
00:20:48,500 --> 00:20:49,700
That's why they're fighting
back, right?
479
00:20:49,700 --> 00:20:51,800
So let's what are we cool?
You fight for together?
480
00:20:51,900 --> 00:20:55,300
And one example I can give and I
haven't had the privilege and to
481
00:20:55,300 --> 00:20:57,100
listen to a lot of your other
episodes.
482
00:20:57,100 --> 00:20:58,800
I'm sure you have some really
cool Role Models.
483
00:20:58,900 --> 00:21:00,400
Have you heard?
Could be Thea.
484
00:21:00,500 --> 00:21:02,900
Yeah.
So I could be Thea is an amazing
485
00:21:03,000 --> 00:21:05,600
coach and I think diversity
consultant.
486
00:21:05,600 --> 00:21:09,000
I'm not sure she was on a brene
brown podcast and she talked
487
00:21:09,000 --> 00:21:11,600
about this.
So at the core of this way to
488
00:21:11,600 --> 00:21:14,600
deal with the really tough
issues of like, I feel
489
00:21:14,600 --> 00:21:18,000
oppressed, or I'm doing things
that people are feeling a
490
00:21:18,000 --> 00:21:20,900
pressing or we're not honoring
each other microaggressions, all
491
00:21:20,900 --> 00:21:23,500
the things that can happen, most
of which are unintentional, at
492
00:21:23,500 --> 00:21:25,400
least on the conscious level.
I'm not intending to hurt
493
00:21:25,400 --> 00:21:27,200
anybody rather than calling
people out.
494
00:21:27,200 --> 00:21:29,400
She went through this practice
of calling people in and there's
495
00:21:29,500 --> 00:21:32,200
Curiosity and listening in it.
So the way it starts is if let's
496
00:21:32,200 --> 00:21:34,500
say you said something and it
kind of hit me and I was like,
497
00:21:34,500 --> 00:21:37,300
Wow gosh, you know, but you're
the boss Jennifer and I just I
498
00:21:37,308 --> 00:21:39,900
just have to suck it up.
Or unlike do I fight back and my
499
00:21:39,900 --> 00:21:42,500
Frozen, like, what the hell?
And if I can stay in curiosity,
500
00:21:42,500 --> 00:21:44,800
that keeps me out of judgment
because you can't be curious and
501
00:21:44,800 --> 00:21:46,800
judgmental.
The same time, it's really
502
00:21:46,800 --> 00:21:47,800
important.
Good thing.
503
00:21:47,800 --> 00:21:49,900
And so, if I'm curious, when I
say Jennifer, what were you?
504
00:21:49,900 --> 00:21:53,100
Hoping would be a result of you
sharing that information, or
505
00:21:53,100 --> 00:21:55,600
asking me, how can we get a real
facilitator here?
506
00:21:55,600 --> 00:21:57,500
You know, whatever the comment
would be if you were the leader
507
00:21:57,500 --> 00:21:59,800
and I've done this like
literally with people's Sitting
508
00:21:59,800 --> 00:22:02,400
around me in the room and just
done that and said, I'm really
509
00:22:02,400 --> 00:22:05,400
truly curious is not a technique
and then I listened and you say,
510
00:22:05,400 --> 00:22:07,500
well, I'm trying to make sure,
you know, I think we're doing
511
00:22:07,500 --> 00:22:10,300
good things and whatever, you
know, and I'll probably feel the
512
00:22:10,300 --> 00:22:12,400
sting lesson if I understand
your intent.
513
00:22:12,500 --> 00:22:15,400
And then I can say, okay, thank
you, Jim for that helps me.
514
00:22:15,400 --> 00:22:18,300
How open, would you be to
hearing how it impacted me
515
00:22:18,300 --> 00:22:20,800
initially?
And then I would say, yeah, I
516
00:22:20,800 --> 00:22:23,500
felt like, what am I doing here?
And I must not be a real
517
00:22:23,500 --> 00:22:25,900
facilitator.
And then I thought I'm in one
518
00:22:25,900 --> 00:22:28,800
place and if that wasn't your
intention, you'd say holy cow.
519
00:22:28,800 --> 00:22:30,600
Wow, I Know that that would
happen.
520
00:22:30,600 --> 00:22:32,500
And then we can both say, well,
what do we want to do going
521
00:22:32,500 --> 00:22:35,100
forward and that Curiosity and
listening and the connection?
522
00:22:35,200 --> 00:22:38,200
I can't tell you how powerful
that is for anybody in any
523
00:22:38,200 --> 00:22:40,000
circumstance.
I think is one the most powerful
524
00:22:40,000 --> 00:22:42,800
tools I've ever had in helping a
line people together.
525
00:22:42,800 --> 00:22:45,300
And what are we trying to do?
And if you indeed were like,
526
00:22:45,300 --> 00:22:47,100
well, I think you're a shitty
facilitator.
527
00:22:47,100 --> 00:22:49,700
You're not very good and you
need to go and we need somebody
528
00:22:49,700 --> 00:22:51,500
who can really do this.
Thank you for letting me know
529
00:22:51,500 --> 00:22:53,000
that.
How can we set up the?
530
00:22:53,000 --> 00:22:55,300
I'd like the team to be okay.
I would literally do this in the
531
00:22:55,300 --> 00:22:58,800
middle of a room because I think
to me as a leader being
532
00:22:58,800 --> 00:23:01,600
vulnerable is Very important.
And there is times we've seen
533
00:23:01,600 --> 00:23:03,700
this.
When as a facilitator, I'm not
534
00:23:03,700 --> 00:23:05,800
the leader.
And yet, I can set the example.
535
00:23:06,300 --> 00:23:09,100
If I am vulnerable in front of
other people in a way that
536
00:23:09,100 --> 00:23:11,900
supports what we need to do,
they essentially just got a
537
00:23:11,900 --> 00:23:14,200
little way to say, oh, I'm gonna
be able to do that too.
538
00:23:14,300 --> 00:23:16,600
I'm very often, it's the CEO
really needs.
539
00:23:16,600 --> 00:23:19,400
That example, our could benefit
from that because, oh, you don't
540
00:23:19,400 --> 00:23:21,200
have to be perfect.
Oh, you don't have to have every
541
00:23:21,200 --> 00:23:22,600
answer.
Oh, you could look to the group
542
00:23:22,600 --> 00:23:25,300
for help because that's what I'm
doing, facilitative Lee, and
543
00:23:25,300 --> 00:23:29,400
those are very effective ways to
connect and lead people that is
544
00:23:29,500 --> 00:23:32,800
Is so fascinating.
Yes, the listening and making
545
00:23:32,800 --> 00:23:36,600
sure that you understand what
was just said and understand
546
00:23:36,600 --> 00:23:38,700
what was just heard at the
understanding.
547
00:23:38,700 --> 00:23:42,600
Underneath the listening is so
key because then you can really
548
00:23:42,600 --> 00:23:46,500
get to the humanness of what's
going on in an ordinary
549
00:23:46,500 --> 00:23:48,900
situation which would otherwise
be, okay.
550
00:23:48,900 --> 00:23:51,300
I'm going to put the vinegar on
and be like, oh, thank you, I
551
00:23:51,300 --> 00:23:53,700
respect that.
And if you don't build those
552
00:23:53,700 --> 00:23:56,600
connections, you don't get
curious enough to really dig
553
00:23:56,600 --> 00:23:59,400
into the meat and the Heart of
what those Jews.
554
00:23:59,600 --> 00:24:01,900
Our.
And if we're asking people to
555
00:24:02,000 --> 00:24:04,300
commit a piece of their lives
for this and hopefully in a
556
00:24:04,308 --> 00:24:06,800
purpose, based organizations are
there to commit a piece of their
557
00:24:06,800 --> 00:24:09,400
life to this.
If I'm as a leader helping
558
00:24:09,400 --> 00:24:11,500
enable that, why would I go
anywhere else?
559
00:24:11,500 --> 00:24:14,800
It's not a golden handcuffs.
It's an environment where we are
560
00:24:14,800 --> 00:24:16,300
being the best with each other.
Yeah.
561
00:24:16,300 --> 00:24:18,800
And guess what, when things
matter a lot, I'm going to be
562
00:24:18,800 --> 00:24:20,400
emotional, it's going to be
harder, I'm going to be more
563
00:24:20,400 --> 00:24:22,100
stressed, you're doing more
stress.
564
00:24:22,100 --> 00:24:25,100
So having ways that we can work
through that and use that stress
565
00:24:25,100 --> 00:24:28,800
to push us forward, rather than
beating up on each other or one
566
00:24:28,800 --> 00:24:31,800
person pull Lean back, always
and the other person like you
567
00:24:31,800 --> 00:24:33,400
always works for me.
I wonder what's happening for
568
00:24:33,400 --> 00:24:35,500
you and until that person says
no, I refuse.
569
00:24:35,500 --> 00:24:37,200
I'm not going to accommodate any
more.
570
00:24:37,200 --> 00:24:39,700
I'm now participating in my own
diminishment I'm not going to do
571
00:24:39,700 --> 00:24:41,400
that anymore and that's usually
not fun.
