Episode 14: Allera Dawn - Want Money & Abundance? Tap Your Intuition

0:07 Hello, beautiful humans. Welcome to another episode of Role Models juicy conversations with beautiful humans. I'm Jennifer Norman founder of the human Beauty movement and your host, today's guest is an intriguing one, eat Al arid on, alera, is known as the modern-day High Priestess. She's a spiritual Wellness expert, a Sighs dimensional energy, healer and a business coach, she specializes in helping High Achievers. Now, we're talking c-suite. Millionaires, she helps them heal from past. Trauma awaken their soul, potential rewrite, their scripts and amplify wealth. Alera brings an unconventional perspective, she discovered and mastered her intuitive gifts all the while working for nearly 20 years.

0:54 In Investment Banking. Welcome Valera. Thank you so much for having me. Jul. It to have you now I find it. So fascinating to hear stories about how people find themselves at a Crossroads. Particularly at a crossroad where there's norm and culture of a career path that perhaps conflicts with who the person is are how the person lives outside that career and you are one of those extraordinary humans who had a career in global Investment Banking. You worked for JPMorgan, UBS Morgan Stanley HSBC and Merrill Lynch. Now these are some Serious organizations. Yep. And a very male dominant. No BS industry, right? At the same time you were a coming out as an intuitive healer.

1:39 I would love for you to share your story about how this all began. Yeah, so I guess if we go right the way back my waking if we want to call it that wasn't necessarily whilst in finance. So I had to near-death experiences as this kind of the path with those that have these kind of lineages and gifts. So I woke up thinking it was quite normal to be able to tune into Things. Or I think, one of my earliest memories was actually seeing people walking through walls as a tiled. So obviously lots of people close their gifts down because of that and a lot of people now are remembering those things. So, I had lots of experiences, we're growing up, I kind of shut those things out. A lot of the time and really tried to keep myself in the spiritual closet and the things that I did observe internalized, a lot of it.

2:25 So I got to about 18, I'd been in a kind of stressful, emotional. Really, abusive upbringing and that meant I made a decision at that point to leave home at 18. I cut contact with my family and decided to make a big choice of actually. I'm going to find my way in the world. That was what led me into Finance. So it became this opportunity that I suddenly was propelled into this environment but I didn't have a lineage that was in banking or finance. And if anything I saw the positivity of the opportunities yet I was constantly And part of me back to a degree because there wasn't that unique expression at that time, this would be 98 99 in that environment.

3:08 And then it got fast forward to when I was about 28 29. And I had this huge kind of Turning Point and it was found the 2008 crash, I changed jobs. So I went from UBS to Morgan Stanley, so job uncertainty just as we ended up getting the 2008 crash, then my grandmother died. And after that, I suddenly getting all these Signs and these intuitive downloads, and these kind of, like, warning, things really trying to get me to come back to my center. And at the time I was engaged, I was about to get married. I'd been in a 7 half year relationship, we have this life that, you know, the great holidays. We put both in finance. So we both have this kind of magazine luxury, type experience, that people would have aspired to, but I knew that I was deeply, not in alignment, there was something missing and I was actually quite lonely in that relationship.

3:57 And I have this big kind of wake-up call. And I decided to cancel my wedding. I left the relationship and within three weeks had left my home that I owned and moved out and started my life again. And it was really at that point, that when I was been rebuilding my life, all of my spiritual stuff, started switching on whilst I was still in the bank. So I was then really going through my own healing Journey, which took me through going for therapy myself and I was noticing at that time that I was beginning to become. More sensitive to environments and where I was and it was obviously a lot of stress in those kind of a lot of, you know, people thinking they're going to lose their jobs, there was a market crash.

4:39 So I had that on top of all the other stuff I was going through but it really kind of carved out for me. After that first year that, I don't want someone else to go through the same experiences I had. And it really allowed me to dig into the roots of the relationship and all of those kind of things. And it put me on a healing journey to start retraining as a, at the time. Gestalt Are pests and then later, clinical hypnotherapist. And at the time I thought I'll just, you know, I'll meet someone, I have children or set up a little side hustle, that'll be it. And then my soul just kicked in and everything changed from about 2014 and it was like this kind of fast track where I'd qualified and had this kind of period of, you know, change jobs again. And then suddenly all of the other stuff came in. And I felt that there was no way that I could be in this up and listen.

5:29 Garment not authentic to myself. I was like I cannot and I'd stop drinking by that point. I change huge groups of friends. It's all about coming into alignment and I didn't really know that and it obviously was over kind of a period of time. But I realized that whenever I was doing something that was out of alignment, I was actually getting a physical response to my body and it would actually feel like my heart was being compressed. But energetically, my body felt looked and I was beginning to become much more sensory aware of, you know, am I being true to myself? Minot and at that point, I had actually had long, very dark hair. And I had this kind of, like just felt like I wanted to change though. The people at work had, kind of seen me. Join in may be met with long. Very dark hair, but it went to like almost platinum, blond wavy, massive changes.

6:17 I was like, you know what? I'm going to come in and feel and be exactly how I need to be. So I had my crystals on the desk, I was very out about going off and doing my meditations or clearing my energy. I've made sprays and stuff for being On the desk, by my dolls on the trading floor and the irony was at the time, my team was quite diverse anyway. So everyone was quite eccentric. I would say there was an acceptance of it but what I realized is after a while people started being that all, if you got any of that spray, I just had a really funny phone call and they'd be there scooting away like trying to feel a bit better and gradually. It became a point where I knew I was getting these nudges that I needed to set the business up and what started happening was people started coming Help. So whether it is in the street like accidents happening or people coming into my life with something, I was getting the download of what was going on and it was like I was if you don't say yes to stepping into your soul path, we're going to bring it to you.

7:16 So it was like this constant knocking on the door and I had to get approval to set my business up. So I had to explain to my boss and she approved thankfully and it kind of really went from there. So I knew that if I was not able to be authentically myself in that role in that environment, my team's or my soul would move me, it was almost like I was really feeling very divinely guided with what I was doing and there was not like this massive business plan it was like I just knew there was a need to get the work and the medicine I'd created through my own transformation out there, somehow know it kind of really evolved from that. And yeah, it was an interesting environment doing that in that very male-dominated.

7:59 It's and I would say that now obviously I've evolved far more than, you know, I did then and I think it was a test really, for myself of, how can I be true to myself? You know, where am I silencing myself? Where am I not using my voice, but it also showed me, perhaps where people's judgments were because the more, I cleared up my own stuff, the more I could see what was being projected against me. Mmm, tell me what that conversation was like with your boss. Because I think that a lot of people might be able to relate to the fact that That there's something holding them back, whether it be in career or whether it's in a relationship, no matter what it is. It's like there has to be this coming to realization. As you had a, I'm not being true to myself and I feel that I'm really not happy or I'm not as liberated as I need to be in what I'm doing because of XYZ.

8:50 There's some sort of inhibition or a blockage and then you discovered that if you could go to your boss and say this is how I'd like to operate or This is what I would love to be able to build within my work, tell me what that conversation was like and then what it was like after that. So I had a female boss at the time and I'm quite lucky in that the turbos got on very well and I came in and I'm one of these people that kind of, I was brought in with fresh eyes. So, I was kind of highlighting things that pertained and people get a bit like all she's coming in and stirring the pot, which my boss fight. But team at the time were a bit like whoa, this is she shaking things up so I actually Had that kind of Alliance already. We used to, you know, want to one's times go deeper to kind of grab it holds.

9:36 She was beginning to notice things herself. So I was quite glad that I had that relationship and connection with her. So she already knew that I'd qualified as a clinical hypnotherapist before and I just got this massive urge that I had to on the Monday, go in book The one-to-one and say, look, you know, I'm going to set this up. I don't know how this is going to go from my perspective, it's going to have no impact on my time. Energy. The work perspective, it's not going to overlap, it's not and at the time I wasn't really seeing where it was gonna go. It was more about, I had this real nudge that it had to be done. Little did I know who she was actually moving jobs. So if she had not approved it I would have had a completely new manager a week later who had no relationship with me.

10:21 Probably have said no, and it was Landing in timing. Again, it was like this bang, bang, bang. You've got to go. So I just had to be vulnerable with. It there was something within me that knew that if it was a no then I would have to find a way. And that would have rolled out in whatever way that would have needed to. Because the level of kind of work in the stuff that I'd been doing, it wasn't to be just sat doing Excel spreadsheets and sat behind a desk. There was something a bigger purpose, so it felt very Divine timed and then suddenly we all got moved it was all into different areas of the bank so it was always very much. Like I felt like there were sliding doors experiences throughout all of Like, there's always been these kind of things that have happened that, you know, you just have to trust and say, yes. And I think that's the thing.

11:06 It's like, that's what life is, so many of these points where there are million doors open to us, there are million timelines open to us at any one time but often when we're so distracted in the, what if or the fear or the distraction or projecting, what? We think someone's response is going to be, we can't see that they're all open here and we're just focusing on something that hasn't even happened. UND and it kept on bring me back to this like trust and knowing that you didn't go through all of these experiences and download all of this stuff but nothing you know you wouldn't then be put in front of a door that slammed in your face and I kept on having to reassure myself because you know, I'd come from an experience where there was a lot of disappointment growing up and there was a set point of good things happening and then being kind of stamped on.

11:55 So I had my own patterning but I was having to work through and overcome To start expecting the best to start to know that it's this and better and that you can start having abundance and overflow and that was not my set point and this is the irony I worked in a bank where obviously, we're not talking small numbers. We're talking like huge numbers and you become quite numb to that, but my upbringing and energetically. My set point was not that, you know, there was a lot of like, scarcity and game playing and manipulation in my household. So, you know, you're almost scared to show your success and that you were shining because somebody would have kind of stamped on it for some reason.