572
00:24:41,400 --> 00:24:43,100
When that happens, I mean, it's
important.
573
00:24:43,100 --> 00:24:45,300
But rather, how do we do that
almost all the time?
574
00:24:45,300 --> 00:24:46,600
Like hey what are we doing
together?
575
00:24:46,600 --> 00:24:49,800
Hey, what are we doing together?
Hmm, I'm going to switch gears
576
00:24:49,800 --> 00:24:53,400
because I've heard that we were
talking to you mentioned just
577
00:24:53,400 --> 00:24:57,300
earlier about Purpose, Driven
organizations, and I would say
578
00:24:57,300 --> 00:25:02,400
that Purpose Driven organization
From the soul of the person who
579
00:25:02,400 --> 00:25:05,900
founded the company, as well as
the leader, the CEO, they know
580
00:25:05,900 --> 00:25:09,000
that they have a higher calling,
they know that they are out
581
00:25:09,000 --> 00:25:12,900
there for, not just profits, but
also for people and the planet
582
00:25:12,900 --> 00:25:16,400
in most cases.
And so from the perspective of
583
00:25:16,500 --> 00:25:19,600
having an ear to the ground or
understanding the heartbeat of
584
00:25:19,608 --> 00:25:22,800
their organization, I would
imagine that that comes a little
585
00:25:22,800 --> 00:25:27,400
bit more natural and you
yourself are the founder of in
586
00:25:27,400 --> 00:25:29,400
purpose-driven organization in
that.
587
00:25:29,500 --> 00:25:32,200
You are a certified V Corp.
Can you tell us?
588
00:25:32,200 --> 00:25:36,200
What do you think, sets people
apart or sets organizations
589
00:25:36,200 --> 00:25:40,900
apart that are Purpose, Driven
versus others that might not be
590
00:25:40,900 --> 00:25:44,900
and why you yourself decided
that you wanted to be a
591
00:25:44,908 --> 00:25:47,800
purpose-driven organization.
Hmm, you know, it's really fun.
592
00:25:47,800 --> 00:25:50,200
I'm going to play with just for
a moment here because I had
593
00:25:50,200 --> 00:25:52,700
somebody talking about conscious
leadership and purpose-driven
594
00:25:52,700 --> 00:25:54,700
businesses.
And I said, you know, if you're
595
00:25:54,700 --> 00:25:57,000
trying to invite people in sort
of hinting that they're
596
00:25:57,000 --> 00:26:00,100
unconscious and not Purpose,
Driven is probably Out a way to
597
00:26:00,100 --> 00:26:02,600
help them feel like I think I'm
a conscious leader because I'm
598
00:26:02,600 --> 00:26:05,900
awake and even Enron was a
Purpose Driven organization not
599
00:26:05,900 --> 00:26:07,900
in the way that we're talking
about and they had a very clear
600
00:26:07,900 --> 00:26:10,100
purpose of what they wanted to
do together and it was
601
00:26:10,100 --> 00:26:11,800
incredibly destructive.
That's it.
602
00:26:11,800 --> 00:26:13,400
I know we're talking about
Positive Purpose, we're talking
603
00:26:13,400 --> 00:26:17,800
about things that enhance people
and planet and really thriving
604
00:26:17,900 --> 00:26:20,700
in an economic way.
I think you hinted at the
605
00:26:20,700 --> 00:26:22,500
answer.
When you said this company was
606
00:26:22,500 --> 00:26:24,200
started from the soul of
someone.
607
00:26:24,200 --> 00:26:27,400
I think it's a deep connection
to meaning and I think we're all
608
00:26:27,400 --> 00:26:29,300
wired for purpose.
I think a lot of times.
609
00:26:29,400 --> 00:26:31,300
We get that.
Domestication that says, no,
610
00:26:31,300 --> 00:26:33,600
you're actually here to consume,
that's your purpose or your
611
00:26:33,600 --> 00:26:36,700
here, to do some grow grow.
Grow like a cancer, that's your
612
00:26:36,700 --> 00:26:38,800
purpose.
But ultimately, I think when we
613
00:26:38,900 --> 00:26:41,500
can strip away some that
conditioning, I think everybody
614
00:26:41,500 --> 00:26:43,400
really wants that.
I so the people that are more in
615
00:26:43,400 --> 00:26:45,400
touch with that of like why am I
here?
616
00:26:45,400 --> 00:26:47,700
And what's this sort of change
that I would like to make in the
617
00:26:47,700 --> 00:26:49,200
world versus?
I just need to get through the
618
00:26:49,200 --> 00:26:52,100
days and make it by Weekend.
Those are the folks that I think
619
00:26:52,100 --> 00:26:54,600
have the opportunity to say.
Here's a purpose.
620
00:26:54,600 --> 00:26:57,000
I'm about bigger than me.
Would you like to join?
621
00:26:57,000 --> 00:26:59,200
How would you like to help?
And so, that's a different kind
622
00:26:59,200 --> 00:27:02,800
of Coming together then I need a
job because we do and people
623
00:27:02,800 --> 00:27:05,500
need housing and you know the
economy works you have to have
624
00:27:05,500 --> 00:27:08,300
money so people are going to do
that and yet how can we invite
625
00:27:08,300 --> 00:27:10,100
people into something bigger?
I think those people that would
626
00:27:10,100 --> 00:27:13,200
like to see that for themselves
and for others are the ones that
627
00:27:13,200 --> 00:27:15,200
usually do.
That meant certainly me you know
628
00:27:15,200 --> 00:27:17,700
I definitely it can be more of a
good thing too much of a good
629
00:27:17,700 --> 00:27:20,300
thing so caring for people and
trying to help them if it goes
630
00:27:20,300 --> 00:27:22,500
too far, that's rescuing, I mean
a rescue you I'm going to do
631
00:27:22,500 --> 00:27:24,700
things for you even if you could
do them yourselves, I've had
632
00:27:24,700 --> 00:27:27,300
experience with that, I'm
recovering Rescuers, well family
633
00:27:27,300 --> 00:27:30,300
systems and things and I was
looking For the best Within
634
00:27:30,300 --> 00:27:32,400
Myself and others.
And when I started finding that
635
00:27:32,400 --> 00:27:35,900
giving myself permission to be,
who I was, it was very I was
636
00:27:35,900 --> 00:27:38,100
like, in fact when I got out of
that thing, I said, you know,
637
00:27:38,100 --> 00:27:40,100
I've been doing the same work
inside these very large
638
00:27:40,100 --> 00:27:42,900
organizations like you described
and it did do some really great
639
00:27:42,900 --> 00:27:45,100
things and I think I helped a
lot of people and I was always
640
00:27:45,100 --> 00:27:47,900
limited by the power structure
or if I, you know, it's like
641
00:27:47,900 --> 00:27:50,000
well yeah, he works for us.
He would say that or cheap.
642
00:27:50,000 --> 00:27:51,700
Maybe we don't want to have him
working here anymore.
643
00:27:51,700 --> 00:27:54,100
And that fear what I could feel
that kind of creeping in imeet.
644
00:27:54,100 --> 00:27:56,100
Do I say that?
Did I ask the challenging
645
00:27:56,100 --> 00:27:57,700
question?
Because I think it could be
646
00:27:57,700 --> 00:27:59,300
better for everybody or do.
I stay quiet?
647
00:27:59,500 --> 00:28:02,500
And I decided in my own company
that I could do that, and if it
648
00:28:02,500 --> 00:28:04,700
turned out, we're working
together, and the questions I
649
00:28:04,700 --> 00:28:07,700
was asking where you wanted to
go, then we were just part and
650
00:28:07,700 --> 00:28:10,500
it's okay, I'm not here to
impose anything on you.
651
00:28:10,600 --> 00:28:13,000
We're working together as
partners, we kind of bolt on for
652
00:28:13,000 --> 00:28:15,100
however, long we'd like, and
then we separate, and maybe we
653
00:28:15,108 --> 00:28:16,600
come back together for another
engagement.
654
00:28:16,700 --> 00:28:20,100
So that really informed, that
sort of partnership and bringing
655
00:28:20,100 --> 00:28:22,600
out the best in you.
And me was why I built a company
656
00:28:22,600 --> 00:28:25,500
because I frankly, I didn't see
a lot of companies that did that
657
00:28:25,600 --> 00:28:27,600
because like yeah, that's not
the normal way.
658
00:28:27,600 --> 00:28:30,800
And yet I see it as so.
Powerful and I wouldn't want to
659
00:28:30,800 --> 00:28:33,800
live any other way and so why
would you want to live up to the
660
00:28:33,800 --> 00:28:36,500
rigor of being B?
Corp certified.
661
00:28:36,500 --> 00:28:38,600
I'm curious, that's awesome and
I love it, you know?
662
00:28:38,600 --> 00:28:41,700
And I see these announcements
and they like pray, we got B
663
00:28:41,700 --> 00:28:43,700
Corp certification.
So I'm going to sound like I'm
664
00:28:43,700 --> 00:28:44,800
patting ourselves on the back as
well.
665
00:28:44,800 --> 00:28:46,400
See it's B Corp thing.