12:37 So, you know, I've had to work on my own knowing what is INS stuff that I need to clean up and not allow that to for me to be my own block, whether it was projecting that to other people because they feel it. So they're just going to respond back. So it was like a real thing about becoming very clear in my own energy and I realized the power of actually being able to reset before having these conversations Stations we set before going into the client meeting, I was a relationship managers be in different rooms and meetings and all the rest of it. And how knowing that if I came in, with the clear grounded, energy, people responded differently and I realized that my power is this kind of like my inner ability to take that time to reset and then things actually flowed.

13:24 And I started really playing with this a lot bear in mind. There was so much fear. There was so much you know, people are. It's not Fireman tits, you know, risk past decisions. So you're working with people that are in that energy so to not be swept into it. I as somebody that's highly empathetic and could easily get pulled into everything, it was a really a skill about me, I guess. Yeah. Being in the Lion's Den and holding my kind of centeredness amazing, amazing. And I can't tell you how many meetings over the course of my career, where I've been sitting there and then a leader would come in, and you could feel the residue of the Negative energy that had just happened, whether it be a phone call or a previous meeting.

14:04 And it was just this Cloud that would then impact negatively everything that was going on from henceforth it. And so that energy clearing I don't know if you do say G or it cleansers but it's like yeah being able to take that breath and just remove that from the field. Everybody does feel so much better in lighter and able to really concentrate on the issues at hand rather than anything that has been brought into the room - Wait. I think the convinced that she listened more, because a lot of people contract, the minute, you feel something funky, your bit like how I just keep myself quiet at this moment, you'll actually like a really important place for you to be heard and you don't because we're just responding to each other, right.

14:46 Right. And so were you able to do your work on payroll or was this something that you did on the side and it had like a side job that you were also collecting income from advising and counseling or was this? Integrated into your day job. No, so it's completely separate. So I set up a side hustle. My garden steam, basically, it was all like, limited company. Immediately absorbed to be registered. I was told that I had to have it launched by the 24th of August. I was told it had to be set up. So there was some systems in place that it was automated and that it was he ready to go Global? That's my teams are told me. So I'm like, just following on, you know, getting everything in place and it did and I was fully booked by the end of the year. I'd made back the money that I'd put into having everything done within the first three months and it's suddenly expanded. And at that time, I was using only Facebook like my business page, and then I later started evolving it into like, add an online program.

15:43 I had been coaching groups and then really expanded from there. So it's really evolved. I use Instagram more to be honest with the stories and just using it for like just a bit of branding just because you get caught up in the algo stuff. But yeah, I was Able to get it to a multiple six-figure business. So and that was was parallel. Yeah, great. So why did you need to ask permission for that? You have to have regulatory approval. If you bark in an organization like that, because they have to know about your outside interests to follow the protocol to get that approval because if I'd been doing that and it was maybe out of alignment with the, I don't know the rules or the Integrity.

16:26 I think it's also to look at if you're a Trader, which I wasn't, but if you had secondary trading accounts because I could have been exposed to sensitive information, I could have been doing other stuff, so it's just one of the compliance things. So I had to but there was a level of not getting too visible because obviously, it would have been in conflict with what I was doing. So there was actually still pieces for me to work through about visibility and then it got to a point where it's like, you just have to be fully expressed and get over this stuff and just put yourself. Ba and you know, that comes in layers anyway, and I think once I hired a marketing team, who then helped me do systematic stuff in the background like, clickfunnels and AD campaigns and that really just grew everything.

17:14 So it was over periods of time and it's been a ride in Jing. Like the people in my group. So, like you're the queen of pivoting because the minute, I notice, something's not working. I'm kind of killing into it and it's like, be ready to Pivot, I think. Is a something that is if you're an intuitive business owner, at this time, you have an advantage because you can really feel into what's actually flowing and what isn't? And if there was a level of force in anything that energy is always going to create some level of crunchy kind of block anyway. So I'm looking at things on a more of an energetic perspective of my business it's file which is interesting when you've got stuff like all the Algos doing their thing and yeah everything.

17:59 Changing as you probably know. Yeah, yeah. That's a whole other conversation of return or for sure. So how long was it that you were doing both that you were actually doing your your finances work? Yeah. Until 2020. So 3 is oh, wow. Yeah, and you were able to manage and maintain both aspects. I'm well I think it was. It was my job with quite unique because I was multi-asset class meaning. It's cross product. So every product that the clients were traded so I was used to spinning plates or as you some See, that's used to being able to hold broad spectrums of information, really. So for me to add something else on the system's, that's why it was so important having that it could actually take care of itself.

18:41 And I had somebody that I would literally just email my blog posts over to and he would set everything up on my website and everything. So I had to support, I had like a mini team if we want to call that. So I didn't try and do all of it on my own but yeah there was a level of juggling and it also just meant that I had to make choices about what was most important. 10. I also had to be really clear with myself about my energy, like women, any of that program of like self-sacrifice or I had to be really like, what am I playing into it this time because you know there's only one of you and there's only 24 hours in this day so I want to be using it in the most impactful way. So I had to stay noted things and that also meant you know I didn't drink so I was not kind of out going to parties or bars or anything, you know.

19:28 And that was the opposite from my Twenties. So it was kind of like this Evolution into working towards purpose and stepping away from the distractions. And the things that I was doing that were really hiding a gap, an ominous really? Yeah. Yeah, absolutely. And so you have some interesting stories about the Confluence of your work in finance and then some of your intuition, can you share some of those? Yes, it was always very synchronistic. So we talked about like, you say something, then, it kind of happens. So we were in this Conference call and it was the whole of the London team and then the main new manager. So, this person that didn't really know me and my team had already got quite used to the fact that well she's just going to come out with something that's going to be something magical going on.

20:14 It became the running joke. So my London team knew so I was sat there and he had his presentation in front of him. That he trying to tell us about this directive and they were like, maybe five or six points and because I'm a channel, I was I basically channeled what the fuck? Five Points were so this got. So if you can imagine, you've got this presentation and the person is on the other side of the world has never seen your presentation and basically delays it back as ideas because I was just getting them as I did. So he was like as any of you got any thoughts or feedback? And I said, yeah and I basically relate everything that was on his page and he was like, wait a minute, how did you just do this?

20:54 It's like and he was really like, perplex, like, how did you just do this? You have literally just said of For my page. These are you psychic and he was obviously joking and I said yes I am and my whole team just burst out laughing. It was this kind of like you know running joke and I don't I'm trying to think I don't let him in person at that time. So this was obviously quite a unique introduction to your London group that you're trying to pump. If you've got somebody that's basically can order your whole presentation, he was a bit like does that mean you can read minds? Well, he was a bit like, wondering my birthday A good thing, a bad thing. Or what did I know what I got on really well with him. And actually, he, we spent two hours in a car, going to client meetings one afternoon.

21:38 And I was very open with some of the stuff, you know, I'd picked up on things in the office and energetic stuff and I shared it with him. I think, you know, I got my job done. Well, my clients liked me. I was performing to had value there and if anything he was like you're not Beliebers are you? So he was kind of like happy that I was eccentric. Happy that the conversations were A bit more interesting than he probably had with other people which would have been, you know. So it was accepting of me talking about stuff that in the grand scheme of things. When I came back and told the team, what I'd be talking to the big boss about. They like really, you said that and I'm like yeah, of course because I'm just going to be myself and when you come at it with my energy, people receive it, you know, I said to him, I'll stay in this role as long as I can be myself, and it doesn't restrict me and he was just happy. Happy that I was not leaving.

22:31 So it's, you know, the expectation that a lot of the time when we worry about what the outcomes could be, we never tend to think about what could be the best outcome. That's often harder to grab because I wouldn't have been able to think of that and it kind of kept on knocking at the door of. It can go to your advantage, it can be a positive outcome. You can be all of you and evolved because I was doing so much in a work, you know, I was changing so many beliefs. I was I think a lot and people would have felt that, you know, I think that's kind of what all of us are being asked to do a little bit at the moment, aren't we? Yeah, I love the idea of thinking about best case scenario, often times were just trained. What is the worst case scenario?

23:14 And let's hedge our bets against failure or let's head your bets against risk rather than thinking like what is the absolute best thing. And all of these open doors, all of these opportunities that we forget, that are around us because we cannot see them from our vantage point. Don't have. Yeah. Eating it's like lessons constant. Lessons to make me peel some level of Illusion from myself. I love the fact that that particular individual and seemingly your work environment was so open to people's differences to you being yourself and to allowing you to be as you say you are eccentric you I think that it's interesting because now it seems like the world itself is that this kind of Crossroad of like business finding itself.

23:57 The way that we used to work in the way that we Consider what professional was and structured in the past is that it's been detrimental to mental health, emotional health, and creativity. It stifles people like this why would have been the Pioneer being the way. I was kind of also gave others permission to be a bit more, you know, and I would always be looking at the opposite perspectives and looking outside the lines, that's kind of part of my gift. And that also expanded people to allow themselves to give themselves a bit of a slap, I think, Especially with the women. A lot of them were very much in their masculine energy. There was a lot of having to prove themselves. Yeah, not looking after needs not taking lunch breaks, my nickname was boundaries at one point because I was the one that set the boundaries I would say no not in an aggressive way but in a way that is authentic and alignment and I would be given reasons but that was out of the Realms of that environment.