That sounds really cool.
666
00:28:46,400 --> 00:28:48,200
I looked in it's like yeah we
should apply.
667
00:28:48,300 --> 00:28:51,100
I think it took us six months
because we were doing all this
668
00:28:51,100 --> 00:28:52,600
stuff already.
It actually pushed me over the
669
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edge to.
This is one thing that did make
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a difference, they were like,
yeah, you need to really be
671
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thinking about how you're
helping people medically, and I
672
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was like, we are not giving out
there.
673
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Not providing benefits so people
can be focused on the work and
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not on their health, not that
they wouldn't, you know, if it
675
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was ill health, right?
Like they were really worried
676
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about that and I was hurting
them rather than how do we help
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them keep healthy.
What benefits do we need to
678
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provide?
Because that's just what we
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should be doing.
And so I think we change to a
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credit union versus a bank.
We upped the way we did our
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medical work, we had to put the
statements about, we're
682
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anti-slavery and things like
that.
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And so the rigor I'm hearing
rigor, it wasn't much rigor
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because we were doing virtually
all those things anyway because
685
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I believed it was the right
thing to do and so it was
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wonderful to have That helped us
take it up a notch and then also
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sort of put us in touch with a
community people that were.
688
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We were doing that even if it
was maybe a farther leap.
689
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Then we had to initially
amazing.
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Now, you also wrote a book
called Ripple, a field manual
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for leadership that works.
Can you tell us what that's
692
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about?
Sure.
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It's pretty exciting, although
it's kind of amazing, I thought
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it would take six months because
I had all these articles and
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things, I'd written in blog
posts, only causes bring this
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together and it'll just be great
and it took six years.
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So I got the six, right?
I started writing it because I
698
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saw people applying really cool.
I mean, I've got so many
699
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leadership books.
You wouldn't.
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It's just crazy.
You know, like 20 linear feet of
701
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them, probably, maybe more and
they'd apply technique from this
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book or this strategy or things
like that.
703
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They weren't in synchronicity,
they were fighting each other
704
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because they have different
philosophies management.
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And so I said, I think I'd like
to put something in.
706
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It doesn't have to be the book
but a book where people can see
707
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how, and I described it
actually.
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The first part is about the
leader knowing themselves and
709
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how they show up another path.
That's Ripple one Ripple to is.
710
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Is, how am I trusting in
enabling and equipping other
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people?
That's Ripple to.
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So that's interaction and
ripple, three is the
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organization itself.
How do we, you know, get clearer
714
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and where we're going?
And make sure the things work,
715
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right?
And produce things efficiently.
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So, that's the book.
And I had all these little
717
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pieces that I had learned from
other people, if you have
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developed myself and put them in
the book, and I just wanted to
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give people something, that was
had a guy one time.
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You told me, he said, you know,
I was reading the book and it
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felt like we were sitting across
the kitchen table.
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Having a conversation, and
you're asking some questions and
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then you offer to The things I
could try out to see what I
724
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could do better and I was like,
that's exactly what I wanted.
725
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I wanted to be a with book
before that I read this post and
726
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I wanted to be something that
people could feel like.
727
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Yeah, I can do that, I can do
that.
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And by working those areas where
they might have some opportunity
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to be stronger as a leader, they
could actually make the whole
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organization better.
So actually in the back of the
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book is really fun.
It says yeah, this is nice, but
732
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I need help now and so because
it's organized and all these
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pieces and there's little like
there's a principle like look
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for diamonds in the dirt, you
know, that's a lead.
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I can see.
See, I can see excellence in
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somebody, they can't see
themselves because that's normal
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to that.
If I don't call it out, they
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don't know it and we can't use
it.
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So, you know, and here's ways to
think about the people and, you
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know, whatever it was.
So it's a little tiny
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five-minute exercised around
this one principal and those are
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the kind of things I have in
there, but at the end of the
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book it says, hey my people are
not really making the impact.
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They want, we're not making the
results and I find a lot of
745
00:31:49,408 --> 00:31:51,200
backtracking.
You might want to look at
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diamonds in the dirt for
yourself and your team and then
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it refers you back to that
section.
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So you sort of like a self-help
diagnostic to figure out where
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could I be better?
And so Yeah, I think we're
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almost out of the initial
Printing and we do like online
751
00:32:02,600 --> 00:32:05,800
stuff, but it's pretty cool to
have people come and say we're
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using this for our masters
degree program effective,
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Business Leaders.
And that's our curriculum.
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And we're just going through
that and working all these
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00:32:12,500 --> 00:32:14,800
exercises ourselves last super
excited.
756
00:32:14,800 --> 00:32:18,600
Yeah, that's always wonderful to
know that it's easy to catch on
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00:32:18,600 --> 00:32:20,300
its mission accomplished for
you.
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00:32:20,300 --> 00:32:23,200
As far as conversation across
the kitchen table and it's
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something that people can
actually put into practical use.
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00:32:26,500 --> 00:32:28,000
Well done.
Yeah, thanks.
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I did have three of our clients.
Together.
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They conspired.
And they called me and said,
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okay, this is nice and
everything.
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We need a cohort based
leadership program that runs for
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like six to nine months and we
want to send all our people and
766
00:32:38,300 --> 00:32:40,100
I'm like well it's a
do-it-yourself book.
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00:32:40,100 --> 00:32:42,400
You don't you know of course we
do coaching and they said well
768
00:32:42,400 --> 00:32:44,800
how about if we pre-fund it?
How many slots can we buy ahead
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of time?
And then you can take that money
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work with a curriculum designer.
Make it happen.
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That was three years ago right
before endemic.
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So we're in our third cohort,
the Ripple leadership program
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where we do this with some
coaching and things and mostly
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purpose-driven businesses
virtually, all you know, there
775
00:32:59,000 --> 00:33:02,800
be Orbs and small Giants also,
great game of business players,
776
00:33:02,800 --> 00:33:05,100
you know, these folks that are
really trying to build leaders
777
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from the ground up and it's a
blast, that's wonderful.
778
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Oh my gosh.
So then aside from your cohort,
779
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how can people get in touch with
you?
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How can people learn more about
trebuchet and working with your
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organization?
Yes.
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Well, trebuchet.
Group.com is probably the best
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00:33:20,400 --> 00:33:22,200
place.
We've got some really fun videos
784
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of clients and things on that
site.
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It has a link to the rip
leadership program.
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It has a link to some of our
other things and basically it
787
00:33:28,108 --> 00:33:29,200
says, hey let's have a
conversation.
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00:33:29,300 --> 00:33:31,800
Action because there's no
one-size-fits-all it's about the
789
00:33:31,800 --> 00:33:33,900
conversation of Discovery we can
see, I don't know.
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What could we do?
What's great look like and how
791
00:33:35,900 --> 00:33:38,000
might we partner, so that would
be really wonderful and there's
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00:33:38,000 --> 00:33:40,300
lots of tools and things on
their people can just take in
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00:33:40,300 --> 00:33:42,900
use and try to be better.
I really encourage the B Corp
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00:33:42,900 --> 00:33:45,700
Community to check it out and
whatever things they'd like or
795
00:33:45,700 --> 00:33:48,400
questions they want to ask me
even have a 20-minute no
796
00:33:48,400 --> 00:33:51,000
obligation whatsoever.
Just ask a question and we'll
797
00:33:51,000 --> 00:33:53,200
just work through whatever we
can do to discover things
798
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together and hopefully that
helps people.
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That sounds amazing.
Chris Hutchinson, thank you so
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much for joining me today on
Road.
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00:33:59,300 --> 00:34:01,100
Role Models I really appreciate
it.
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00:34:01,100 --> 00:34:03,800
I'm sort of embarrassed to think
of myself as a role model and I
803
00:34:03,800 --> 00:34:05,800
love that you're highlighting,
people that can help other
804
00:34:05,800 --> 00:34:07,200
people make a difference in
their lives.
805
00:34:07,200 --> 00:34:09,400
It's all about being an
inspiration and spreading
806
00:34:09,400 --> 00:34:12,699
inspiration, so that people can
be better at everything that
807
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they do.
Thank you again, thank you so
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much.
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Hello, beautiful humans.
Welcome to another episode of
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with beautiful humans.
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I'm Jennifer Norman founder of
the human Beauty movement and
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your host, this podcast thrives
on your support.
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So if you like what you hear,
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this episode with everyone, you
know, across your networks.
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So, I have a question for
everyone.
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Who's listening Listening, do
you consider yourself a great
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leader, a great team, player,
both or none of the above today,
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we're going to talk about what
it takes to rise to the
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occasion, and make your presence
bigger in your organization and
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in your life.
My guest is Chris, Hutchinson,
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Chris is the founder of
trebuchet group, a certified B
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corporation.
That helps bring out the best in
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organizations and people.
Now Chris calls himself and
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abundance influencer, he helps
coach and mentor People on
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building effective leadership
skills, and great teams.
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Welcome Chris.
Thank you, Jennifer.
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It's wonderful to be with you.
I am delighted to have this
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conversation.
It is so important because I
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would say, it doesn't matter who
you are or what you do.