24:54 And I was also stepping into doing a lot of the divine feminine work doing my inner healing. So Funny bringing that into that space was very different energy and it also then kind of triggered other people to question, how they were operating. Because if I could do it, and the place didn't blow up by me saying, no, then that gives someone else permission as well. The one that took the first steps in certain things and I think that's powerful that people don't hold themselves back from it because they project the worst case scenario. And I've recently collaborated with the global equality Collective which is The first Global diversity and inclusion app for business, education and home.

25:35 And they're looking at this stuff, you know, looking at our work environments, looking at Total Wellness, is what I call it. So it's where those spiritual mental, emotional and physical wellness, rather than just chopping it up. So, I feel that there's a real appetite of how do we support our employees that have just had, you know, the past three years of trauma are our management teams able to actually Lead with empathy and there's big gaps there and the big gaps can't you know, we can overcome them through doing inner work and that's essentially what I'm kind of being asked to do is to go in there and you know do some existential work, this isn't like take a box. It's like, no, we need to understand what is yours and what's theirs and we find that by doing the inner stuff. So the bring that into those environments, people are ready for it.

26:24 I feel and I think it's one of those things like even with what's happened in the world recently. Only the global investment banks have been the first that have said that they will cover travel for people that need to go out of their state, to get a portion or support Etc. What I've noticed is, those people will make those decisions very quickly and then all the other organizations, all the other Banks, everybody follows sweet. So it's kind of like the trickle effect or the ripple effect and we just have to trust that that is in motion. And, you know, if one organization has a big change in inspires people don't work there, it's not about it. Being perfect in the next five minutes but it is emotion. And it's hard to see that when there is so much chaos in the world at this time, but I'm deeply kind of connected into some of these different systems including the birthing a child through like butter, Keepers and doulas.

27:14 That is another big conversation that's going to be coming up but we need to have it but we need to do it in a way that we create solutions that are going to help everybody as well. So yeah, there's definitely change and interest and I do think People care what I think when I've had conversations with people, I think some of the biggest limitations is that they think others don't care. I don't think that's 100% truth. I think there are minorities that don't see the bigger picture and don't understand but then we can educate and change things that way and you know you've just got to trust that I'm there in those positions and I'm getting involved in these conversations to make a difference. Yeah and I'm not the only one doing it. And part of that is in truth, people project that people don't care because they themselves. Cells can't see past their own pain. And there are looking at the world through the filter of their own wounds.

28:06 And so from that perspective, it's kind of like what is that inward work? What is that, that we can help people, to shine a light and say, okay. This was my perspective, and this is how I can move forward by flipping the script on what my past limiting beliefs were about myself. And like all of these wonderful opportunities that are before me, that, I just couldn't see before because I was very much closed in, And so I think that it's interesting, as you were saying like there is this new Awakening. I think that over the past several years it's definitely accelerated. A lot of people talk about the fact that we are starting to step out of the masculine and into the divine feminine phase of our timeline. And what that means, it certainly means more empathy and more creativity.

28:50 It could also mean more chaos because the feminine energy does equate to chaos. That is what my creativity is about. So what is your perspective? Devon what kinds of things that people might be feeling as we're ascending into this new part of time. So there's two pieces. One, you're going to have so many different people at different dimensional levels of consciousness. So I think there's even more this accentuation of not being understood or heard or whatever else or where's my clan, where's my tribe? Because almost we find a tribe and we do deeper work than the others and we evolved in our path and our timelines. So there's this element of we're having multiple lies within a life. And the relationships that we had, could have been a whole timeline that would have had children and marriage and everything.

29:35 Now, it's been compressed into fonts because you were both so quick together. Mmm, so it's like, when we start to realize that we, there's going to be some people that are choosing the karmic route, where they are working for contracts and obligation and trying to learn through Loops. You're going to have lots of that. They are likely to be looking at the outer reality and believing it rather than that. They have power to shift things and that Are energetically contributing to the outer reality when you're going to have others who are people that I've come across, that have not had the deeper trauma as they've not had those experiences that have also meant that they're here to break ancestral lineage stuff. They're the ones that often they're healers or the wise people, whatever else. So there's that demographic.

30:19 But I'm also seeing that there are some people that have contracted not to come in with that level. However, the awareness of quantum physics and the physics of consciousness, Business that is going to drop for them and that's going to be the people. Their blueprint is they're the ones that are in my different areas of society that will be making the changes from the inside out. So we've kind of got so many people that having completely different reality experiences at different Consciousness levels that in itself is. Yeah, I've really I've noticed it even more myself and I think that that means you have to have this come back to myself, come back to myself, recognize that your go to bed tonight. And tomorrow, it's all reset and feels different. And I think sometimes if we can remind ourselves, that this moment is there is change happening. Don't get caught up on this outer reality and struggle. And if anything, your power is not to push and force, and try and fix and finish something.

31:15 Now, it's actually to step away from it. Drop your focus and attention. So it's almost like most people might be, well, that's that's irresponsible but when I take my focus energy off it and Go for a walk and change State. Yeah. This energy changes its formation its power. And often I get the download the solution and things flow again. So it's like when we start to realize that we are we have a, we have an opportunity to maybe work the way we interact. The way we can throw in our environments. I feel like there's people that are anchoring back way of being in our new workplaces at home and that is going to invite others to see.

31:58 But they can step out of struggle, but it's a dance, and it's kind of or so. Yeah, you're going against the mental constructs of everything you've known because to say there's a big to-do list in a problem and then take a step away from it. You know, brings up so much monkey mind. I mean obviously if we're doing it consciously because we're not just avoiding, but there's an element of if we look at it. From a perspective of this is nothing's Richard. Nothing's this equals this equals this. It's like all of its play. It's kind of, like, Quantum play. So So this is part of the new education, the new game. And yeah, I think some people going to really struggle with that, but that's, that's all part of it, isn't it ready? Yeah. Yeah, I recall leg when I went through my period of Awakening into more spirituality, it did seem like everything was not as it seemed.

32:47 Everything was upside down inside out, turned on its head and I find it. So ironic that what we coin as counterintuitive like, well, you know, working on a problem and focusing on the problem by stepping away, as you were saying, Is actually be solution, you know, it's counterintuitive via that is what intuition is and because there are that works when you just let the energy continue to allow, that's where it happens and I think that that is one of the secrets to actually helping to embrace and expand your own intuition, isn't it? Yeah, definitely. And I think who's so allowing yourself to feel good? So actually, if we strip everything back and say, well, your job is actually to feel good the in your body that needs to be energy. A emotion.

33:29 Your job is to, you know, look after this vessel that you chose, you are a vessel for divine source and soul. Meaning that the more that you are tuned into that. And actually keeping alignment with that, everything else actually does flow. But we've been taught the opposite, you know, we jump out of bed with straight into a to-do list. Women are running lots of programs of self-sacrifice. We're disassociated and we're running towards some kind of to-do list. There is a re-education almost that needs to have them. It comes from substrates such as well. And that's the key thing. Because often the to-do list will never go, even if I drop dead. This one moment, I'm still going to have a ton of mess and to do lists. So there's no point trying to finish this stuff and it's almost like we create separation between everything we want. You know, the happiness comes once. I've done all this to do list or happiness comes when I've lost the weight and it's like no, you need to focus on how you feel at this moment and the rest of it, let the chips fall. All exactly.

34:30 It's essentially getting yourself into that feeling and into that envisioning of that happiness, that joy that feeling that you've already achieved it. And that it is there that it's in your Vortex. And you've already got it rather than feeling to your point. Like, there's a goal to be had, there's a stepping stone. Like, there's only these steps and then only after that will, I get the golden ring or the prize, or the this and then that it's not separation Consciousness. And, you know, it's realizing that your crate It as well. So like you know what are the things that can really tap into Joy or abundance? I mean, literally nature is probably the clearest thing to connect with but really immerses you back into abundance.

35:11 Mean, how many Blades of grass? How many roses are there? How many it's like, literally start to really appreciate that and spend a bit of time, you know, that is a communication with the elements and that starts to affect the energetically. So the more that we start to recognize the small Things because it is the small things like for me after being in the office and a commute and all those kind of experiences just about to sit in my garden if the cap of coffee bird singing. And I think to myself my boards, like what I would have done a few years ago for those small moments that aren't costing any money. I'm not going anywhere, not buying anything. I'm not doing anything. I'm just experiencing just this spaciousness to just have that time for be not even a long time. And I just think that actually that is what people need a bit of freedom.

35:58 Have even if they are you know they're going to be working from home or they're going to be in the office to allow people to have that little space. So why is their frequency? How they feel? They feel like they're nurturing themselves. That shift so much in Consciousness, how they feel and work environments and everything else. And I kind of feel like we need to accept that. We do need to have breaks from things we do. And that's how we get into that state and that's how we start to create from a more co-creative intention. I based way because we're putting ourselves first and our needs fast and feeling good fast. Yeah. Yeah, I love that one. Other thing that I've been so fascinated by which is also quite ironic yet and surprising but it seems like for those who are in the tech industry and thinking about where technology and Innovation is leading Us in this 3D space up to various levels of quantum Fielding.

36:53 It's almost like first this idea of creativity and play the with technology and then Kind of be super humans where our reality is less in the physical form. Then it goes to the internet and then it goes into the conscious Collective and it goes to Virtual Reality then it goes to the metaverse and then all of these things like what is your take on, how the way that we are innovating is almost following along a spiritual Continuum. So from my perspective, I look at morphic fields of reality so we can look at morphogenic, resonance morphic fields are essentially every Consciousness field. So, So, everything that you look at, when you're say scrolling through somebody's page, any interaction that gives permission to you, to access that field and permission back to. We're going kind of into the quantum communication morphic field of resonant stuff.