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You could be a young student,
you could be the CEO of a
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multi-billion dollar
Corporation.
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I think there's one thing that
all of us humans have in common
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and that is the frustration or
the fear of not living up to our
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potential.
Would you say that you would
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agree?
I absolutely do.
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I think that's something whether
it's on the surface or deep
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within that.
A lot of people are trying to
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figure out how to be enough and
how to be with others and be
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enough.
Yeah, yeah.
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Now I want to wind it back to
2002 when you started the
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trebuchet group, what was it
that caused you to think?
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You know, I think there's an
opportunity to help people with
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leadership and with
organizations.
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Well, that's such a good
question and I'm going to have
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to wind it back a little bit
further.
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So when I was graduating from
college and I was a brand new
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wet-behind-the-ears mechanical
engineer and a Tenant in the US
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Air Force, I went through ROTC
to pay for my degree.
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I was on a team where there was
the leader.
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Well, it was really challenging,
I would just tell you that the
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environment on the team was,
keep your head down hide in the
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grass, you know, don't put
yourself out there because
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you're going to get criticized.
And if you bring any bad news,
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having forbid things were going
to be bad.
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And I was thinking my four-year
commitment was like a four-year
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sentence.
I'm in trouble.
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Yeah, this is not what I thought
it was going to be and luckily
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things change in big
organizations.
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They have rotate people through
and I get put on a different
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team essentially.
And this Steam was hey, I'm
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really strong at this.
You don't seem like you've got
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that, let me help you and I
noticed that you have a
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superpower here.
How can we harness that lots of
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communication?
Lots of open, is it was amazing?
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I mean, I jumped out of bed,
wanting to contribute feeling
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great.
And the reality was, I said, I
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went to a different team, a
different team was created
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because one person changed on
the team, the leader changed and
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I realized it didn't matter how
good of an engineer.
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I wasn't any of my colleagues.
If we had a leader who wasn't
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helping bring out the best in us
getting Clarity and helping us
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communicate like on team to team
one was really not.
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I was depressed.
I didn't really enjoy coming to
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work at all.
Team two, I loved contributing
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and I would do whatever I needed
to do.
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So that influence me through the
Air Force and through Corporate
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America and in 2002, our leader
at the time, it division a
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Motorola dropped us from 3,000
people to 20 and 18 months, 20,
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they were technological
challenges in the Mark was hard,
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but it was really a leadership
failure.
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And as I got out, I thought,
okay, great, I have a severance,
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this is a gift.
And what do I want to do with
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this?
How do I want to take these
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learnings?
I've done and help other people,
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learn them not as a guru sitting
on the hill, but as a partner
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beside people, helping them
discover what they need and
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perhaps, giving a tool here or
some advice there or bolster
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here, so that they can be their
most excellent self as a leader
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and enable that in others.
It's so fascinating.
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How the tone and the spirit of
the leader makes such a
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difference.
Everywhere.
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You go.
It really is said, everybody is
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looking up to that leader for
cues on how they should be, what
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the tone is of an organization.
And You know how people are
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going to operate.
Can you tell us what in your
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opinion are the traits of our
great leader?
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Well, I think great leaders
really I think do an able in a
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positive way.
The best within others right now
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our team is a set a goal for the
next year we set one as an
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intention and figure out what
are we going to do besides the
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work that we do how are we going
to continue evolving or
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accompanying each other?
And our goal is thriving in our
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sweet spots so it means as a
company as individuals where the
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place is not that we get to live
out there all the time.
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Do only the fun things but How
can we tap our strengths?
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And so I think really great
leaders.
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Are they understand their own
strengths first of all.
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So if I understand my strengths,
I will see your differences as
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your strengths, not as I'm
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And if you're like me, you're
normal, and if you're not,
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you're abnormal, you know, a lot
of people don't really realize
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their strengths.
So knowing those strengths being
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able to understand what my path
might be, not as a rigid step,
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but where am I going?
And how might I invite you along
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with it for as long as we get to
go together?
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And then I think it's a lot
around being, how do I develop
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trust and really give trust
first as a leader.
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It's not well, Wait, till
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I become vulnerable?
And open to what we need to do
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together?
I'm learning just as much, maybe
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even more than the people that
time, quote, have air quotes
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here leading, when I have that
deep connection with them, I
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believe that I will equip you,
and uniquely for the thing
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rather than treating use a cog.
Here's the roll, this is what
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this person does.
Like how can you make that role
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seeing how do we equip that we
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And then finally, the last part.
So I know myself, I'm really
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working well with others and
enabling the best and then we
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all turn towards the
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And that's where we say, well,
what's effective, what's the
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right things to do?
And then eventually we figure
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out how can we do those really
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So efficiency.
So I think the pieces that make
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a good leader, a lot of
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way.
They start with, let's be
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efficient.
Well, that didn't work.
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Let's reorganize, we need to be
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Oh, that didn't work.
I didn't give you the tools that
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you needed.
Well, that didn't work, as I
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didn't treat you as anything
more than just a blob, you know,
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human resource.
And if those things aren't
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happening, then it comes into
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Am I in the right actions
around, the things that are
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challenging, difficult and
important?
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And then if I'm not there, do I
know myself?
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So, I think I've told you the
path one way through and the
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path lot of organizations sort
of show up with.
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Yeah, fascinating back.
When I was an MBA students, one
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of my favorite classes of all
time was organizational
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behavior.
It's so weird.
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It was brilliant because it was
a social experiment, the class
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divided into two different teams
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classes and so there were four
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an organization come up with a
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Or service and sell it.
And at the end, it was, you
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know, whoever made the most
sales with whoever was the most
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functional organization.
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we had learned in the class, we
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practice.
And so it was fascinating
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because you definitely saw the
dysfunction in certain groups
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and at certain times of stress
and moments, you saw the rise of
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what we would consider either
natural-born leaders or the ones
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that Rose to the challenge of
wanting to actually take that
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front and then other separately.
Great followers.
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see how quickly all of that had
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two bills because by the end of
the semester, you're going to
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get graded on it.
And so I often think you know
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this predated a lot of virtual
TV like Survivor and whatnot and
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you were living it, you are just
watching it.
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We were living it.
We were absolutely living at but
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I was just curious from your
standpoint because I used the
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term natural-born leaders and I
think about some people would
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say yeah, that there is this
inherent gift that some people
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Have maybe it's the first born
child or do.
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You think that there are any
specific traits in humans that
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make them better leaders just
inherently?
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Or is it a skill that can be
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Yes.
So that's the short answer is,
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both is our true.
The, in fact, the most inherent
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trait for a really great
leaders, something that I don't
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think many people in they think
of great leadership would put
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together, but I was challenged
one time.
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Because in my book, I wrote
down, you know, everybody's a
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leader.
You know, I think of my
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five-year-old, son, bouncing
across the couch.
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Cushions my to Daughter was
following him doing exactly what
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he was doing.
We imitate.
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We look at things, you know,
that's the way that we as humans
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kind of learn and work together
and the person's like, I don't
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think that and instead, could
anyone be a great leader?
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Really?
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I think that the most important
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can be a good leader.
Anybody can walk through them
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techniques and, you know, follow
the self discovery and learn all
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this stuff.
But really if you don't like
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people, and you're not willing
to sort of do hard things in the
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service of something bigger,
you're probably not going to be
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a great leader, you'll be okay,
leader, you'll do.
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All right, I think that's That's
what the core of leadership is.
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I'm willing to I'm not doing
this for me to set on a big
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Golden Throne and take, you
know, hors d'oeuvres.
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It's more of.
I am in service to something
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bigger and I'm inviting you to
do the same and I'm with that
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there's all sorts of things.
I'm going to do it because and I
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have to, like people in some way
and care about them.
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People are people.
They are tough.
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I had a client was like you
know, if my people were just so
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people, everything would be
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I'm like, yeah, you're right.
And that's the way that we're
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getting, it's done, right
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The thing that fascinates me in
the organization Behavior, Your
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stuff that I've done some things
here and there in terms of
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taking some classes is that
everybody is completely unique.
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I mean I get to see so many
people and everybody's unique
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and at the same time, there
seemed to be a limited number of
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patterns that we fall into when
were in groups, you know, I
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could probably I think there's a
book on my shelf and says the
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nine, major plots and
everything's just a subplot of
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that for screenwriters or
somebody's, right?
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It's kind of that way with roots
of people as you said, there's
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certain things that emerge and
people to step up or step down
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or somebody's like I'm going to
bleed through an intellectual
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superiority or whatever.
No, those things just sort of
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happen and people interact
around them and those patterns
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aren't infinite.
There are a small number.
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I never judge people on the
never go.
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Oh, that's the pattern.
I say hmm, looks like it's might
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be coming up.
What sort of things might be
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helpful here?
How do we help everybody be
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their best selves.
When it might be clearly
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apparent, people are mmm.
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come to trebuchet, is it usually
the leader of the organization
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that says I need help or is it
human resources or is it you
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know somebody else within the
organization that says we need
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help?
You've been through this
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Jennifer I can tell.
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most effective places when the
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leaders come together and said
you know what?