37:42 So when we start putting our energy anywhere, where we sharing it, and what we co-creating with, and what is the intention and the vibrational frequency, and what is the agreement of being in those spaces? So when we're talking like metaverse, What is actually going on in there and you know, I'm somebody that can tap into many different fields of reality and every playground has a different rule set and has different players and different game players and you don't necessarily want to be in those places. So it's kind of like from my perspective. I see it in the same way whether it is something we've created through a computer and you know augmented reality or whether it is another realm that we Connecting into they all have this almost like if you could look at it as a playground who players, what are the rules?

38:34 Mmm, you know, and that's the level of discernment in the same way that when I'm teaching clients when they're kind of going through finding their intuition and maybe connecting with guides and and having recognizing that everything's about a relationship when we're looking into the Unseen Realms. So it's about you need to have energetic boundaries you do not just say yes to whatever being or whatever space you're going. Two in the same way you should do in the metaverse. You wouldn't just say yes to some being and take guidance from it without knowing who it is in the same way. You wouldn't walk up to someone in the street and take Financial advice of it. You get some people taking all their advice or Spirit guides who have never had physical incarnations. So it's almost like, if we look at Consciousness in that way, the boundary is that we have in the physical reality. We also need to have in these spaces and energetic reality is as well, because there is an energy exchange, there's an energy Exchange John different dimensional planes of reality, and there are energy exchanges going into some of these spaces as well.

39:34 The why would not be using that kind of thing? Because I'm very conscious of where I'm sharing my energy. Mmm, so it's taking it to that next level people talk about energy boundaries, and we need to consider like, where are we going into energetically, fascinating, and a separate note, because there are so many people who are going through this spiritual change and elevated consciousness. They're now having a hard time with the 3D, they're having a hard time living in The Matrix and they don't know what to make of it and they're getting a bit overwhelmed because they're like, gosh, this is where I feel like I need to be living, but there are mandates in there are rules and there were requirements and I got to make a living and I got to work and and it's mostly Financial but it's also relationships and such and they're finding it hard to integrate the to do.

40:23 You have any advice for those people? What think the the space by, you know, Know that you are beginning to outgrow where you've been so say you like you've got the 925 and you know that you've outgrown it energetically, you've outgrown that timeline but there's maybe this Divine timing thing where you're waiting to launch into the business or do whatever. It is. Often that frustration actually delays, everything and I tell my clients that. Why don't you view this current position? This current job is your angel investor. So this is money that you get to It takes the pressure off you having to go through your next evolution of money story healing, which you do when you start to basically earn your own money.

41:08 And you're the one that needs to generate that and you recognize that your business is an energetic entity and relationship to you. So when you are out of whack and chaos and whatever else, it will affect your money flow in your business and other areas. When you've got this stable, 925 and the side hustle, you have a bit of a buffer, this angel investor allows As you to save money, put some money for training, do whatever else it is to stabilize this. So I kind of get people to see it from that perspective because it gives you a level of safety though. Inside you're like I just want to jump actually the transition energetically, but also the identity shift that you go through when you left like a big industry for a long time.

41:51 You know, I had a big change of like well my god I've identified so much with who I was because I worked in finance, you know? Twenty years and that in itself is a big thing on top of suddenly I've got to keep this business going and there's recession. There's a pandemic. Everything needs to Pivot, you know, constantly the grounds changing on these platforms. So I personally would say, allow your business entity, give it a chance to stabilize by using the angel investor. So it's a change of mindset, it's a reframe. It's also beginning to allow you to, although it's the Frustrations a lot of the time with this 3D stuff that means we actually attract more of it.

42:34 So the more that we are like dealing with people and getting annoyed with them, we lower our vibration, and we Attract it. And, you know, I'm somebody that kind of I like the flow. So when it's kind of interrupted, because I may be on a call center phone and somebody's just, you know, whatever. It's been a real test for me to get it to neutral because I know energetically if I can keep Into neutral, this conversation this whatever's playing out in the 3D is not worth bringing chaos in because I've got annoyed with whatever's going on. And I mean, this is like this is part of our kind of lessons and honing skills, but I know how powerful is to the degree that I had a leak in my flat and suddenly I was, you know, you go into the drama of how it's going to like affect your day. And then, I thought stop because I'm just creating chaos for myself.

43:27 So, I just stepped back. And I quickly reset and I kind of stepped away from it and actually the leak stopped. And she even need to have anything done to, it wasn't particularly bad and I just allowed everything else to flow. And this is taken time because I realized that I used to think I was getting all these negative things happening to me and these things were talking me and they were coming in like almost not I'm under attack but it's that kind of belief system and it's us creating it from our frustration often. Hmm, where we want to be and things not working, and it's recognizing that we create that, but we also create what we want. And it's this two sides of the same coin.