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We think this team has more
capacity and our organization
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working past and we are
exercising and we want to be
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part of whatever we're going to
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says oh my God we're struggling
you know everything's trying to
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do it.
We're having a hard time in the
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frequently the leaders have a
shadow a blind spot that's
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hunting affecting the
organization and people don't
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have the authority to say hey
you have a blind spot not that
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we walk in and say hey we have
once we actually rather than
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talk Talk about what's wrong.
We like to say, what are we
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doing great?
What could be better?
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What's getting in the way?
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Egos and to people's Egos and
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We're doing the best we can.
Even if it doesn't get us what
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we want, and it's so exciting.
When we have a team of people
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that discovered, what change in
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work together, the clarity that
they needed, everybody's the
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same in the room and we now can
get to where we need to go and
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that's really fun.
So it does require.
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We've had some people that come
up and say you weak you know,
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you got to go fix somebody, we
got to fix this boss.
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We have this fixes Then I say,
you know, as a recovering
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mechanical engineer, I can fix
things.
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I don't think people should be
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they want to shift their
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behavior and that supports where
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that we could have a better
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Mmm.
Now when you start working with
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an organization, a client, is
there a specific Playbook that
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you use to get to know what the
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going to address and be able to
work with them on going on
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whatever it is that they wish to
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Of different doors that people
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come to us in different
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ways in the patterns, but the
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situations are always
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company and has two different
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companies, that same thing going
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We go through, one of them is
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the results we quite want.
Maybe there's friction on the
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team that's you know, heating up
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we would ask questions of the
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Let's say it's HR.
You say, hey, we don't know.
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We're trying to figure out if we
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All right, let's talk.
About what good would look like
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what they think is possible.
And then, that would be the Q.
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Because if the senior leader and
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shift the organization, can't
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you could train everybody on
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reinforcing Behavior.
So it's really good.
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themselves and say I can tell
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I've never been before like oh I
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don't know a pandemic hybrid
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To see people or people that
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even physically met.
That's really challenging for
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weatherization that didn't start
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heck do I lead in this.
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What is the organization need
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grow themselves.
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the organization can move
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know, we don't do the go fix
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Recent post by Seth Godin said
there's people who do things for
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people to people and with people
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The I do things for I serve
overdone that becomes like
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you're dependent on me if I do
two things to you.
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I think that's a position of
like I'm better and I really I
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frankly I really don't like that
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that space.
We follow a lot of clients that
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deal with Consultants who have
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I believe it's doing things with
people and so if it was the team
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we might talk with the team and
say, hey, what's going on?
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Well what's not going well yet?
What's missing are unclear and
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And say Here's Where the team
kind of is, what would that
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mean?
Would it benefit to?
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To have Clarity around what's
our deep purpose and what are
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the ways we live it out
otherwise known as values and
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what's going on that we need to
do better and then what does
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that mean right now?
For me so there's sort of this
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Cascade of from the high level
of connection all the way down
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to how am I doing?
Or it might be.
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One of the things we do is
called goal.
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Focus team building where we
help people experience, without
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trust Falls and squishy toys are
helping people experience.
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What it's like to be vulnerable
with each other, to really get
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to know each other in a short
amount of time to in service of
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the business.
Not again, touchy-feely, I work
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with a lot of me.
Engineers and they were just run
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from the room, right?
You know, touchy-feely.
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But if you're like, well, if I
know your strengths and, you
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know, my strengths, we probably
could get better together like,
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hmm.
Okay, we have more healthy
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conflict.
Our commitment is deeper than to
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the goals that we've decided on.
And we can hold each other
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accountable.
We don't have to wait for the
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boss so that the results we get
our Collective first.
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So I just threw a whole bunch of
stuff off our individual tool
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belt at you Jennifer.
But and we really try to meet
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people where they are and walk
through shared discovery of
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where we could be and what could
be getting in the way
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fascinating.
You know, I worked for a A
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number of larger companies
earlier in my day.
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And I remember one specifically
and these were, you know, large
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Fortune, 500 companies, very
successful, one of the
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companies, the human resource
manager, would typically say
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every organization gets the
results that they are set up to
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get.
Yes.
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And I thought that was a
fascinating Insight.
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It was also intriguing that in a
number of these large
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organizations that were just
killing it in terms of
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financials, you know, Profitable
year over year growth, all of
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that, the people whenever we
would do these reviews and, you
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know, the self-assessments, not
terrible, terrible morale.
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Terrible work-life balance
itself that they needed to
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practically murder themselves in
order to get everything done on
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time and to the rigor that they
want to.
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Because they felt that that was
their measurements, their ruler
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of success, you know, how much
am I bringing in for the
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organization and at what cost I
think that?
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Because we've all been through
the past few years that we have
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there's been a shift and a lot
of that.
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And we're now talking more about
work-life balance.
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We're talking about mental
Wellness, we're talking about
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well-being from a holistic
perspective.
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We're getting more into the
things that I think that the men
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that you're used to working with
we're typically run from the
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hills you know we're starting to
get more into the touchy-feely.
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I wanted to just ask you like
what are some of the changes
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that you've seen happen and that
leaders, that of maybe it has?
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Kind of leadership style or
mindset that worked very well
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for an extended period of time
might be like, oh, things are
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changing, I don't know if I'm
comfortable with this.
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How do you walk somebody through
a whole shift?
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That happens with Millennials
and gen Z years coming into the
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workforce.
No, that's just, it's such a
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simple question.
Jennifer, this is so easy.
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I'm do we have.
Yeah, how much time do we have?
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Yeah, I'm trying to think the
places to go.
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So you asked about how to help
somebody threw this in sort of
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the shifts that are happening.
And then, in a way you hinted at
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The let's see what if I could
heard it called domestication, I
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think is Don Miguel Ruiz tells
we get domesticated, we get
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trained to be a certain way and
so a lot of times I will tell
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you as a sideline when we have
people that come to work with us
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like directly like is part of
our team.
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Usually, it takes about the
first year almost a year and a
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half till we can help them
unlearn those self protective
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behaviors and holding the shiny.
Cut out in front of us and just
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saying I'm fine.
I'm fine.
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Everything's okay.
So it really I think I feel
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honored to and privilege to be
able to lead that by saying,
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today's been kind of hard and
I'm struggling with this and I'm
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tearing up about something that
matters a lot, there's
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touchy-feely that's artificial
and there's real genuine
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presence in connection.
Where we human with each other?
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Which can look emotional?
You can be that way.
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So Google did the Aristotle
project.
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I don't know if you've heard
about that, that was where they
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measured hundreds of teams and
found out.
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What was the thing that made the
biggest difference in the team's
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performance and head and
shoulders above.
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All of them was emotional
safety.
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So, psychological safety, I
could be me.
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I I could say this is a hard day
or I'm struggling because my dog
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is dying or, you know, anything
could be happening, so you can
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hear that.
Connecting with what you just
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asked is like, well, how do you
have these people that are
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showing up, like, work needs to
be my community, work needs to
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be, especially in the pandemic.
I think a lot of people were
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collapsed down to who were they
interacting with most?
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Even it was online.
I need a counselor.
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I want somebody who can coach
me, not only in what I'm doing
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here at work, but how that fits
into the rest of my life?
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And I think there's a lot of
people who never signed up for
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that, right?
They barely know what they're
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doing.
In terms of I just go to work.
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I do my work right those people
are I think moving on out of the
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you know because that was sort
of generational and I think
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there's an opportunity for
leaders to say can I be in touch
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with what's important to me
safely not spreading it on
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people spring it on people but
safely in a way that allows that
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for other people and what's
really cool Jennifer is that the
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people, the leaders, who do that
the men and women who do that,
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they get to a place where
they're enjoying their
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experience significantly better.
They'll like, you know, I'm
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sleeping better.
And I'm having this good stuff.
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I don't usually go directly to
lie.
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Let's do counseling.
First of all, I'm not a
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counselor.
I mean, we do a lot of work
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recovering engineer done this
for 20 years but we talk about
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what's great in the business and
what excites you about that?
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So there's a connection there
but it's kind of like the
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business reason for doing it.
And once we do that, then people
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start seeing oh you know what
the business got better, when I
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was more in touch with what I
could do.
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And I can honestly say, hey, I
tender for, that's a better idea
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than my or I screwed up or
Jennifer, I need your help.
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I can't do this, you know, then
we're a team then we're able to
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be more than the just strong
pillars.
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That normally teams are so I
think it's an opportunity.
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For people who have had
different leadership styles to
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sort of step back and decide,
what do they want to happening
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in the world?
And how do they want to step
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into that?
And having support to do, that
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is really important.
Because like, if it's just me,
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I'll do what I do.
And if it's different, it's hard
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and I probably will slide back
to, where they, the way I do it.
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Hmm.
I don't know how much it
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answered that really tough
question there.
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Ya know you did a great job with
that.
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Thank you.
Now, for all of those leaders of
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organizations, or leaders of
households, that might be
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listening.
We talked about being able to
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All to be vulnerable.
We talked about working with not
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to and in some cases for but in
a balanced way, what are some of
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the other things that people can
say, you know let me stop and
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think about, you know, what, my
behavior is or what I'm
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projecting, what are some of the
things that you've noticed
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really help in perhaps the
shortest or the least amount of
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time.
Another killer question sum up
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all this experience.
That's what I'm doing.
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Just be like, okay, what's the
next question?
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She's gonna give me great.
So, how do I get in touch?
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I think I would say the most
important thing is to be curious
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and listen, mmm, I think those
are the two if I bought it all
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down to curiosity, and not in
the luxurious, why the hell
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you're not doing this?
That's not curiosity.
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We will say that the curiosity
like, real genuine honest,
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curiosity and listening and I
think when that connection you
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can find, people people want to
be heard and people want to be
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able to be understood.
Stood and have their ideas
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considered.
They don't have to have the way
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that things go doesn't have to
be their way but if they're not
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any of those above like I'm not
listen to.
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I'm not appreciated in any way.
Yeah, I'm going to either show
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up and just kind of idle like
quite quitting or I'm going to
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maybe fight back which those
people are actually easier to
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redirect than somebody who just
disengages because they care.
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That's why they're fighting
back, right?
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So let's what are we cool?
You fight for together?
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And one example I can give and I
haven't had the privilege and to
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listen to a lot of your other
episodes.
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I'm sure you have some really
cool Role Models.
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Have you heard?
Could be Thea.
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Yeah.
So I could be Thea is an amazing
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coach and I think diversity
consultant.
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I'm not sure she was on a brene
brown podcast and she talked
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about this.
So at the core of this way to
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deal with the really tough
issues of like, I feel
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oppressed, or I'm doing things
that people are feeling a
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pressing or we're not honoring
each other microaggressions, all
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the things that can happen, most
of which are unintentional, at
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least on the conscious level.
I'm not intending to hurt
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anybody rather than calling
people out.
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She went through this practice
of calling people in and there's
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Curiosity and listening in it.
So the way it starts is if let's
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say you said something and it
kind of hit me and I was like,
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Wow gosh, you know, but you're
the boss Jennifer and I just I
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just have to suck it up.
Or unlike do I fight back and my
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Frozen, like, what the hell?
And if I can stay in curiosity,
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that keeps me out of judgment
because you can't be curious and
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judgmental.
The same time, it's really
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important.
Good thing.
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And so, if I'm curious, when I
say Jennifer, what were you?
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Hoping would be a result of you
sharing that information, or
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asking me, how can we get a real
facilitator here?
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You know, whatever the comment
would be if you were the leader
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and I've done this like
literally with people's Sitting
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around me in the room and just
done that and said, I'm really
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truly curious is not a technique
and then I listened and you say,
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well, I'm trying to make sure,
you know, I think we're doing
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good things and whatever, you
know, and I'll probably feel the
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sting lesson if I understand
your intent.
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And then I can say, okay, thank
you, Jim for that helps me.
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How open, would you be to
hearing how it impacted me
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initially?
And then I would say, yeah, I
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felt like, what am I doing here?
And I must not be a real
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facilitator.
And then I thought I'm in one
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place and if that wasn't your
intention, you'd say holy cow.
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Wow, I Know that that would
happen.
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And then we can both say, well,
what do we want to do going
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forward and that Curiosity and
listening and the connection?
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I can't tell you how powerful
that is for anybody in any
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circumstance.
I think is one the most powerful
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tools I've ever had in helping a
line people together.
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And what are we trying to do?
And if you indeed were like,
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well, I think you're a shitty
facilitator.
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You're not very good and you
need to go and we need somebody
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who can really do this.
Thank you for letting me know
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that.
How can we set up the?
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I'd like the team to be okay.
I would literally do this in the
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middle of a room because I think
to me as a leader being
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vulnerable is Very important.
And there is times we've seen
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this.
When as a facilitator, I'm not
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the leader.
And yet, I can set the example.
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If I am vulnerable in front of
other people in a way that
536
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supports what we need to do,
they essentially just got a
537
00:23:11,900 --> 00:23:14,200
little way to say, oh, I'm gonna
be able to do that too.
538
00:23:14,300 --> 00:23:16,600
I'm very often, it's the CEO
really needs.
539
00:23:16,600 --> 00:23:19,400
That example, our could benefit
from that because, oh, you don't
540
00:23:19,400 --> 00:23:21,200
have to be perfect.
Oh, you don't have to have every
541
00:23:21,200 --> 00:23:22,600
answer.
Oh, you could look to the group
542
00:23:22,600 --> 00:23:25,300
for help because that's what I'm
doing, facilitative Lee, and
543
00:23:25,300 --> 00:23:29,400
those are very effective ways to
connect and lead people that is
544
00:23:29,500 --> 00:23:32,800
Is so fascinating.
Yes, the listening and making
545
00:23:32,800 --> 00:23:36,600
sure that you understand what
was just said and understand
546
00:23:36,600 --> 00:23:38,700
what was just heard at the
understanding.
547
00:23:38,700 --> 00:23:42,600
Underneath the listening is so
key because then you can really
548
00:23:42,600 --> 00:23:46,500
get to the humanness of what's
going on in an ordinary
549
00:23:46,500 --> 00:23:48,900
situation which would otherwise
be, okay.
550
00:23:48,900 --> 00:23:51,300
I'm going to put the vinegar on
and be like, oh, thank you, I
551
00:23:51,300 --> 00:23:53,700
respect that.
And if you don't build those
552
00:23:53,700 --> 00:23:56,600
connections, you don't get
curious enough to really dig
553
00:23:56,600 --> 00:23:59,400
into the meat and the Heart of
what those Jews.
554
00:23:59,600 --> 00:24:01,900
Our.
And if we're asking people to
555
00:24:02,000 --> 00:24:04,300
commit a piece of their lives
for this and hopefully in a
556
00:24:04,308 --> 00:24:06,800
purpose, based organizations are
there to commit a piece of their
557
00:24:06,800 --> 00:24:09,400
life to this.
If I'm as a leader helping
558
00:24:09,400 --> 00:24:11,500
enable that, why would I go
anywhere else?
559
00:24:11,500 --> 00:24:14,800
It's not a golden handcuffs.
It's an environment where we are
560
00:24:14,800 --> 00:24:16,300
being the best with each other.
Yeah.
561
00:24:16,300 --> 00:24:18,800
And guess what, when things
matter a lot, I'm going to be
562
00:24:18,800 --> 00:24:20,400
emotional, it's going to be
harder, I'm going to be more
563
00:24:20,400 --> 00:24:22,100
stressed, you're doing more
stress.
564
00:24:22,100 --> 00:24:25,100
So having ways that we can work
through that and use that stress
565
00:24:25,100 --> 00:24:28,800
to push us forward, rather than
beating up on each other or one
566
00:24:28,800 --> 00:24:31,800
person pull Lean back, always
and the other person like you
567
00:24:31,800 --> 00:24:33,400
always works for me.
I wonder what's happening for
568
00:24:33,400 --> 00:24:35,500
you and until that person says
no, I refuse.
569
00:24:35,500 --> 00:24:37,200
I'm not going to accommodate any
more.
570
00:24:37,200 --> 00:24:39,700
I'm now participating in my own
diminishment I'm not going to do
571
00:24:39,700 --> 00:24:41,400
that anymore and that's usually
not fun.
572
00:24:41,400 --> 00:24:43,100
When that happens, I mean, it's
important.
573
00:24:43,100 --> 00:24:45,300
But rather, how do we do that
almost all the time?
574
00:24:45,300 --> 00:24:46,600
Like hey what are we doing
together?
575
00:24:46,600 --> 00:24:49,800
Hey, what are we doing together?
Hmm, I'm going to switch gears
576
00:24:49,800 --> 00:24:53,400
because I've heard that we were
talking to you mentioned just
577
00:24:53,400 --> 00:24:57,300
earlier about Purpose, Driven
organizations, and I would say
578
00:24:57,300 --> 00:25:02,400
that Purpose Driven organization
From the soul of the person who
579
00:25:02,400 --> 00:25:05,900
founded the company, as well as
the leader, the CEO, they know
580
00:25:05,900 --> 00:25:09,000
that they have a higher calling,
they know that they are out
581
00:25:09,000 --> 00:25:12,900
there for, not just profits, but
also for people and the planet
582
00:25:12,900 --> 00:25:16,400
in most cases.
And so from the perspective of
583
00:25:16,500 --> 00:25:19,600
having an ear to the ground or
understanding the heartbeat of
584
00:25:19,608 --> 00:25:22,800
their organization, I would
imagine that that comes a little
585
00:25:22,800 --> 00:25:27,400
bit more natural and you
yourself are the founder of in
586
00:25:27,400 --> 00:25:29,400
purpose-driven organization in
that.
587
00:25:29,500 --> 00:25:32,200
You are a certified V Corp.
Can you tell us?
588
00:25:32,200 --> 00:25:36,200
What do you think, sets people
apart or sets organizations
589
00:25:36,200 --> 00:25:40,900
apart that are Purpose, Driven
versus others that might not be
590
00:25:40,900 --> 00:25:44,900
and why you yourself decided
that you wanted to be a
591
00:25:44,908 --> 00:25:47,800
purpose-driven organization.