44:08 Yeah, it's a part of self-mastery and energetically. Resetting clearing my energy. If I go into chaos has been key for me, you know, it's like clear my energy rather than react and create a momentum that I don't want in whatever it is and you know, often when we're taking a big leap Beep, or the technical stuff comes in, you get something, wonky happening, and being able to be as neutral as you can and allow it to drop away and often it will that has been something. I'm going through a big leap at the moment with things like, you know, expanding into and I've noticed really playing with that. And I noticed it back in 2017. When I was creating that first program, all the technical weird stuff happening with the sound and everything.

44:53 I was recording. And now it's like no I know what's going on here. I need to really reset. Take a step back, and then it blows again, so, knowing that rather than their, some big decision, that's blocking you, it's the mindset thing of what you're projecting, the expect that you've got this far. And then I'm either going to fail or somebody's going to say no. And so, there's something outside of you. Mmm. But it's snowing, it's ours. Yeah, and that's where the power of having a coach or working with someone, it's because straight away. I'm like, here's your blind spot. This is what you're doing. This is really what's happening. And energetically you've actually got a pattern and that you're running because this is what feels very familiar. It comes in from this experience, the actually is your mum's and you learned it from her and you've taken it on and that's why you operate. So now, you got conscious awareness, let's clear the whole line and that's kind of how I work. So it allows me to be very, very conscious in how an operating. And, you know, obviously we're human and we have all these things happening.

45:50 But one of the big pieces of Guidance with everything that's going on, at the moment, in the world which seems actually Bonkers was that everything divinely as where it needs to be. 8 and the level of work that people have done to shift their lower energies in the pain. And the suffering that has meant that all of this Shadow that's coming up. It actually releases more of it in the collective Consciousness, meaning mainstream can see it. And that's of the back of us doing so much of our own work. It's now ready for the mainstream to plow through it and we start to make physical change. So what might seem like where else is, you know, another volcano goes off actually. It's Announce that this stuff is hidden until there is enough of it cleared and it comes surface. So there's a lot of people doing stuff like gridwork land work, individual ancestral, work, during the deeper stuff, this is the kind of stuff I do with my communities as well and then you start to see it will come up somewhere else, but when mainstream has witness of it, they can make changes. So know that there's, you know, it can be very easy to just be like very discouraged by everything and I completely get that I like our Humanity.

46:58 It was that and we see other people suffering and it's not by passing that, but it's knowing that I described it as the building has to come down before the Newcastle can be built and the message that came through the other day. Tothe the Egyptian god I was channeling was that we're in demolition phase. So it means we're in progress. It means they're in that process of. Okay, we need to now build so it's trusting that and trusting that we're in a cycle of that happening. In all areas, that essentially, Lee have been out of balance and I have to admit I despite everything that's going on in the world it's a great time to be alive. It is a really exciting time to be able to witness at such a fast pace in this timeline. All the changes that are going on and so if we can just stop for a moment and putting Calamity aside putting all of the distress aside realize that it is for a better tomorrow. It is for the expansion of the universe. It's for the good of the collective and we're here. Or the betterment of all of that, we're here to witness it and to do the work for ourselves and truly, the work starts with ourselves because we have to being self-aware and identify what we can about our true nature and our true purpose, and our dharma's, and all of that.

48:14 And then from there realize the ripple effect that we can have on others. I think this also to let people know because a lot of people have been typing healing for years and things changed and I hear it all the time. It's not like, you know, you're being haunted by your past but it just means that with every upgrade like it. So I find it really interesting with people. So what the Quantum Leap? Well, that means you need to be ready to go fast and money, likes to move fast to move in to support us, but often our nervous system.

48:58 Gets frightened into fight or flight by anything moving fast. So when we're in fight or flight, we will pop and logistically what we want. So there's this dichotomy of everyone trying to manifest. I want this that the other will you say yes to the University of, I desire, this I want this, you're going to have to make the shift in the changes to get there quickly. So there's an element of, if we know that we kind of have to go through the clearing to then expand to receive more, more light, more frequency, more money, and more support, everything. Thing. And we know that that's part of that cycle and we're initiating it by the more demands we make in the more desires, we have wiggle castrating this momentum.

49:39 So we know that we're going to have some clearing work to do. If we want to go to the next level. We proactively there, we get to ride the waves rather than them crashing hours. And that's really been a big thing of what I teach and how I've helped women the past few years because my soul has this thing where it wants to bring through all of it. Ask gifts and everything and that pretty much means I'm going to line you up with some experience. Go into it, transform it, and rebirth it. So I'm kind of used to this, it's like a 40 day cycle, usually at the moment but that kind of comes into past lives as a high priestess and initiates and the way that we used to work, my soul is wanting to operate like that so I can lead others that are wanting to go and accelerated Pace as well but not everybody likes to go fast.

50:27 It's a bit like Whoa, where am I going? Yeah. They used to like in is like driving in a race car fast up against the wall on the left lane you know, you got to be prepared for it. Well alerts on our conversation was fascinating. Thank you so much for being on the role models podcast today and we will put all of your information in the show notes below. I encourage everybody to look up a lurid on and get to know her work. Thank you very much, thank you for having day.