Hmm, you know, it's really fun.
592
00:25:47,800 --> 00:25:50,200
I'm going to play with just for
a moment here because I had
593
00:25:50,200 --> 00:25:52,700
somebody talking about conscious
leadership and purpose-driven
594
00:25:52,700 --> 00:25:54,700
businesses.
And I said, you know, if you're
595
00:25:54,700 --> 00:25:57,000
trying to invite people in sort
of hinting that they're
596
00:25:57,000 --> 00:26:00,100
unconscious and not Purpose,
Driven is probably Out a way to
597
00:26:00,100 --> 00:26:02,600
help them feel like I think I'm
a conscious leader because I'm
598
00:26:02,600 --> 00:26:05,900
awake and even Enron was a
Purpose Driven organization not
599
00:26:05,900 --> 00:26:07,900
in the way that we're talking
about and they had a very clear
600
00:26:07,900 --> 00:26:10,100
purpose of what they wanted to
do together and it was
601
00:26:10,100 --> 00:26:11,800
incredibly destructive.
That's it.
602
00:26:11,800 --> 00:26:13,400
I know we're talking about
Positive Purpose, we're talking
603
00:26:13,400 --> 00:26:17,800
about things that enhance people
and planet and really thriving
604
00:26:17,900 --> 00:26:20,700
in an economic way.
I think you hinted at the
605
00:26:20,700 --> 00:26:22,500
answer.
When you said this company was
606
00:26:22,500 --> 00:26:24,200
started from the soul of
someone.
607
00:26:24,200 --> 00:26:27,400
I think it's a deep connection
to meaning and I think we're all
608
00:26:27,400 --> 00:26:29,300
wired for purpose.
I think a lot of times.
609
00:26:29,400 --> 00:26:31,300
We get that.
Domestication that says, no,
610
00:26:31,300 --> 00:26:33,600
you're actually here to consume,
that's your purpose or your
611
00:26:33,600 --> 00:26:36,700
here, to do some grow grow.
Grow like a cancer, that's your
612
00:26:36,700 --> 00:26:38,800
purpose.
But ultimately, I think when we
613
00:26:38,900 --> 00:26:41,500
can strip away some that
conditioning, I think everybody
614
00:26:41,500 --> 00:26:43,400
really wants that.
I so the people that are more in
615
00:26:43,400 --> 00:26:45,400
touch with that of like why am I
here?
616
00:26:45,400 --> 00:26:47,700
And what's this sort of change
that I would like to make in the
617
00:26:47,700 --> 00:26:49,200
world versus?
I just need to get through the
618
00:26:49,200 --> 00:26:52,100
days and make it by Weekend.
Those are the folks that I think
619
00:26:52,100 --> 00:26:54,600
have the opportunity to say.
Here's a purpose.
620
00:26:54,600 --> 00:26:57,000
I'm about bigger than me.
Would you like to join?
621
00:26:57,000 --> 00:26:59,200
How would you like to help?
And so, that's a different kind
622
00:26:59,200 --> 00:27:02,800
of Coming together then I need a
job because we do and people
623
00:27:02,800 --> 00:27:05,500
need housing and you know the
economy works you have to have
624
00:27:05,500 --> 00:27:08,300
money so people are going to do
that and yet how can we invite
625
00:27:08,300 --> 00:27:10,100
people into something bigger?
I think those people that would
626
00:27:10,100 --> 00:27:13,200
like to see that for themselves
and for others are the ones that
627
00:27:13,200 --> 00:27:15,200
usually do.
That meant certainly me you know
628
00:27:15,200 --> 00:27:17,700
I definitely it can be more of a
good thing too much of a good
629
00:27:17,700 --> 00:27:20,300
thing so caring for people and
trying to help them if it goes
630
00:27:20,300 --> 00:27:22,500
too far, that's rescuing, I mean
a rescue you I'm going to do
631
00:27:22,500 --> 00:27:24,700
things for you even if you could
do them yourselves, I've had
632
00:27:24,700 --> 00:27:27,300
experience with that, I'm
recovering Rescuers, well family
633
00:27:27,300 --> 00:27:30,300
systems and things and I was
looking For the best Within
634
00:27:30,300 --> 00:27:32,400
Myself and others.
And when I started finding that
635
00:27:32,400 --> 00:27:35,900
giving myself permission to be,
who I was, it was very I was
636
00:27:35,900 --> 00:27:38,100
like, in fact when I got out of
that thing, I said, you know,
637
00:27:38,100 --> 00:27:40,100
I've been doing the same work
inside these very large
638
00:27:40,100 --> 00:27:42,900
organizations like you described
and it did do some really great
639
00:27:42,900 --> 00:27:45,100
things and I think I helped a
lot of people and I was always
640
00:27:45,100 --> 00:27:47,900
limited by the power structure
or if I, you know, it's like
641
00:27:47,900 --> 00:27:50,000
well yeah, he works for us.
He would say that or cheap.
642
00:27:50,000 --> 00:27:51,700
Maybe we don't want to have him
working here anymore.
643
00:27:51,700 --> 00:27:54,100
And that fear what I could feel
that kind of creeping in imeet.
644
00:27:54,100 --> 00:27:56,100
Do I say that?
Did I ask the challenging
645
00:27:56,100 --> 00:27:57,700
question?
Because I think it could be
646
00:27:57,700 --> 00:27:59,300
better for everybody or do.
I stay quiet?
647
00:27:59,500 --> 00:28:02,500
And I decided in my own company
that I could do that, and if it
648
00:28:02,500 --> 00:28:04,700
turned out, we're working
together, and the questions I
649
00:28:04,700 --> 00:28:07,700
was asking where you wanted to
go, then we were just part and
650
00:28:07,700 --> 00:28:10,500
it's okay, I'm not here to
impose anything on you.
651
00:28:10,600 --> 00:28:13,000
We're working together as
partners, we kind of bolt on for
652
00:28:13,000 --> 00:28:15,100
however, long we'd like, and
then we separate, and maybe we
653
00:28:15,108 --> 00:28:16,600
come back together for another
engagement.
654
00:28:16,700 --> 00:28:20,100
So that really informed, that
sort of partnership and bringing
655
00:28:20,100 --> 00:28:22,600
out the best in you.
And me was why I built a company
656
00:28:22,600 --> 00:28:25,500
because I frankly, I didn't see
a lot of companies that did that
657
00:28:25,600 --> 00:28:27,600
because like yeah, that's not
the normal way.
658
00:28:27,600 --> 00:28:30,800
And yet I see it as so.
Powerful and I wouldn't want to
659
00:28:30,800 --> 00:28:33,800
live any other way and so why
would you want to live up to the
660
00:28:33,800 --> 00:28:36,500
rigor of being B?
Corp certified.
661
00:28:36,500 --> 00:28:38,600
I'm curious, that's awesome and
I love it, you know?
662
00:28:38,600 --> 00:28:41,700
And I see these announcements
and they like pray, we got B
663
00:28:41,700 --> 00:28:43,700
Corp certification.
So I'm going to sound like I'm
664
00:28:43,700 --> 00:28:44,800
patting ourselves on the back as
well.
665
00:28:44,800 --> 00:28:46,400
See it's B Corp thing.
That sounds really cool.
666
00:28:46,400 --> 00:28:48,200
I looked in it's like yeah we
should apply.
667
00:28:48,300 --> 00:28:51,100
I think it took us six months
because we were doing all this
668
00:28:51,100 --> 00:28:52,600
stuff already.
It actually pushed me over the
669
00:28:52,600 --> 00:28:54,400
edge to.
This is one thing that did make
670
00:28:54,400 --> 00:28:56,100
a difference, they were like,
yeah, you need to really be
671
00:28:56,100 --> 00:28:57,900
thinking about how you're
helping people medically, and I
672
00:28:57,908 --> 00:28:59,000
was like, we are not giving out
there.
673
00:28:59,500 --> 00:29:02,200
Not providing benefits so people
can be focused on the work and
674
00:29:02,200 --> 00:29:04,300
not on their health, not that
they wouldn't, you know, if it
675
00:29:04,308 --> 00:29:06,100
was ill health, right?
Like they were really worried
676
00:29:06,100 --> 00:29:07,900
about that and I was hurting
them rather than how do we help
677
00:29:07,900 --> 00:29:09,700
them keep healthy.
What benefits do we need to
678
00:29:09,708 --> 00:29:11,100
provide?
Because that's just what we
679
00:29:11,100 --> 00:29:13,300
should be doing.
And so I think we change to a
680
00:29:13,300 --> 00:29:16,700
credit union versus a bank.
We upped the way we did our
681
00:29:16,700 --> 00:29:19,300
medical work, we had to put the
statements about, we're
682
00:29:19,300 --> 00:29:20,400
anti-slavery and things like
that.
683
00:29:20,400 --> 00:29:23,300
And so the rigor I'm hearing
rigor, it wasn't much rigor
684
00:29:23,300 --> 00:29:25,600
because we were doing virtually
all those things anyway because
685
00:29:25,600 --> 00:29:28,000
I believed it was the right
thing to do and so it was
686
00:29:28,000 --> 00:29:31,300
wonderful to have That helped us
take it up a notch and then also
687
00:29:31,300 --> 00:29:33,500
sort of put us in touch with a
community people that were.
688
00:29:33,600 --> 00:29:35,900
We were doing that even if it
was maybe a farther leap.
689
00:29:35,900 --> 00:29:38,100
Then we had to initially
amazing.
690
00:29:38,200 --> 00:29:41,300
Now, you also wrote a book
called Ripple, a field manual
691
00:29:41,300 --> 00:29:43,800
for leadership that works.
Can you tell us what that's
692
00:29:43,800 --> 00:29:44,900
about?
Sure.
693
00:29:44,900 --> 00:29:47,000
It's pretty exciting, although
it's kind of amazing, I thought
694
00:29:47,000 --> 00:29:49,200
it would take six months because
I had all these articles and
695
00:29:49,200 --> 00:29:51,300
things, I'd written in blog
posts, only causes bring this
696
00:29:51,300 --> 00:29:54,000
together and it'll just be great
and it took six years.
697
00:29:54,800 --> 00:29:59,600
So I got the six, right?
I started writing it because I
698
00:29:59,600 --> 00:30:02,300
saw people applying really cool.
I mean, I've got so many
699
00:30:02,300 --> 00:30:03,600
leadership books.
You wouldn't.
700
00:30:03,600 --> 00:30:05,800
It's just crazy.
You know, like 20 linear feet of
701
00:30:05,800 --> 00:30:08,600
them, probably, maybe more and
they'd apply technique from this
702
00:30:08,600 --> 00:30:10,900
book or this strategy or things
like that.
703
00:30:10,900 --> 00:30:13,500
They weren't in synchronicity,
they were fighting each other
704
00:30:13,500 --> 00:30:15,500
because they have different
philosophies management.
705
00:30:15,900 --> 00:30:18,200
And so I said, I think I'd like
to put something in.
706
00:30:18,200 --> 00:30:21,000
It doesn't have to be the book
but a book where people can see
707
00:30:21,000 --> 00:30:22,800
how, and I described it
actually.
708
00:30:22,900 --> 00:30:25,700
The first part is about the
leader knowing themselves and
709
00:30:25,800 --> 00:30:29,200
how they show up another path.
That's Ripple one Ripple to is.
710
00:30:29,400 --> 00:30:31,800
Is, how am I trusting in
enabling and equipping other
711
00:30:31,800 --> 00:30:33,200
people?
That's Ripple to.
712
00:30:33,200 --> 00:30:35,500
So that's interaction and
ripple, three is the
713
00:30:35,500 --> 00:30:37,700
organization itself.
How do we, you know, get clearer
714
00:30:37,700 --> 00:30:39,600
and where we're going?
And make sure the things work,
715
00:30:39,600 --> 00:30:41,300
right?
And produce things efficiently.
716
00:30:41,300 --> 00:30:43,200
So, that's the book.
And I had all these little
717
00:30:43,200 --> 00:30:45,500
pieces that I had learned from
other people, if you have
718
00:30:45,500 --> 00:30:48,300
developed myself and put them in
the book, and I just wanted to
719
00:30:48,300 --> 00:30:51,000
give people something, that was
had a guy one time.
720
00:30:51,000 --> 00:30:53,700
You told me, he said, you know,
I was reading the book and it
721
00:30:53,700 --> 00:30:55,700
felt like we were sitting across
the kitchen table.
722
00:30:55,700 --> 00:30:58,600
Having a conversation, and
you're asking some questions and
723
00:30:58,600 --> 00:31:01,200
then you offer to The things I
could try out to see what I
724
00:31:01,200 --> 00:31:04,300
could do better and I was like,
that's exactly what I wanted.
725
00:31:04,300 --> 00:31:07,700
I wanted to be a with book
before that I read this post and
726
00:31:07,700 --> 00:31:09,700
I wanted to be something that
people could feel like.
727
00:31:09,700 --> 00:31:11,900
Yeah, I can do that, I can do
that.
728
00:31:12,000 --> 00:31:15,200
And by working those areas where
they might have some opportunity
729
00:31:15,200 --> 00:31:17,900
to be stronger as a leader, they
could actually make the whole
730
00:31:17,900 --> 00:31:19,600
organization better.
So actually in the back of the
731
00:31:19,600 --> 00:31:21,700
book is really fun.
It says yeah, this is nice, but
732
00:31:21,700 --> 00:31:24,300
I need help now and so because
it's organized and all these
733
00:31:24,300 --> 00:31:26,700
pieces and there's little like
there's a principle like look
734
00:31:26,700 --> 00:31:28,600
for diamonds in the dirt, you
know, that's a lead.
735
00:31:28,600 --> 00:31:30,400
I can see.
See, I can see excellence in
736
00:31:30,400 --> 00:31:32,200
somebody, they can't see
themselves because that's normal
737
00:31:32,200 --> 00:31:33,600
to that.
If I don't call it out, they
738
00:31:33,600 --> 00:31:35,100
don't know it and we can't use
it.
739
00:31:35,100 --> 00:31:37,400
So, you know, and here's ways to
think about the people and, you
740
00:31:37,400 --> 00:31:38,900
know, whatever it was.
So it's a little tiny
741
00:31:38,900 --> 00:31:41,600
five-minute exercised around
this one principal and those are
742
00:31:41,608 --> 00:31:43,400
the kind of things I have in
there, but at the end of the
743
00:31:43,400 --> 00:31:46,200
book it says, hey my people are
not really making the impact.
744
00:31:46,200 --> 00:31:49,400
They want, we're not making the
results and I find a lot of
745
00:31:49,408 --> 00:31:51,200
backtracking.
You might want to look at
746
00:31:51,200 --> 00:31:53,300
diamonds in the dirt for
yourself and your team and then
747
00:31:53,400 --> 00:31:54,700
it refers you back to that
section.
748
00:31:54,700 --> 00:31:58,100
So you sort of like a self-help
diagnostic to figure out where
749
00:31:58,100 --> 00:32:00,100
could I be better?
And so Yeah, I think we're
750
00:32:00,100 --> 00:32:02,600
almost out of the initial
Printing and we do like online
751
00:32:02,600 --> 00:32:05,800
stuff, but it's pretty cool to
have people come and say we're
752
00:32:05,800 --> 00:32:08,800
using this for our masters
degree program effective,
753
00:32:08,800 --> 00:32:11,000
Business Leaders.
And that's our curriculum.
754
00:32:11,000 --> 00:32:12,500
And we're just going through
that and working all these
755
00:32:12,500 --> 00:32:14,800
exercises ourselves last super
excited.
756
00:32:14,800 --> 00:32:18,600
Yeah, that's always wonderful to
know that it's easy to catch on
757
00:32:18,600 --> 00:32:20,300
its mission accomplished for
you.
758
00:32:20,300 --> 00:32:23,200
As far as conversation across
the kitchen table and it's
759
00:32:23,200 --> 00:32:26,500
something that people can
actually put into practical use.
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Well done.
Yeah, thanks.
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I did have three of our clients.
Together.
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They conspired.
And they called me and said,
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okay, this is nice and
everything.
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We need a cohort based
leadership program that runs for
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like six to nine months and we
want to send all our people and
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I'm like well it's a
do-it-yourself book.
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You don't you know of course we
do coaching and they said well
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how about if we pre-fund it?
How many slots can we buy ahead
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of time?
And then you can take that money
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work with a curriculum designer.
Make it happen.
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That was three years ago right
before endemic.
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So we're in our third cohort,
the Ripple leadership program
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where we do this with some
coaching and things and mostly
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purpose-driven businesses
virtually, all you know, there
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be Orbs and small Giants also,
great game of business players,
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you know, these folks that are
really trying to build leaders
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from the ground up and it's a
blast, that's wonderful.
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Oh my gosh.
So then aside from your cohort,
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how can people get in touch with
you?
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How can people learn more about
trebuchet and working with your
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organization?
Yes.
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Well, trebuchet.
Group.com is probably the best
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place.
We've got some really fun videos
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of clients and things on that
site.
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It has a link to the rip
leadership program.
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It has a link to some of our
other things and basically it
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says, hey let's have a
conversation.
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Action because there's no
one-size-fits-all it's about the
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conversation of Discovery we can
see, I don't know.
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What could we do?
What's great look like and how
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might we partner, so that would
be really wonderful and there's
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lots of tools and things on
their people can just take in
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use and try to be better.
I really encourage the B Corp
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Community to check it out and
whatever things they'd like or
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questions they want to ask me
even have a 20-minute no
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obligation whatsoever.
Just ask a question and we'll
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just work through whatever we
can do to discover things
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together and hopefully that
helps people.
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That sounds amazing.
Chris Hutchinson, thank you so
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much for joining me today on
Road.
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Role Models I really appreciate
it.
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I'm sort of embarrassed to think
of myself as a role model and I
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love that you're highlighting,
people that can help other
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people make a difference in
their lives.
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It's all about being an
inspiration and spreading
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inspiration, so that people can
be better at everything that
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they do.
Thank you again, thank you so
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much.